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DesFIP -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/5/2009 2:30:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HerSir But I agree wholly with AquaticSub. becoming a sub should then be your goal. As becoming a dom again is now mine. That's a really scary thought. Just agreeing to sub for the first guy who asks. Just like you taking any woman on no matter what. Can't you see this is a recipe for disaster? There's a lot more to life than just being a sub. And if you don't do what's right for you, then you'll never be in a good relationship, d/s or otherwise. As far as your belief that all unattached subs should be out there learning good subly type stuffs so that some guy comes along and says "I choose you", there's no way to do it. Let's say she learns boot blacking and silver service because she's told all twue subs know how to do this. But she's actually compatible with a man who prefers hiking boots and campfire meals. Then all that recommended subly stuff isn't anything she should have learned. She should grow into the person she is inside, blossoming her own interests, and thus know what they are and what kind of person she is compatible with. As should a dom. No good spending months learning a singletail if in fact he isn't a sadist.

littleone35 -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/7/2009 12:42:33 PM)
My purpose is to take care of him, make him smile, be HIS good girl. Try to make him happier than he already is and of course al the sex stuff:) Matt's littleone

WyldHrt -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/11/2009 9:31:17 PM)
Posting for Sir, who isn't on the boards: #1 Purpose of a sub: Back scratches on demand! [:D] Other (non sexual, more or less) uses for a submissive from this weekend: custom toymaker, massage therapist, barmaid, snack fetcher, backrest, couch/recliner conversion device (with bonus "pillow" headrests), cupholder, grocery cart, storyteller, and bedwarmer. Oh, and He says BJs/ play/ sex any time he wants are pretty high on the list, too.... [:)]

Passion8Kisser -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/12/2009 2:41:36 PM)
The purpose of a sub is the same answer as the purpose of (or meaning of) life, and therefore the only correct answer is 42. Ask the specialized computer if you don't believe me. [Hitchhiker's guide to the Galaxy if you missed the reference]

Master96 -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/14/2009 5:19:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CaringandReal This is a funny question. While we are at it, what the heck is the purpose of cats? To meow quote: ORIGINAL: bdsmyoungmaster What is the main purpose of a sub? To moan

BanesKitten -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/15/2009 10:51:15 PM)
this one feels as a submissive herself...her greatest purpose is to completely compliment her Dom in every way possible. being His better half at times, His confidant, His servant, His slave, His toy, and being any and everything He needs and wants just as her Dom compliments who and what she is. being her better half, her confidant, her Master, her EVERYTHING!

SaharahEve -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/16/2009 4:56:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bdsmyoungmaster [8\|] A close friend asked - What is the main purpose of a sub? Thought I would give it to the world bdsm community for good answers. To serve and obey.

wolfy1 -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/18/2009 4:23:32 AM)
what a great reply,know matter what one must be true to one's self know your place

LPslittleclip -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/18/2009 8:08:29 AM)
for me it is to make sure my Mistress is as pleased as i can. i am service oriented so chores are great for me. i am happiest when I'm serving Her in any capacity even just sitting at her feet.

Rowbear13 -> RE: purpose of a sub (10/18/2009 8:35:23 AM)
To love and serve her Master and appreiciate the tough love she is given in return.

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