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RobertCloud -> RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCanMeetHisNeedsWhenYouNeglectYourOwnHealth? (10/17/2009 7:23:34 PM)
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It is absurd to think that weight has anything to do with Dominance or Submission...
I once had a sam or sass (smart assed masochist, smart assed stupid submissive) ask me how I could expect to Dominate her when I cannot control my weight.
Well, truth was the weight gain was related to the fact that I am an excellent cook. Most master chefs are overweight, if you think you can dominate them be my guess...
However, when I reached 475 I said enough was enough. I cut back on a lot of things and now I am down to 259. Still about 80 pounds to go, but I did it on my own. No diet aids, no pre-written diets, no excercise TV. Completely on my own.
Yet, this still has NOTHING to do with my ability to be a dominant. Nor has it had anything to deal with any of the submissives or slaves I have met in being able to fulfill their duties unless they were so vastly overweight that they were unable to do anything because of health. I have never met one on that status, yet I could see it happening.
My own girl is the opposite. She thinks she is overweight and I am constantly guiding her to eat to keep her weight up so she will be healthy. At 5'0 and a medium frame, she should weigh about 115 to 125. That is where she is at, but she has gotten down to 95, and looked anorexic. Yes, she had control of her weight, but to an extreme. Again, it had nothing to do with her ability to keep her duties. She is exceptional at that. My pride.
Weight control is a problem for various people. Many times it is a medical condition, thyroid, diabetes, hypoglycemic, or others. So you cannot judge on weight alone. If the weight is due to laziness, and lack of care for one's own self then you have a different animal to discuss.
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