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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 8:09:29 PM

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If you don't like the threads, Waste, it's really simple: don't read them. It's not like most of us would miss you, or anything.

Sure you would; all the mutual admiration society/gripe-gripe sisterhood tedium would turn your brains to pumpkin innards. The powers of reason get no exercise in the absence of dissenting voices.

Well, why don't we make it a scientific study? You leave, and if we miss you, we'll let you know.

I'd have to do I.Q. and critical thinking tests on y'all before and after, find a control group, I'd really need to find an unbiased third-party researcher to do the analysis. . . basically, it'd be a lot of work when I don't give a crap. Unless there's some phat grant money in it?

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OK. I'm curious about that.

Anytime I've ever done a search here, it's maxed at 300 results.

How are you doing yours?

Using all the default settings, single keyword, except for the "Search In Forum" box I'm only selecting "Ask A Mistress". You should get something like 108 rant/ 103 love.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 8:16:24 PM

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So are you interested or looking for love? We hear your rants waste... never have heard you talk of love. I know many of us mention love often... how about you?

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 8:35:53 PM

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So are you interested or looking for love? We hear your rants waste... never have heard you talk of love. I know many of us mention love often... how about you?

A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her. -Oscar Wilde.

But what does he know? He never loved a woman, and became a bitter cynic. Here's an actual photo of him in prison:

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 8:53:31 PM

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That doesn't look like Oscar Wilde, it looks like a sperm trying to have a bowel movement.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 8:55:35 PM

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Then, here comes along the personal submissive, who has everything the client believes they want. The love, the commitment, the time, the very LIFE that someone else wishes they had so badly. Is it any surprise whatsoever that these folks get the backlash?

When they belittle the "have nots" with smug attitude? Not at all.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 9:00:08 PM

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That doesn't look like Oscar Wilde, it looks like a sperm trying to have a bowel movement.

He just looks different with the prison haircut. I assure you it's him.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 9:27:19 PM

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So are you interested or looking for love? We hear your rants waste... never have heard you talk of love. I know many of us mention love often... how about you?

Not my area of expertise. I'm better with numbers.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/28/2009 9:43:59 PM

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Then, here comes along the personal submissive, who has everything the client believes they want. The love, the commitment, the time, the very LIFE that someone else wishes they had so badly. Is it any surprise whatsoever that these folks get the backlash?

When they belittle the "have nots" with smug attitude? Not at all.

First, wanted to say thank you for the results (and how you obtained them) on the rant/love subject. To tell you the truth, I'd have thought both categories would have been *much* higher.

On the attitude issue, that isn't always the case. There are a number of s types in personal dynamics with both pros and non pros (male and female) that literally get what is best described as hate email and some pretty nasty comments in real life.

Prior to moving, I was fairly friendly with a pro and her sub (they used to participate on the boards here). The sub was one of the nicest guys you'd ever want to meet. At times, he'd get outright harassed by clients that this particular pro wouldn't see. They would say some of the worst things to him and about him. Being the kind of person he is, he shrugged it off, but I can promise you that he didn't deserve any of it.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 6:34:36 AM

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First, wanted to say thank you for the results (and how you obtained them) on the rant/love subject. To tell you the truth, I'd have thought both categories would have been *much* higher.

You're welcome. There's some fascinating (to me) stuff in there; I would love to be able to run random queries on the message and profile databases here, but I'm a nerd like that.

A few more results from the Mistress forum-
Loser- 175
Hate- 25
Fake- 120
"Real Man"- 283
And the big winner, WANKER, at 300+

For comparison, from the Master forum-
Love- 129
Rant- 76
Hate- 11
Loser- 182
"Real Man"- 122 (!! guess it just goes without saying over there?)

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 8:57:34 AM

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one way or another a guy pays for it ...its been like that since the days of rome

get married then you have to take care of her ...which isnt bad as long as the sex was there

and if she says no your screwed ...been divorced since 92 ...been paying since then ...because everyone has needs

hey boi ...isnt being a dyke illegal in some states too ?

you brought up the legal aspect of it not me ...get a life mal

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:15:34 AM

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Hey Mal,

You may want to keep yourself truly abreast of legal situations. In 2003, Lawrence V. Texas, the supreme court ruled that no state has the authority to make or enforce sodomy laws. Of which, oral sex of any kind was considered to be sodomy in many states. Yesterday, October 28th, 2009, President Obama signed into law the James Byrd Jr./Matthew Shepard Act which expanded the anti-discrimination law of 1969 to include sexual orientation and gender identity. Being a gay female has rarely been considered in any state law where as in some states for a long period of time being a gay man, was. This has not been the case for quite a while.

Legally speaking, Nevada is the ONLY state in the US where prostitution is legal, and that's only in certain counties and ONLY in brothels. Street walking, open escort advertisement, and individual operation is still illegal. Penetrative sex is penetrative sex in every state in the US, no matter who's fucking who. And sex for money is prostitution. Again, follow the first sentence that prostitution is illegal in almost every state in the US with one major, very detailed, exception. An exception, that has the same rules that Victoria, Australia does. These parallels were drawn in a study to understand the actual risk behaviors in legalized brothels and illegal street walkers.

Whether a man is willing to pay to be fucked in the ass isn't the issue. Nor does willingness make it legal. Pay attention LEGAL is not something that can happily and simply be defined between two people just because that's what they want. The fact is, the single mindedness in which some men approach this issue, particularly with Pro's, are without consideration to the legal consequences for the Woman who is taking the risk. Because again, the reality is very few "Johns" are actually charged in prostitution issues. Which means the guy getting fucked in his ass doesn't take the hit legally, the Pro does. That kind of selfishness is likely the reason these men are single.

If a Pro is willing to break the law to fuck some dude in the ass, I'd likely suggest steering away from her. She's also the first one likely to roll over on your ass if the cops find out and decide to prosecute, not to mention what other illegal activities that person may be participating in, or "unsafe" ones that expose the client to. If a woman has no respect for herself, she sure as hell has no respect for you (general).

So before going and making an ass out of yourself, repeatedly Mal, try making sure you have your legal facts correct because no matter what anyone here thinks, the law is very clear on this subject.

boi

Who is happy to give academic references, if anyone needs them.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 9:26:06 AM

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one way or another a guy pays for it ...its been like that since the days of rome get married then you have to take care of her ...which isnt bad as long as the sex was there and if she says no your screwed ...been divorced since 92 ...been paying since then ...because everyone has needs hey boi ...isnt being a dyke illegal in some states too ? you brought up the legal aspect of it not me ...get a life mal

mal... You are offensive and disgusting and I don't care if I get a gold rimmed letter. You can go on and on about your kinky sexual playtime... I don't care, but when you start using the word dyke in an offensive tone... you cross a line or two. When you speak about women as you do, it is ignorance and stupid, but your take on women is disgusting. Most the time you are laughable... this time... a disgusting person.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 11:11:29 AM

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... Yesterday, October 28th, 2009, President Obama signed into law the James Byrd Jr./Matthew Shepard Act which expanded the anti-discrimination law of 1969 to include sexual orientation and gender identity. ...

Fantastically stupid of Obama to be passing more anti-business, lawsuit generating laws during a recession. That increase in the minimum wage already cost a half million people their jobs. He's a moron with a weak grade school education, carried beyond his abilities by affirmative action.

McCain would have been almost as bad.

Sigh..................

I'm going to move my business outside of this country. Physically, to Texas where I can hire illegals. Legally to Puerto Rico, where US corporate tax laws don't apply so I can hide savings as retained earnings.

See? this frustration is just below the surface. I came here for kinky daydreams, and I end up thinking about economics. That is exactly why I like D/s sex: it is a time away from control and concern.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 11:25:47 AM

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one way or another a guy pays for it ...its been like that since the days of rome get married then you have to take care of her ...which isnt bad as long as the sex was there and if she says no your screwed ...been divorced since 92 ...been paying since then ...because everyone has needs hey boi ...isnt being a dyke illegal in some states too ? you brought up the legal aspect of it not me ...get a life mal

That's kind of the point of part of where the discussion has gone. It seems to Me boijen's got the life that others would like to have. It's not a case of renting MsK's time. It's being a part of Her life every day.

Not everybody views a personal relationship (kinky or not) with another as something you have to 'pay' for. Believe it or not, some of us chose the partners in our lives because we have actual affection for them. We *want* to be with them because of the person that they are. It's not some kind of chore that we tolerate. Sex isn't just something that's done to have a need (though I honestly don't see sex as a need) fulfilled. It's because we want to share our sexuality with someone who actually matters to us in a loving context.

The insult you tried to fling didn't surprise Me a bit. It was a feeble attempt to try to knock someone down because they are one of those who really got the brass ring.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 11:37:13 AM

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Interesting how you describe yourself as a full blown dyke , yet you talk about male issues like they are akin to you . Your a self described BOI not BOY so don't talk about male perspectives.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 11:49:57 AM

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Interesting how you describe yourself as a full blown dyke , yet you talk about male issues like they are akin to you . Your a self described BOI not BOY so don't talk about male perspectives.

What the hell is a "full blown dyke"?

Ok, past that, some research points toward brain function and chemical function to have more similarity between masculine, gay females to straight males rather than even feminine, gay females. I know exactly who I am. and the most successful male s-type I know, doesn't have ANY of the issues that that male s-types bitch about. (Yes, I recognize that this thread started out as my bitching). As a gender queer individual, because that's not an option in the profile, I've got money that my perception on male issues are a lot closer to the male perception of male issues than you might think.

But that's besides the point. What's mentioned here is not solely a male or female issue. What I have put voice to is likely the least gender biased assessment of the situation. The voice I put to it is that as the person who could likely ask to get fucked in my ass any day of the week publicly and get any number of positive responses; the reason for that isn't a physicality issue, it's a personality issue. Poor personalities don't get positive responses. More often than not, guys starting a conversation with "I like strap-on play, let me serve you", have a poor personality, which gets them negative responses.

See? Not a gender issue. I'm not attacking your penis, primarily because mine is bigger.

boi

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 12:13:00 PM

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I'm not attacking your penis, primarily because mine is bigger.

- NO you don't have a penis, that is the part you don't get. Walk around with a piece of rubber between your legs doesn't qualify you as male.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 12:27:28 PM

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Why is it so difficult for some people to understand that we dominant's do not like men emailing us wanting to serve us by bending over and getting plugged? We don't see it as service.

Don't slay the messenger because they speak of frustrations in dealing with men that see us mostly as cock welding butt plugs for their enjoyment and see that as service to us. Gee... so very kind to offer that butt to us.. who must be lacking in sexual pleasures without them. It doesn't even make sense... nor does slam dunking the messenger that expresses how most of us feel about such service from strangers offering service with their ass.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 12:30:39 PM

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See? Lockit loves me. :-)

boi

PS My dick is bigger and yes I can stand up and pee with it. :-) Talent!

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/29/2009 12:32:19 PM

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- NO you don't have a penis, that is the part you don't get. Walk around with a piece of rubber between your legs doesn't qualify you as male.

Boijen may not be male, but is more of a man than most humans with fleshy penises I've met.

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