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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 11:42:06 AM   
angelikaJ


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My question to the OP is why would you assume those of us who are here are seeking?
Usually, if we are seeking we list it in our profiles.

There are many reasons why one who is "taken" might choose to be a part of this forum.
In my case, I like the exchange of information and knowledge as well as keeping in touch with a few people I feel fortunate to have gotten to know well enough to call "friend".

(And there is something about getting a cmail from Him, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, even though we often communicate through other means.)

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 11:56:27 AM   
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I'm one of those people who came once I was already in a relationship. My D and I met through another forum with a (comparatively small) BDSM sub-section, so I've never used CM as a way to meet partners. I'm here partially to read the forums, partially to make contact with other like-minded people, and partially for the schadenfreude I get from internet drama and posts like the OP's.

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 12:31:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I've seen several new post that say.."TAKEN"  or "OWNED"   to my thinking
why come on this site to just say you belong to someone already........Why? What is the purpose?
Enlighten me as to the reason behind this practice.


Because there is a lot more to this site than just being a pick up place. You're in the forums, so you already know one reason to be here. Or do you think those of us who are owned don't have valid opinions or reason to participate? There are also chat rooms, video chat rooms, movies and more. You have an unfortunately narrow view of the purpose of CollarMe.

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 12:43:19 PM   
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Maybe their proud of being owned and want to announce same to the world.. like wearing a wedding ring. Giv

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 1:10:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

(And there is something about getting a cmail from Him, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, even though we often communicate through other means.)


Oh yes I SO know what you mean!

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 1:39:23 PM   
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You have made 3 posts to the forum boards.  Two of the posts are complaints because no one will play your game by your rules.  Tough.  Get used to it.  Your other post, while not an actual complaint, refers to one of your other complaints.  That attitude will not win your friends or find you a slave.  

If I want to be a member of Collarme and participate in the message boards even though I am collared, then I will be a member here.  Nothing in the rules says only unowned or owners looking to own can be here. The reason people say "owned" or "collared" at the beginning of a profile is to attempt to cut down the mail many females on here get.  They do not use those terms to personally piss you off because they are already taken.  They to it so you will skip over their profile, thus, saving yourself time. 


< Message edited by peppermint -- 9/18/2009 1:41:39 PM >

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 2:49:55 PM   
DemonKia


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FR, after read thru

Cuz life is a learning process. (Done properly it's even fun . . . . )

Cuz this is not KinkySlutMart (trademark pending) & while the 'merchandise' might turnover & some of it might look like it should be on the discount rack, the 'merch' is still relationships. Friendship. Seeking companions. Lovers. Or something that is much the same. Looking for people, not FuckBot-3000s. (Those will be sold elsewhere. You didn't come here looking for a RealDoll, now didya? I want a few of those, but I don't come to CM looking for them . . . . ..)

Cuz the point of other human beings existing in the universe is to tease & annoy the egotistical & narcissistic . . . . (So speaketh a major egomaniac with some delusions of humility . . . . . )

My short-, medium-, & long-term goals for hanging out here or at my local munch & etc are to socialize, learn, get to know people, make friends. &. These will continue to be part of my life if / when I find some partner . . . This is not some stopgap until the next part of my life happens, this is my life. Right now.

& BeIgnited & LadyNTrainer, in particular? Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha all over your posts . . . . . I'm starting to think I'm mostly here on CollarChat for the schadenfreudistic kicks of it . . . . . . & to be entertained by the snarky wits of the regulars . . . . .

Oh, & LaT, I've been meanin' to say, you're damn spiffy, yourself!

Ah, & OP? Congratulations. If the seas you now sail are full of 'Owned' signs, it means you may have moved to waters with greater probabilities of holding 'real fish' . . . .

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 3:09:13 PM   
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because they come here to talk to their friends? Or to make friends? Or maybe they are only here to read the forums or post to them.

Not everyone who is here..longterm or just creating a profile, comes here for the personals.

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 5:14:15 PM   
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I do it because I am not available, yet enjoy the forums.  I'm pretty sure that nowhere in the signup process does it say "sign up and spread your legs".

Just sayin'.

My own "why" is "Why do stupid guys send me demands that I submit to them when my profile says clearly that I'm not interested in men AND that I am taken?"  That one is what makes no sense to me. Of course, in this case, the answer is that the person sending the "dumb male" (typo deliberate) didn't bother to read the profile at all. /shrug.


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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 5:18:34 PM   
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Stupid guys send things because they are just that. 

You don't have to lie...just be picky. I don't think there is much in life worse than a lie?

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 6:37:59 PM   
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I am not bowing down to you...nope...not going to happen...

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 7:49:46 PM   
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Bowing is silly anyway.  It puts your head in the wrong direction for other things.

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne

I am not bowing down to you...nope...not going to happen...

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 8:58:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne

I am not bowing down to you...nope...not going to happen...


Fake.


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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 9:08:35 PM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax
I've seen several new post that say.."TAKEN"  or "OWNED"   to my thinking
why come on this site to just say you belong to someone already...it makes no
sense to me....I can see if you are here for awhile and find someone...then it is
reasonable to say..."hey I now belong to someone don't bother me."  But to start
out saying your taken or owned is beyond me.  Why? What is the purpose?
Enlighten me as to the reason behind this practice.

So you noticed them too, eh? Right you are to distrust them. It is because they are brainsucking Murrinar from the Nar planet that orbits the star Murri. I got fooled by one of them myself about eleven weeks ago. I had been goggling the profile of ***** for a couple of weeks already, but as her profile said TAKEN, I thought it proper not to mail her. I hit on her profile every day, though, for her photograph was of a cute girl of 22 with perky tits. She had a nice smile as well: beautiful, white, large teeth. Then suddenly the TAKEN notice was not on her profile anymore. If it is too good to be true, it cannot be true. I know that now, but back then I was gullible, for that cute face, nice smile and them perky tits. So I did the stupidest thing of my life: I cmailed her and proposed to meet her. She was quite willing to see me, as her previous dom had deserted her and because I seemed like a nice man to her. Obviously she had never read one of my forum posts as she did not know what a heartless bastard I am. That was all to my good fortune, I thought, being the heartless bastard that I am: one very blonde slavegirl that I would do with as I pleased before the night had passed. We met in the lunchroom of a supermarket hereabouts and it all went well. She was indeed blonde, had the beautiful smile and was quite innocent (I am too polite to say stupid, but she was, or at least I thought so). I showed her the Van Gogh museum and the Rijksmuseum, we had an icecream and a walk alongside the Amstel river, and next I asked her to have dinner with me in a pancake restaurant and she agreed. The pancakes were good. I had one with onions and bacon and she had an Icelandic contraption, all veggies. Being carnivorous, her diet worried me; I was looking for a compatible slave, after all. So I asked her about the Icelandic pancake and she answered me that she did eat meat, but that because of a food intolerance she was limited to eating only brains. That reassured me. I understand food intolerances, as I have one myself. I was glad to know that she did not object to me eating meat. It was a great dinner. Afterward I proposed to bring her home and she accepted. However, she first wanted to go to the ladies room. So I waited. And waited. And finally I went and looked in the ladies room and there was nobody there. So I thought that she had glibly ditched me; probably considered me to be too old, or she had gotten wise to me being a heartless bastard, I pondered. I shrugged and opened the door to the men's room, for I had to take a leak myself - and there she was! Sucking the brains out of the young man that had eaten with his girlfriend at a nearby table. It was an ugly mess with blood all around her lips and a huge hole in his skull. I knew then what those beautiful, large teeth were for. I was both stunned and horrified by the gastly sight. Then she looked up. "Murrinar," she said. "I am a Murrinar and I couldn't wait; I was hungry." Well, I couldn't wait either: I did not want my brains to be sucked out like she had done to that other poor fellow. I stepped back, shut the door and ran out of that restaurant and left her with the bill. The next day I looked at her profile again and there she was and now her profile again said "TAKEN". Of course I do not know for a fact that she was from the planet Nar that orbits the star Murri - indeed, she may have pronounced it differently, but that is how I remembered it - and neither do I know what TAKEN signifies, but that is how I interpreted it and that is what I think it signifies: they have recently eaten brains and are sated.
You may wonder why I won't report her profile. Its simple: she never hurt me, and I do like to watch her photographs. I do not want her profile pulled. Neither can I identify her here in the forums, because that would be against the TOS. Anyway, it is fairly easy to identify her kind: when sated, they always have the words TAKEN or OWNED on their profile. The point is that those are fairly harmless. It is the hungry ones that we have to be on our guard against, those that are brain starved, those Murrinar that are eager to eat brains, those Murrinar that do not have the words TAKEN or OWNED on their profile.
Me, I will not date for the foreseeable future. I will eat alone; it is cheaper as well.


< Message edited by Rule -- 9/18/2009 9:12:45 PM >

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 9:12:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I come here because it would be a horrible act on my part to deprive the women here of the opportunity to read my posts, see my pictures, and bask in my general magnificence.


I come here because it would be a horrible act of retaliation on my part to deprive anyone of my self effacing and groveling as I am only a doormat to the macho dumbitwats.

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 10:49:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rule --> [I gave you some paragraphs, hope you don't mind . . . DK]

So you noticed them too, eh? Right you are to distrust them. It is because they are brainsucking Murrinar from the Nar planet that orbits the star Murri.

I got fooled by one of them myself about eleven weeks ago. I had been goggling the profile of ***** for a couple of weeks already, but as her profile said TAKEN, I thought it proper not to mail her. I hit on her profile every day, though, for her photograph was of a cute girl of 22 with perky tits. She had a nice smile as well: beautiful, white, large teeth.

Then suddenly the TAKEN notice was not on her profile anymore. If it is too good to be true, it cannot be true. I know that now, but back then I was gullible, for that cute face, nice smile and them perky tits. So I did the stupidest thing of my life: I cmailed her and proposed to meet her. She was quite willing to see me, as her previous dom had deserted her and because I seemed like a nice man to her. Obviously she had never read one of my forum posts as she did not know what a heartless bastard I am. That was all to my good fortune, I thought, being the heartless bastard that I am: one very blonde slavegirl that I would do with as I pleased before the night had passed.

We met in the lunchroom of a supermarket hereabouts and it all went well. She was indeed blonde, had the beautiful smile and was quite innocent (I am too polite to say stupid, but she was, or at least I thought so). I showed her the Van Gogh museum and the Rijksmuseum, we had an icecream and a walk alongside the Amstel river, and next I asked her to have dinner with me in a pancake restaurant and she agreed. The pancakes were good. I had one with onions and bacon and she had an Icelandic contraption, all veggies.

Being carnivorous, her diet worried me; I was looking for a compatible slave, after all. So I asked her about the Icelandic pancake and she answered me that she did eat meat, but that because of a food intolerance she was limited to eating only brains. That reassured me. I understand food intolerances, as I have one myself. I was glad to know that she did not object to me eating meat.

It was a great dinner. Afterward I proposed to bring her home and she accepted. However, she first wanted to go to the ladies room. So I waited. And waited. And finally I went and looked in the ladies room and there was nobody there. So I thought that she had glibly ditched me; probably considered me to be too old, or she had gotten wise to me being a heartless bastard, I pondered.

I shrugged and opened the door to the men's room, for I had to take a leak myself - and there she was! Sucking the brains out of the young man that had eaten with his girlfriend at a nearby table. It was an ugly mess with blood all around her lips and a huge hole in his skull.

I knew then what those beautiful, large teeth were for. I was both stunned and horrified by the gastly sight.

Then she looked up. "Murrinar," she said. "I am a Murrinar and I couldn't wait; I was hungry." Well, I couldn't wait either: I did not want my brains to be sucked out like she had done to that other poor fellow.

I stepped back, shut the door and ran out of that restaurant and left her with the bill.

The next day I looked at her profile again and there she was and now her profile again said "TAKEN".

Of course I do not know for a fact that she was from the planet Nar that orbits the star Murri - indeed, she may have pronounced it differently, but that is how I remembered it - and neither do I know what TAKEN signifies, but that is how I interpreted it and that is what I think it signifies: they have recently eaten brains and are sated.

You may wonder why I won't report her profile. Its simple: she never hurt me, and I do like to watch her photographs. I do not want her profile pulled. Neither can I identify her here in the forums, because that would be against the TOS.

Anyway, it is fairly easy to identify her kind: when sated, they always have the words TAKEN or OWNED on their profile. The point is that those are fairly harmless. It is the hungry ones that we have to be on our guard against, those that are brain starved, those Murrinar that are eager to eat brains, those Murrinar that do not have the words TAKEN or OWNED on their profile.

Me, I will not date for the foreseeable future. I will eat alone; it is cheaper as well.






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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 10:56:22 PM   
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This isn't slutsRus? Who knew????

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/18/2009 10:57:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

saying your taken or owned is beyond me.  Why? What is the purpose?
Enlighten me as to the reason behind this practice.


I was single and looking when I first came to collarme.  Then I met my Sir on here and I'm excruciatingly & happily owned and collared now.  I continue to stay here for the message boards, to stay in contact with friends I've met on here, and to update my journal.  It says the same in the essay portion of my profile, if anyone cares to read it. 

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/19/2009 2:45:26 AM   
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they join so they can participate in the forum conversations perhaps?

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RE: Why come on CM only to post "Taken" ??? - 9/19/2009 2:51:43 AM   
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quote:

to my thinking
why come on this site to just say you belong to someone already


to annoy you


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