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pyroaquatic -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/28/2009 8:13:24 PM)
No bong here... I am messed up by the grand power of reality. Lemme see... zip up the fly of his pants... with his dangly bits still hanging out of them. jeez that made me wince.

SthrnCom4t -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/28/2009 8:42:56 PM)
I don't reward bad behavior with attention. I don't use pain for punishment, as I'm a Sadist and I inflict pain because it pleases Me. It does not please Me to endure disobedience. I'm not familiar with your dynamic, because My boy and I don't have an adversarial relationship. He goes out of his way to please Me in all ways. No one is perfect...when he screws up, we talk about it. When I'm being a bitch, he's diplomatic, and I apologize. If I had a boy that was a smart ass seeking attention, we'd have a talk about realistic expectations from both sides. Perhaps you two just aren't compatible? Perhaps you have some miscommunication happening? Perhaps he thinks that's what he has to do to get your attention? If he's just testing you, you might ask yourself, why? Being Dominant doesn't mean conquering, and it doesn't mean the sub automatically becomes a robot. If he didn't have the proper respect/response, a more serious discussion is in order, as opposed to compiling the problem by re-creating the original issue on steroids.

Venatrix -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/28/2009 8:49:24 PM)
You are far more patient than I am. I've experienced so much bad behaviour on the part of submissive men over the past few years, that I am no longer interested in working it out. If they are not happy with the dynamic they are welcome to see if they can do better elsewhere, provided they leave with the understanding that there is no coming back. As I've said more than once, I'd rather stay home alone with a good book and a glass of wine than put up with someone who causes trouble in my life. There's just no incentive.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/28/2009 10:14:39 PM)
What Southrncom4rt and Venatrix said. Obedience comes from within. If he wants to be mouthy and disobedient, he will- no matter what you do. I don't have a reward/punishment dynamic with my slave because it doesn't interest us at all. Its not necessary, because he's obedient. I chose him for his willing obedience. Its simple, really. Five cents, please. Next!

MsStarlett -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 5:19:24 AM)
Don't reward bad behavior with attention. Chain his happy, naked ass around the toilet and leave him there all night. Your discretion as to when or IF you let him up or bother to feed him. This works even better if you gave him beer and no toilet break before chaining. And Kuddos to Pyro for post #2 in this list. I still think he was correct in his original assessment.

PeonForHer -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 8:01:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Don't reward bad behavior with attention. Chain his happy, naked ass around the toilet and leave him there all night. Your discretion as to when or IF you let him up or bother to feed him. This works even better if you gave him beer and no toilet break before chaining. Lawks, that's a bit harsh, isn't it, Ms S? Did you pick up that idea during a visit to Guantanomo Bay? Besides, if he's chained to the toilet, where do you go when you want to use the toilet yourself?

mnottertail -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 8:03:58 AM)
in and on him, call him mr toiletpaper

LaTigresse -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 8:25:18 AM)
Now see, I think he might like that too much....... I'd chain him in the basement and ignore him. Find another slave and make him watch how it all should be done.

lobodomslavery -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 8:27:16 AM)
I have an idea. Why not compulsory toilet training for a week. That will soon flush any guilt away. Laughs Kevin

thishereboi -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 1:23:20 PM)
No limits huh. OK, You would not have contact with her for 2 months. During that time you have to spend at least 2 hours a day pulling out your leg hair with tweezers. If that didn't stop the problem, I would dump you. Good luck with that. Will you come back and tell us who won, or better yet maybe mistress babe can come on here and let us know how it went.

SaharahEve -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/29/2009 4:05:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix You are far more patient than I am. I've experienced so much bad behaviour on the part of submissive men over the past few years, that I am no longer interested in working it out. If they are not happy with the dynamic they are welcome to see if they can do better elsewhere, provided they leave with the understanding that there is no coming back. As I've said more than once, I'd rather stay home alone with a good book and a glass of wine than put up with someone who causes trouble in my life. There's just no incentive. [;)]Now that's a healthy mindset!

fadedshadow -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/30/2009 12:59:19 AM)
have your sub buy me a pizza

sirsholly -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/30/2009 2:43:36 AM)
quote: This is Mistress Babe [8\|]

ThislittleKitty -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/30/2009 3:34:01 AM)
Last time I was to much of a sass mouth, Master tied me to the bed naked, & turned down the air piss cold. He waited for about an hour before he came back.....with an ice bucket!! 0_o ....icky

ThislittleKitty -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (9/30/2009 3:51:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail in and on him, call him mr toiletpaper OMFG thats just to funny! xD Icky...but only because its not my thing in life. But still WAY TO Fu*'in funny! Kudos Mnottertail, much kudos. quote:* ORIGINAL: fadedshadow have your sub buy me a pizza This too hit my funny button! ^_^ Huzza! Free pizza is somehow always good.

elegantcdgoddess -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (10/1/2009 8:14:09 AM)
no limits punishment. I say castration. Well we all do that, if sub doesnt clean the floor properly and is one of the "no limits" type, we castrate him. Ask any domme here, for not polishing boots, i usually just cut a finger or two, and for not ironing my blouse i cut off his hands. Do you need any other suggestions?

MistressRouge -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (10/1/2009 8:15:40 AM)
Stick to your guns, your the Boss [:D]

fadedshadow -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (10/1/2009 9:46:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: elegantcdgoddess no limits punishment. I say castration. Well we all do that, if sub doesnt clean the floor properly and is one of the "no limits" type, we castrate him. Ask any domme here, for not polishing boots, i usually just cut a finger or two, and for not ironing my blouse i cut off his hands. Do you need any other suggestions? how will he iron your blouse if you remove his hands?

Venatrix -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (10/1/2009 9:53:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fadedshadow quote: ORIGINAL: elegantcdgoddess no limits punishment. I say castration. Well we all do that, if sub doesnt clean the floor properly and is one of the "no limits" type, we castrate him. Ask any domme here, for not polishing boots, i usually just cut a finger or two, and for not ironing my blouse i cut off his hands. Do you need any other suggestions? how will he iron your blouse if you remove his hands? She'll just find someone else to lend her a hand.

DesFIP -> RE: Pissed off Mistress (10/1/2009 9:55:01 AM)
Make him miss work and possibly lose his job. That's the way to prove you're a trustworthy dominant, not. Punishment isn't for the dominant's pleasure. That's an untrustworthy thing to do, break a hard limit, ignore a safeword because you promised not to do something they can't handle and then turn around and claim you can because it's punishment. Seems like Mistress Babe here needs to learn how to inspire trust, respect and admiration instead of demanding it to begin with. Besides that, how will severe corporal punishment teach him to accomplish the task? Answer, it won't. You could have spared both of you, and us, this much nonsense if you had spent anytime learning about him and teaching him. If he failed at some task, then the failure was yours for not teaching him how to succeed.

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