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barelynangel -> RE: IfYouAreOverWeight (10/20/2009 5:25:48 AM)
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chuckles, petty jealousy is such an ugly thing, zephyr. Funny it was you although which nickname i can't remember constantly in my inbox telling me how you enjoyed my posts and sending little commaraderies. grins, its amazing how petty people become when they get blocked from contacting me as your snipey attacks in this thread have shown. Is this REALLY what you are resorting too? Really?
Kia, thank you for explaining i have stated CLEARLY in this thread and others, i am overweight and out of shape. I guess this shows people don't READ what people say but yet still decided to give their two cents lol on a person posting.
BUt what's more is I being overweight and out of shape, CLEARLY expect to be judged negatively because of same by Men who are looking for a slave. I don't sit around saying well he should get to know what's INSIDE, if he doesn't like the outside. Why should he? What's more is i don't think i could respect a Man who would accept me as a slave with my being overweight and out of shape and maintain same. I do expect them to demand i come up to their standards they wish prior to remotely inspecting me further as a potential slave. And yes, this means if their standards allow a women who would be a slave to them to not be aesthetically pleasing to them, i would have a hard time with that. And well, i do the same with Men, however, i don't get to demand they come up to my standards, i have two choices accept or reject. The Men who i am interested in have specific uses for a slave and one of them is being aesthetically pleasing to them and yes others. However, i also don't go into slavery with the idea i have found my mate, partner, boyfriend, psuedo husband, i would be a slave -- he the Master. i would be his slave which means i am of use to him and how he wishes and yes ONE of those uses is aesthetically pleasing to him and others. So yes, i do expect one of the main things initially inspected before progressing further is my appearance INCLUDING my weight and body shape and all that fun stuff. And if that isn't up to snuff, then yes, i do expect to be rejected until such time i am up to his standards and worthy of further inspection by him as the Man who would be the Master. He may determine i have potential he wishes to work with and decide to inspect further because he decides to pay the cost of working me up to his standards aesthetically because of the potential value he sees.
It was funny, i was reading one of the law magazines we get at work yesterday that made me think of this thread and there is actual talk of local rules being changed by the courts that will pretty much spell out what lawyers are allowed to wear or should i say disallowed to wear. While it was speaking of clothes, and general appearances such as makeup, hairstyles of men and women, SHOES etc , it stressed a lot about APPEARANCE and how people decipher things about people due to same. From getting a job, to getting promotions, to getting better service at places, etc. I thought it ironic when reading it based upon how many people here think the norm is that people don't JUDGE based on appearance.
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