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barelynangel -> RE: Breaking (3/2/2006 5:18:37 AM)
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First of all, if she is only realizing what his expectations are of his mastery of her AFTER the collar is attached, i would say their communication was lacking or she wasn't listening before the collar. Lesson learned, if she feels she is a victim now, then she should leave. Most Men i know don't insist either they just do. That to me is a big indicator of who has the control and if he understands his own ability to master, he won't argue with her, he won't insist, he won't make an issue of it, he will just do. She will either submit to his way of life or she will run.
Breaking of a slave could mean many things, to some it means literally breaking her down its usually very intense, very physical, very mental interrogation type of idea where he spends days of "breaking her". Then he starts training her to his preferences and pleasures. Breaking also could be along the lines of breaking through barriers she has to truly grasp the slave within and draw her out to where she herself revels in what she truly is a slave this is more of a revelation type of idea because the mental intensity to the woman is a rcognition that makes her fly. Also Master Ironbears definition is a major one used also. Many times its a badass word used with a far different definition than the word actually implies. To some its simply a "word" that means he will start to mold her to his pleasures.. and perhaps break her of some bad habits as well as other definitions If she is collared to him, she should know already which definition he lives under.
A slave has limits, she just doesn't have her own. And yes, her becoming a slave to him means she understands he is "allowed" to do anything to her. (If she feels he will use this irresponsibly then my advice is don't decide to cry victim because of your own stupidity of not knowing the Man you are giving yourself into, simply walk away.) Most men i know who own slaves tend to do as they wish, they just don't do it irresponsibly, but they also realize enslavement is a process that requires time to achieve a final result he is looking for... As a slave she has two choices.. 1) remember she has put herself in his hands to do with as he pleases and believe he will do so responsibly or 2) she runs. I find many slaves tend to forget to do one thing talk to the MAN, instead they come to places like this asking for advice from people who are not part of the situation and she then becomes some icon of victim. It sounds like their communication was lacking before the collar and is continuing to be lacking thereafter. If she can't open her mouth and talk to him, then she should leave because as the enslavement progresses things will at times get intense and unsure and confusing at times. If she cannot communicate with him, then she is in for a very rough ride.
If she wanted to control the relationship and what conditions he could master her under.. she should have made it clear to him before she agreed to be collared as a slave.
I am sure others have very different ideas.. but this is a slave's opinion.
angel
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