LuckyAlbatross
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Being true to the spirit of the question: I would rather find someone who fits my criteria for being a good, stable person. That being said, in every single healthy relationship, everyone fits into eachother. Whether they MADE eachother fit or not, changes happen, shifts occur, it's simply how relationships work. And really, going into a relationship thinking "I've got to change that" or "He'll change once we..." never works out well. While I do look at my partners and think of things they need to progress on, if the essential elements were not already there, I wouldn't be there.
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Find stable partners, not a stable of partners. "Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication
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