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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 12:31:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		The advice nurse already said it has to go in my file I am being hit, and I don't like it

She said they may even have to make a report to the police, but since I'm not bruised and you can't tell he hit me there's no proof to call the cops on.
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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 12:38:44 PM   
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Nothing much I frequently go all day every day on one tiny crappy meal a day because I don't cook and we can't afford a lot of food items, and what we do get is microwavable tv dinners, and I want to cook and I am slowly gathering cooking supplies, just right now we're not cooking.


That's a tough situation.  Several aspects of your situation strike me as possibly having underlying health causes that could definitely be addressed by kicking the processed foods, junk foods and "bad carbs" and moving to more vegetables, fruits, whole grains and lean meats.  That's very tough to do on a budget however, or if you aren't cooking.  You'd be surprised how much effect your diet and exercise (or lack thereof) can have on your mood, your general health and the level of physical pain/discomfort as well as emotional unhappiness you are in.  I would recommend eating more meals a day rather than less - ideally 5-6 mini-meals - if you are trying to lose weight and stave off adult onset diabetes.


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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 12:47:46 PM   
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Boy that's exercise for you. She's really scared or nervouse and she wouldn't leave the house she kept trying to go in the closet under the bed in my moms room in my moms bed, and we couldn't drag her she wouldn't go so I lifted her up and carried her.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 12:48:48 PM   
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Nothing much I frequently go all day every day on one tiny crappy meal a day because I don't cook and we can't afford a lot of food items, and what we do get is microwavable tv dinners, and I want to cook and I am slowly gathering cooking supplies, just right now we're not cooking.


That's a tough situation.  Several aspects of your situation strike me as possibly having underlying health causes that could definitely be addressed by kicking the processed foods, junk foods and "bad carbs" and moving to more vegetables, fruits, whole grains and lean meats.  That's very tough to do on a budget however, or if you aren't cooking.  You'd be surprised how much effect your diet and exercise (or lack thereof) can have on your mood, your general health and the level of physical pain/discomfort as well as emotional unhappiness you are in.  I would recommend eating more meals a day rather than less - ideally 5-6 mini-meals - if you are trying to lose weight and stave off adult onset diabetes.


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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 12:54:18 PM   
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You mentioned in the passed his depression and I am afraid for you. If this is happening it could very well escalate. Perhaps this time you could end the relationship for your own good. Even if he doesnt mean to hurt you, he is. He seems to have impulse control issues and if he will not tend to that then you should tend to preserving yourself.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 1:03:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		i've only read the original post, but this relationship sounds very unhealthy, unsafe, and unstable. Perhaps a clean break and pick up the pieces....Its hard but safe and healthy. i hope you are ok, and can get some support from family or friends honey.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 1:31:54 PM   
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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 2:59:32 PM   
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I'll call up the lady I know who does sliding scale and see if she'd go lower than the 25 we first talked about.


If you still have Medicare and Medi-Cal, as you mentioned in the past, she is committing fraud if she sees you for cash (unless she meets very narrow criteria of signing up and then opting out of the Medicare program).  Find a therapist that takes Medicare and Medi-Cal, which then would be at no cost to you.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 3:12:59 PM   
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I'll call up the lady I know who does sliding scale and see if she'd go lower than the 25 we first talked about.


If you still have Medicare and Medi-Cal, as you mentioned in the past, she is committing fraud if she sees you for cash (unless she meets very narrow criteria of signing up and then opting out of the Medicare program).  Find a therapist that takes Medicare and Medi-Cal, which then would be at no cost to you.

Cali




Cali,
Medi-Cal has stopped paying for psychological services.
http://www.dhcs.ca.gov/services/medi-cal/Pages/ReductionMedi-CalBenefits.aspx 

There is a limited parity law that covers the treatment of her bi-polar disorder.

Medicare will only pay 50% of the Medicare pre-approved amount.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 4:16:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		oh my god what a huge cluster fuck the dr said she was gonna have to report it the police would be called they'd probably want to arrest him and I said no I don't want him arested I want help, and the dr was mad at me for telling her I was being subjected to a great deal of anger and it was becoming domestic, if I didn't want the police involved.





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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 4:17:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		my therapy's not covered, and I can't see why you can't see a prof out side your dr, and what not, specially since I don't have therapyy coverage.
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I'll call up the lady I know who does sliding scale and see if she'd go lower than the 25 we first talked about.


If you still have Medicare and Medi-Cal, as you mentioned in the past, she is committing fraud if she sees you for cash (unless she meets very narrow criteria of signing up and then opting out of the Medicare program).  Find a therapist that takes Medicare and Medi-Cal, which then would be at no cost to you.

Cali



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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 4:25:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom
I'll call up the lady I know who does sliding scale and see if she'd go lower than the 25 we first talked about.


If you still have Medicare and Medi-Cal, as you mentioned in the past, she is committing fraud if she sees you for cash (unless she meets very narrow criteria of signing up and then opting out of the Medicare program).  Find a therapist that takes Medicare and Medi-Cal, which then would be at no cost to you.

Cali




Cali,
Medi-Cal has stopped paying for psychological services.
http://www.dhcs.ca.gov/services/medi-cal/Pages/ReductionMedi-CalBenefits.aspx 

There is a limited parity law that covers the treatment of her bi-polar disorder.

Medicare will only pay 50% of the Medicare pre-approved amount.

Wow. I didn't realize they stopped paying for mental health care in California although it shouldn't suprise me the state is broke. I am now more greatful than ever that I moved to the east coast b/c my medication and treatement wouldnt be treated.

Topping you have CMail.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 4:29:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		He's actually working on managing his issues now, we still have flair ups but he's willing to go to counsoling he's willing to swollow his pride and get assistance from the government if we have to for his meds, He even handled me telling him all this at work very well, he's not mad he's not suicidal he's just sorry I am so frightend and he'll be home soon.



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TFB,
You mentioned in the passed his depression and I am afraid for you. If this is happening it could very well escalate. Perhaps this time you could end the relationship for your own good. Even if he doesnt mean to hurt you, he is. He seems to have impulse control issues and if he will not tend to that then you should tend to preserving yourself.

Contrary to what you believe with all our tough love and not mincing words, we care very much about your well being.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 4:39:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		tfb, if you are always thirsty, then you may have indeed went from pre-diabetic to diabetic. Best to lay off any sugary/starchy foods, and that should help. Good luck.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 5:08:27 PM   
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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 5:16:37 PM   
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Thanks level, thing is I don't know what foods are sugary or startchy unless it's obvious like ice cream.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 5:17:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you are online all the time, use your google! Google starchy foods, and while you are at it, check into diabetic diets, which are great for you, even if you aren't a diabetic.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 5:21:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		kiwi, you know I go to dlife.com and look at recipees but it seriously seems to me some of the diabetic ones go in for a pound on the salt cause one recipe while low carb and low sugar was astronomical about the salt levels.

So you gotta pay attention even if the recipe says diabetic.

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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 6:34:21 PM   
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Thanks level, thing is I don't know what foods are sugary or startchy unless it's obvious like ice cream.


Create a free account at http://www.fitday.com and it will tell you for every food you enter.

Food basically consists of protein, carbs and fat.  Fiber is in the carb category, but because it's not digestible, what it mostly does is slow down gastric uptake.  Alcohol is in a separate category.

If it used to be alive and kicking, it's protein and has few or no carbs.  Liver (and organisms like oysters where the liver is eaten) has a glycogen store and therefore some carbs.  Processed meats like hot dogs have carbs added from food starch, maltodextrin, dairy, etc.

Dairy has carbs, protein and fat.  Which type of dairy determines the ratios.

If it grew on a tree or a bush and is not a nut or a seed, it is mostly carbs.  It may also have some protein (beans for example).  It probably has little or no fat unless you add some in cooking.  Fruit is mostly carbs.

If it is a nut or a seed, it probably has fat, some carbs and a little protein.  It may also have a lot of fiber if the whole thing is eaten, like or flaxseed or brown unhulled rice.  Grains (rice, wheat, oats, etc) have very little fat, a lot of carbs, and minimal protein.

If it grew under the ground, it is almost all carbs, and it is probably starchy or higher on the glycemic index.

I've probably missed some stuff here but that's a quick off the cuff summary.


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RE: I think I may need pychiatric care.. - 10/29/2009 6:38:11 PM   
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kiwi, you know I go to dlife.com and look at recipees but it seriously seems to me some of the diabetic ones go in for a pound on the salt cause one recipe while low carb and low sugar was astronomical about the salt levels.

So you gotta pay attention even if the recipe says diabetic.



You can always modify the salt in a recipe and in many things leave it out altogether.

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