Sinergy
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Hello, When I am going to meet somebody for the first time, I generally provide them with all my important information like name, address, places I work, drivers license number, etc. I see this as showing concern for their feelings and safety, but then I work in women's self defense. If she chooses to further research me I dont personally have a problem with it, largely because I am very supportive of people doing the things they feel they need to do to keep safe. On the other hand, an ex of mine once researched a guy she was planning to play with and discovered he was a very big player in the Vanilla world and found out enough about him to potentially blackmail him. Additionally, this was after she was told not to do so by him. I am not saying either side was right here, but I would not enter in to a relationship with either one of them at this point as they both seemed to have something to hide from the other. I dislike that sort of dishonesty. Having said that, I did do an internet search one time on my social security number and found a person in Rhode Island and a person in Texas posing as me. I sent them a nice polite mail message indicating I had filed a identity theft report with the Social Security Administration and carbon copied the credit bureau with that report. Ciao, Sinergy
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