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Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:08:34 PM

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Men: Loaded question, I know. I am assuming most men do enjoy watching a woman pleasure herself, based on my own experiences. My question is this: Is there such a thing as a woman (who you find attractive) masturbating that is a turn OFF? The method she does it, whatever? is the act itself generally erotic, even if she, for example, may feel her methods aren't "that sexy"? How specific is this arousal to you - ie, is it more of a turn on to see her using her own hands vs. using a vibrator -- how much of it is how much of a "show" she is putting on for you?

Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate? Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:13:30 PM

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Watching a man masturbate holds no interest whatsoever for me. It just makes me wonder why he would rather jack off than fuck me.

Master enjoys watching me masturbate because he knows it's difficult for me to climax by myself. Masturbating for me is like trying to tickle myself. It rarely leads to orgasm.

It's a humiliation thing I think for Master. For me it's just frustrating and aggravating.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:16:17 PM

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I enjoy watching a man masturbate, if it's one I have a close personal relationship with. Strangers, not so much.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:17:14 PM

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It is more of a turn on when it is not contrived or indeed better still is beyond her ability to resist the climax (if seemingly genuine) other than that methodology isn't so important to me. I think it's more interesting watching someone lose control, it's all about losing control and composure this is all I take from it not the arousal itself I think that is secondary for me.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:18:33 PM

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I love watching my man masturbate. Nothing better than sitting back on my knees with my mouth open and letting him do all the work! but then I love everything we do sexually. Just because he is masturbating doesn't mean he is not including me.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:27:13 PM

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Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate? Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

if we're involved i'd enjoy it as a teasing sort of torment. in regard to strangers, only if he's being tortured in the process and is somewhat helpless as well. or taking directives to hurt himself. that's amusing. i'd like it.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:27:46 PM

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I actually love watching a man masturbate...because they all do it differently..ok..I know, in a way its all the same, but somehow..different...its enjoyable for me to watch how they masturbate, because it tells me something about themselves...I guess...in general at least, I enjoy watching all men masturbate...

when its my Sir, it is sometimes frustrating when he masturbates for the sole purpose of denying me the satisfaction of bringing him to orgasm, but I still enjoy watching him..especially when he does it while holding me down and away from him...I love holding my mouth open and waiting....

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:30:10 PM

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it does nothing for me...

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:30:49 PM

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Ya know, I was thinking, watching a woman masturbate doesn't really do anything for me, but thinking about what SL4V3M4YB3 said, that's not entirely true. I'm very tuned into emotional responses: so watching the masturbation doesn't really get my attention, but if it's in person, and she's getting to that edge, I get very interested (and usually jumping into the fray).

Just like, I'm not really into two women going at it (other than if I'm attracted to what they look like) unless there is an intense emotional response between the two (and then it's cause I'm wanting to jump into the fray again). ...But then, I've fallen to sleep while in the same room with two couples making out LOUDLY.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:33:53 PM

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To me watching a man jack off even one I am involved with is about as interesting as watching paint dry, which is a fancy way of saying it aint interesting. And no the method used don't interest me.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Women: Same question. Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate? Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:33:58 PM

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I'm not fond of watching. I'd rather be a participant.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:37:51 PM

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Totally uninteresting to me.
But I've never thought that there was the equivalent of table manners for masturbation, attractive vs unattractive. Learn something new every day.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:40:20 PM

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I'm not into men so watching a guy is a bit of a turn off. I do love watching women masterbate.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 2:56:47 PM

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um...when her penis is bigger then mine

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 3:06:41 PM

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I enjoy seeing women masturbate, however it varies between them. Generally speaking its not vigorous nor done for their amusement(normally strangers online...-.-; ) or their just not into it. Hearing them be vocal, the thrashing of her limbs, the pulsing of her lips as she comes closer to orgasm however is most definitely a turn on.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 3:25:28 PM

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I enjoy watching my mate, and it's a great way to pick up tricks & techniques.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 3:30:11 PM

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Watching a man masturbate does nothing for me regardless of how he does it.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 3:43:28 PM

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Mmm, I do i think... its not highly erotic for me though. With my partner yes, but other men no. When he was away one time i did have a very odd fantasy of him masturbating on his own and well.. it did get me off, I think that was more the power of the mind.. If he had done it infront of me i dont think it would have the same effect lol. But it does get the blood flowing so to speak..

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 4:36:39 PM

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Mmm, I do i think... its not highly erotic for me though. With my partner yes, but other men no. When he was away one time i did have a very odd fantasy of him masturbating on his own and well.. it did get me off, I think that was more the power of the mind.. If he had done it infront of me i dont think it would have the same effect lol. But it does get the blood flowing so to speak..

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May I ask a question? Did him masterbating get you going or was it the thought of him masterbating while thinking of you that got you going?

No wrong answers here and I'm not looking to be an ass. I just know that knowing my partner gets hot thinking of me is a very special sort of arousal.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/18/2009 5:00:40 PM

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If it's the man I'm in a relationship with, yes, I find it highly erotic and arousing to watch him masturbate. It's as much the emotional connection that we have as well as the physical aspect. Strangers, eh, not so much.

I agree with allthatjazz "Just because he is masturbating doesn't mean he is not including me".

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