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GabrielleSlave -> Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:24:53 AM)
i have a dom friend who has an issue with one of his fetishes that he can't seem to get his head round. Sooooo i thought i would ask what everyone else thought. The problem is this. He is a dominant male, but he loves to worship women's feet; on the surface it would appear to be somewhat of a paradox. However, i have told him that he should be able to do this with a sub female as he is the boss and therefore should get what he wants. i figured that if it humiliated her, or made her uncomfortable then so much the better lol! Not sure if he'll take my opinion on board, so what does everyone else reckon? hugs gabrielle x

RCdc -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:41:26 AM)
As a humiliation thing, it's hot! Some people hate their feet! Some people cannot even stand to have their feet touched as the tickle boarders on painful! the.dark.

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:51:15 AM)
i am one of those people...... [sm=agree.gif] However, it now transpires that he wants them to be turned on by it as much as he..... sighs some doms are never happy lol! Not been on these boards for a while, good to see you my lovely dark! gabrielle x (edited for weird smilies issue...)

Makrieth -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:57:18 AM)
There's nothing wrong with that. women are beautiful, sexy, and you're whole body is worth the attention. A sub of Mine was uncomfortable initially when we met as some actions she considered to be submissive behavior, usually those that made her climax. I pointed out that I'd damn well do what I wanted outside of her hard limits. There are no absolutes in this. As long as he is in control, and his sub can feel his control there isn't a problem. -Mak

GabrielleSlave -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:59:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Makrieth There's nothing wrong with that. women are beautiful, sexy, and you're whole body is worth the attention. A sub of Mine was uncomfortable initially when we met as some actions she considered to be submissive behavior, usually those that made her climax. I pointed out that I'd damn well do what I wanted outside of her hard limits. There are no absolutes in this. As long as he is in control, and his sub can feel his control there isn't a problem. -Mak Thankyou Mak, would you mind if i quoted you verbatum to him? gabrielle x

ranja -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 4:59:20 AM)
He could put a small vibrator between her toes?

DesFIP -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 5:30:25 AM)
Tell him to tie her up and then do it. Or just find someone who enjoys it. I usually just say we're both foot sluts. We've sat at opposite ends of the couch rubbing each other's feet. We both get off on having our toes sucked. I love bastinado, it's just a heavy duty foot massage to me.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 10:11:30 AM)
I very briefly saw a Dom who was way into feet. He would TELL me "wear this color of nail polish" and "wear those shoes" etc, so even though he was worshipping my feet, he TOLD me exactly how he wanted them to be so He was still very Dom about the whole thing. Maybe your Dom friend could try that?

Makrieth -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 6:59:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave quote: ORIGINAL: Makrieth There's nothing wrong with that. women are beautiful, sexy, and you're whole body is worth the attention. A sub of Mine was uncomfortable initially when we met as some actions she considered to be submissive behavior, usually those that made her climax. I pointed out that I'd damn well do what I wanted outside of her hard limits. There are no absolutes in this. As long as he is in control, and his sub can feel his control there isn't a problem. -Mak Thankyou Mak, would you mind if i quoted you verbatum to him? gabrielle x Of course gabrielle x, if you think He'll find it helpfull. -Mak

daintydimples -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (9/30/2009 7:10:53 PM)
Seriously? Most males love the female foot. It's why they like the high heels. I see it as a male thing, not a dom/sub thing. To the OP: Have your friend tell his sub to use her feet to get him off. Very accepted dom behavior, and if he needs to "prepare" the feet, so much the better.

AquaticSub -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/1/2009 8:20:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark As a humiliation thing, it's hot! Some people hate their feet! Some people cannot even stand to have their feet touched as the tickle boarders on painful! the.dark. Yeah... I dunno about the hot part but I would definately feel humiliated... and hoping the scene ended soon. I really don't like my feet. [:o]

AnimusRex -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/1/2009 9:14:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave However, i have told him that he should be able to do this with a sub female as he is the boss and therefore should get what he wants. gabrielle x Amen. What's the point of being a Dominant if you are a slave to someone else's definition of what a Dom is "supposed" to be/ do?

masterlink65 -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/3/2009 5:09:25 PM)
how is doing what you want, not being dominant? i dont see the paradox at all. if he wants to suck cock or eat pussy, would that make him any less of a dominant? my slave is there to use as i need or want.

DavanKael -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/3/2009 5:21:22 PM)
It's the dynamic more than the action. Davan

ChatDuBengale -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 1:20:18 AM)
Makrieth answer is perfect. As a Dom you decide what you will do. As a Master you control the situation and educate your sub leading her to what you decide if it is reachable. Noone has the right to tell you what is relevant and what is not. It's between the Master and the sub.

sissylover22 -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 5:52:03 AM)
A man kissing a womans foot is symbolic of "worshipping". If I were a woman sub, I would be way too uncomfortable with a man kissing and adoring my feet unless he was submitting to me.

DesFIP -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 6:09:37 AM)
Sissy, that's your perspective. If this dominant male had a partner who hated having her feet touched, then him kissing them would be a sadistic act, not a worshipful one. If his partner got turned on be having her feet kicked, then this would be an act designed to arouse her and make her ready for sex, not a worshipful one. The intent matters. In this case, the intent is to get him turned on since he loves playing with women's feet. He isn't into worshipping them, he's into using them as part of foreplay to make sex better.

sissylover22 -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 6:25:58 AM)
I don't need you to tell me that's my perspective. I know it is and having a man adore my feet when he is the dominant one is odd. My feet are the lowest part of my body, the dirtiest and having a man kiss and lick them is too close to worshipping my feet.

Acer49 -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 2:03:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave i have a dom friend who has an issue with one of his fetishes that he can't seem to get his head round. Sooooo i thought i would ask what everyone else thought. The problem is this. He is a dominant male, but he loves to worship women's feet; on the surface it would appear to be somewhat of a paradox. However, i have told him that he should be able to do this with a sub female as he is the boss and therefore should get what he wants. i figured that if it humiliated her, or made her uncomfortable then so much the better lol! Not sure if he'll take my opinion on board, so what does everyone else reckon? hugs gabrielle x You are not dominant or submissive based on your play activities

DesFIP -> RE: Foot worshipping Dom (10/4/2009 2:23:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissylover22 I don't need you to tell me that's my perspective. I know it is and having a man adore my feet when he is the dominant one is odd. My feet are the lowest part of my body, the dirtiest and having a man kiss and lick them is too close to worshipping my feet. I will admit that neither of us would be interested unless the feet were clean. But having had him tie me up and then lift my bound legs up so he could lick my feet, tickling them, did not at all appear to me that he was worshipping them. I was sputtering threats I was not at all in a position to make good on but I meant them anyway. And when he started nibbling on my toes all I could think was how impossibly turned on I was, and how I was just going to have to wait till he untied my legs. But one thing I have noticed is that people are never indifferent to their feet. Lots of people hate having theirs touched. And another big group find them a major erogenous zone.

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