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porcelaine -> RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCanMeetHisNeedsWhenYouNeglectYourOwnHealth? (10/17/2009 9:23:38 AM)
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ORIGINAL: blacklion
Seems your Master would be Krispy Creame
this sentence is a clear reminder that just because one thinks something doesn't mean it should be said aloud. you lost points on this, but i will respond to the question anyway because my opinions are very clear on this subject.
it is my belief that my body is not my own. i don't feel it is my right to abuse, defile, or mistreat it in any manner that could be harmful. whether the byproducts include food, substances, alcohol, or any behavior that is excessively destructive is not the point. it is His to use and craft and i should be mindful of this at all times. i believe this is applicable to owned and unowned persons. i draw no distinction in this respect.
if abuse has taken place it is my responsibility to correct my behavior and to do what is necessary to restore my body to its proper form. in some instances this is not possible, depending on what occurred, the extent of the activities, and so on. however, eating decisions should be modified and changes undertaken. i don't believe they will occur overnight, but a commitment to better health is important. if comorbidities have developed as a result of previous behaviors, medical attention must be sought and followed.
the emotional and mental conditions that may have sparked the problem cannot be ignored. in some cases the submissive is able to manage the process alone, others benefit from monitoring and the support of a partner. my personal opinion is that the desire must exist whether support is available. the reasons behind her decision to change have a direct influence on the outcome. while it is important that i'm willing to do these things for Him, i'd like to believe that i value myself enough to recognize when i'm failing to demonstrate such through my actions. He can be the catalyst, but if my heart isn't in the process, success may be fleeting.
i view this as another facet of my being that should be surrendered. i have a difficult time reconciling how it is possible to give Him one aspect of my body and not the other. it seems woefully unbalanced and my hesitance shortchanges us both. i prefer Someone willing to address difficult subjects unapologetically that possesses the tools to instill behaviors that are positive and productive. i don't believe the onus falls on the dominant to fix what i've broken, but i do believe He should be willing to confront the issue if a problem exists.
porcelaine
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