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zephyroftheNorth -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:05:28 PM)
quote: That's true, but he's supporting me in getting help, he spent all day yesterday with me doing dr appointments quote: ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear quote: ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom zeph, not to good he over reacted a couple of nights ago while I was having a medical emergency and knowing full well I was in a rage thumped me with his head band and I punched him for it. I told him time and time again STAY AWAY FROM ME WHEN I AM ANGRY, OR PANICKED and he never listens so then things get violent but after this last episode where I ended up in a pych ward because of him making it unsafe for me to be at home, because he won't control his temper, he says he's very very sorry and he'll listen to me and not trigger me any more. quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Ah okay, thank you Topping. Slight miscalculation, huh? How are things going with managing you tempers? Let's just say that anger has absolutely no place in a relationship. Sure it does, what is unhealthy is when it's expressed physically.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:07:59 PM)
quote: That's true, but he's supporting me in getting help, he spent all day yesterday with me doing dr appointments quote: ORIGINAL: purepleasure I believe it will take an arrest. and/or a death, I can see it coming it's just a matter of time unless a miracle happens, and I'm not holding my breath.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:11:49 PM)
Nope zephyer I spent sunday at a friends house and yesterday which is Monday, at the dr's. And I admit I goofed and got the time wrong and made us over an hour early. so it took all day. and then I had one at 2:10 to discuss my bladder infection which the ER doc said was kidney and my normal doc says is bladder. It's not my fault fault you don't not realize 4 days have completely passed, and when I say things it's days later. Maybe I should be more clear and start saying sunday I........ Monday I....... now it's Tuesday and I.......... so people who're reading my post 4 days later do not say wait a minute no you said........ but really I shouldn't have to lable and clarify everything for people to realize time has past, and today is differnt and that Sunday yes I did spend all day at a friends house, and Monday yes I did spend all day at the dr's. Today is Tuesday yesterday Monday I was at the dr's and Sunday he dropped me off at a friends house and went to do his nephew's birthday gig. quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: That's true, but he's supporting me in getting help, he spent all day yesterday with me doing dr appointments Really? Because you said you spent the day at a friends house yesterday, that James dropped you off and you just spent the day lying around and chatting. You said that friend told you that you could do it any time. So which is it? Topping I'm getting really sick and tired of the bullshit. Every time you tell a story you change it completely. How's about you try the truth for once?

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:15:08 PM)
quote: I am calling bullshit. Think what you will but listening to some of you guys is what got me to almost get my bf arrested and could of gotten me arrested too because I told the dr what was going on in my house, that we rage at each other and hit each other, and sometimes he hits me and I do not like it. I trusted you all to go tell my dr right away honey they won't arrest him or call the cops and damned diddly they did, and my dr was mad at me for reporting abusive situations I don't want the cops meddling in. So now we are to blame for James almost getting arrested. Okay that's it I'm done, completely. Lose my email address, I'm blocking you anyway. I'll be fucked if I'm going to stand by and accept the blame for your fucked up life. Shit, all I've done is try to support you, hell I DEFENDED you and you spit in my face? Hell NO, I will not stand for it.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:25:45 PM)
No, I'm not spitting in your face, yes you defend me and then you bounce back to you're a bullshitter tell the truth and then going back to defending me. If you would of read the time stamps on my posts you would of known Monday is when I said he spent all day in the hospital with me, and SUNDAY, NOT MONDAY, I spent all day with a friend, you're flip flopping between yeah she's hurt she needs some understanding to what is it you're billshitting us all. If I had not of listend to every one on here and told my dr we have domestic violence issues, then yes, he would not of almost been arrested because I was keeping shut. I knew he maybe could get in legal trouble, and I kept shut to protect us both, and every one was like no honey tell the dr and I said no he'll get in trouble, and their like no he won't and guess what, he did almost get in trouble. so if I am not listening to you all, and not just you zeph every one, why did I go to the dr and tell her right away we were mutally agressive and violent, and why, did I go out and get on pych meds right away that made me violently ill for the duration of taking them before stopping them? So when people say oh you're not listening you're not getting help and I am and getting help almost got my loved one arrested, I am calling bullshit on not the part of saying I am not listening. I listend and I made a situation worse I knew to keep shut about, because I decided to listen to advice and open my yap that should of stayed shut. and no I'm not blaming any one on this, I take full responcibility for opening my yap and putting the dr in my business, against my better judgement because people said it'd help. You all every one on here said it'd help sure, but it was my job to keep shut if I doubted it'd help. quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth So now we are to blame for James almost getting arrested. Okay that's it I'm done, completely. Lose my email address, I'm blocking you anyway. I'll be fucked if I'm going to stand by and accept the blame for your fucked up life. Shit, all I've done is try to support you, hell I DEFENDED you and you spit in my face? Hell NO, I will not stand for it.

barelynangel -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:29:10 PM)
quote: I am calling bullshit. Think what you will but listening to some of you guys is what got me to almost get my bf arrested and could of gotten me arrested too because I told the dr what was going on in my house, that we rage at each other and hit each other, and sometimes he hits me and I do not like it. I trusted you all to go tell my dr right away honey they won't arrest him or call the cops and damned diddly they did, and my dr was mad at me for reporting abusive situations I don't want the cops meddling in. Umm TfB, Now you are blaming US? I am honestly at a loss as to how someone remotely uses a board such as this as their ADVISERS in their life that i would guess 99.99% of us don't know the whole story of your life and only give opinions based upon information YOU offer. Seriously TfB, this is a PUBLIC MESSAGE BOARD OF NICKNAMES. here is some real advice that is given as an opinion that you REALLY need to come to terms with --- THIS IS A PUBLIC RANDOM ANONYMOUS MESSAGE BOARD -- ANY AND ALL WRITTEN POSTS SHOULD BE SEEN AS OPINIONS OF THE RANDOM ANONYMOUS POSTER WHO DOESN'T ACTUALLY KNOW YOU, YOU ARE NOT A VALID PART OF THEIR LIFE, AND YOU DON'T KNOW THEM, ETC ETC SO NOTHING SHOULD BE SEEN AS ADVICE TO RUN OUT AND ACT UPON AS SET IN STONE KNOWLEDGE FOR YOU AND YOURS BUT INSTEAD BE SEEN AS SOME ANONYMOUS STRANGER'S OPINIONS BASED ON WHAT YOU HAVE OFFERED AS INFORMATION AND SHOULD NOT BE ACTED UPON AS ADVISE FROM A QUALIFIED PERSON IN YOUR LIFE WHO KNOWS THE SITUATION A LOT BETTER THAN ANONYMOUS NICKNAMES WHO ONLY HAVE YOUR POSTS TO GO BY. Seriously TfB, you need to find your answers outside of an anonymous public message board. angel

Aylee -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:50:02 PM)
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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:51:36 PM)
Well yeah, and I know that sounds like the dr is then a quack or I am. We explained to her what's going on and that most times he's very loving but I stress him out and I do not behave properly when he stresses me out, and he usually takes care of me, and she said he's a good man then do not report him for abuse because honey in this country I will loose my licence if I do not report it and get the police involved. I also explained to her more clearly, I am raging and not controlling myself and he does something and I chose to do a reaction to something instead of walking away. and then because I reacted instead of walking away, he reacted to me reacting, and so now we're a huge cluster fuck, of both of us not doing the right thing. So now the dr has a better picture, and does not think he's ahorrible person who always hurts me, he's good to me a lot but I push things way to far, and he don't know how to stop pushing back and things get way out of hand. onboth our parts. She's also seen because I had him in with me because I was feeling so sick, how he tries really hard to be the bigger person, and sometimes fails, and I refuse sometimes to be the bigger person so now you got two people who're like kids and won't stop squabbling. We're very loving to each other and good to one another outside our issues, if I didn't have anger issues and could control myself, and he could control himself,* which we're both working on* this relationship would be a match pretty well made. I want every one to know I am not blaming I am accepting I cause problems and he causes problems and neither of us are handling it properly. The dr see's where we've gone wrong and see's how much we care for each other, and just wants us to stop hurting each other with our shared behaviors and I agree. quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead quote: ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom I'm not leaving him or him leaving me if that's what you mean. and I am not going to listen to people who tell me I have to or I should or I'd be better of leaving him, no, if that's also what you mean. I am working on myself and my health and he don't need to leave to do it in our opinions, and the opinions of my dr, who has met him and we've discussed problems with as long as we can behave ourselves, and continue to and we have been. Is this the same doctor who called the police?

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 2:57:44 PM)
Nope, I said if I wasn't getting help, why would I go out and tell my dr stuff and get thehelp I been trying to get since I started admiting I am fucked in the head,. And not keep shut, and if I wasn't listening to you all to pull the sheet off and look at this in broad day light, why would I be going to get help and why would I be on a pych med that's hurting me medically. I AM LISTENING, and people say I am not and then I get mad, because I care way to much what you all think, and try to explain myself and do so poorly. angel tell me why if I wasn't going to get help was I on a pych med that made me very sick the moment I started taking it, or Why I am now admitting I can't control my rage and I let my rage make me make poor behavior choices an then try to blame it on if only's. THAT is what I am saying. quote: ORIGINAL: barelynangel quote: I am calling bullshit. Think what you will but listening to some of you guys is what got me to almost get my bf arrested and could of gotten me arrested too because I told the dr what was going on in my house, that we rage at each other and hit each other, and sometimes he hits me and I do not like it. I trusted you all to go tell my dr right away honey they won't arrest him or call the cops and damned diddly they did, and my dr was mad at me for reporting abusive situations I don't want the cops meddling in. Umm TfB, Now you are blaming US? I am honestly at a loss as to how someone remotely uses a board such as this as their ADVISERS in their life that i would guess 99.99% of us don't know the whole story of your life and only give opinions based upon information YOU offer. Seriously TfB, this is a PUBLIC MESSAGE BOARD OF NICKNAMES. here is some real advice that is given as an opinion that you REALLY need to come to terms with --- THIS IS A PUBLIC RANDOM ANONYMOUS MESSAGE BOARD -- ANY AND ALL WRITTEN POSTS SHOULD BE SEEN AS OPINIONS OF THE RANDOM ANONYMOUS POSTER WHO DOESN'T ACTUALLY KNOW YOU, YOU ARE NOT A VALID PART OF THEIR LIFE, AND YOU DON'T KNOW THEM, ETC ETC SO NOTHING SHOULD BE SEEN AS ADVICE TO RUN OUT AND ACT UPON AS SET IN STONE KNOWLEDGE FOR YOU AND YOURS BUT INSTEAD BE SEEN AS SOME ANONYMOUS STRANGER'S OPINIONS BASED ON WHAT YOU HAVE OFFERED AS INFORMATION AND SHOULD NOT BE ACTED UPON AS ADVISE FROM A QUALIFIED PERSON IN YOUR LIFE WHO KNOWS THE SITUATION A LOT BETTER THAN ANONYMOUS NICKNAMES WHO ONLY HAVE YOUR POSTS TO GO BY. Seriously TfB, you need to find your answers outside of an anonymous public message board. angel

sirsholly -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 5:31:21 PM)
quote: I am calling bullshit. Think what you will but listening to some of you guys is what got me to almost get my bf arrested and could of gotten me arrested too because I told the dr what was going on in my house, that we rage at each other and hit each other, and sometimes he hits me and I do not like it. I trusted you all to go tell my dr right away honey they won't arrest him or call the cops and damned diddly they did, and my dr was mad at me for reporting abusive situations I don't want the cops meddling in. See this as blame if you want, see this as not listening see this as wah wah wah poor me, but I am done sitting here and having you guys tell me I am not listening unless you want to let me cry, BECAUSE I DID LISTEN AND I DID WHAT I NEEDED TO, AND IT FUCKED MY HEALTH UP AND IT GOT ME IN TROUBLE WITH MY DR, SINCE SHE'S MAD I REPORTED ABUSE AND DIDNT WANT HIM GOING TO JAIL well allllrighty. Now not only are you totally innocent in all of this, but it is our fault. We nearly got James arrested and it is our fault that you are having side effects from the psych medication you are taking...and it is our fault you are taking it. You know what i think? I think you are a spoiled manipulative brat who will throw a tantrum when you do not get your own way. If the tantrum doesn't get you the results you want, you resort to using your fists. You have done you best to manipulate the posters on these forums, but you couldn't do it. You lied at every turn to make others feel sorry for you, and made up story after story. But as usual, you slung so much bull that you slipped in it and you were exposed for the manipulative liar you really are. It must be driving you mad that you cannot lash out verbally, that we cannot see you bare your teeth and stomp your foot, and listen to you scream like a spoiled two year old. I bet you want to raise your fists to every one of us.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 5:48:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: I am calling bullshit. Think what you will but listening to some of you guys is what got me to almost get my bf arrested and could of gotten me arrested too because I told the dr what was going on in my house, that we rage at each other and hit each other, and sometimes he hits me and I do not like it. I trusted you all to go tell my dr right away honey they won't arrest him or call the cops and damned diddly they did, and my dr was mad at me for reporting abusive situations I don't want the cops meddling in. See this as blame if you want, see this as not listening see this as wah wah wah poor me, but I am done sitting here and having you guys tell me I am not listening unless you want to let me cry, BECAUSE I DID LISTEN AND I DID WHAT I NEEDED TO, AND IT FUCKED MY HEALTH UP AND IT GOT ME IN TROUBLE WITH MY DR, SINCE SHE'S MAD I REPORTED ABUSE AND DIDNT WANT HIM GOING TO JAIL well allllrighty. Now not only are you totally innocent in all of this, but it is our fault. We nearly got James arrested and it is our fault that you are having side effects from the psych medication you are taking...and it is our fault you are taking it. You know what i think? I think you are a spoiled manipulative brat who will throw a tantrum when you do not get your own way. If the tantrum doesn't get you the results you want, you resort to using your fists. You have done you best to manipulate the posters on these forums, but you couldn't do it. You lied at every turn to make others feel sorry for you, and made up story after story. But as usual, you slung so much bull that you slipped in it and you were exposed for the manipulative liar you really are. It must be driving you mad that you cannot lash out verbally, that we cannot see you bare your teeth and stomp your foot, and listen to you scream like a spoiled two year old. I bet you want to raise your fists to every one of us. Now that she's basically fucked up with yet another nic, I wonder who she'll be next??? That is the pattern after all.

barelynangel -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 5:56:11 PM)
Tfb, believe me, i know how frustrating it is when people interpret what i write as something other than what i was saying in my mind. That is the dangers of writing and putting it out there for interpretation. All in all, you have to ask yourself does all of this matter? Once you figure it out you should be able to gain your bearings again. However, sometimes you have to ask yourself -- is this battle worth the angst. I have said all i can on this and other threads, i hope you are able to gain your bearings, work towards your goals and decide how important nicknames on a message board really are but more so why you would see something in here worth anything more than a random website you read information about? This about it like Wikipedia, its a topic (one you start based on your OPs) and people will run in and give their 2 cents some of it good, some of it bad, and yeah as people are showing, some of it ugly. You have set yourself up for the good, the bad, and the ugly. Only you can put it all in perspective and determine how important the bad and the ugly is to you -- hint - it shouldn't be important at all. I have been where you are trying to explain myself over and over in discussions, but in the end, its not worth it. Ask yourself why its so important for people you don't know, probably will never know and never meet to really understand. angel

Daddysredhead -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 6:39:40 PM)
You invited and practically begged any and every one of us who took the time to read your multitude of threads and posts, to help you. The people who did were mostly lay people, but there were a few professionals who also gave you some amazing advice, all of which, you seemed to turn your nose up to. That has been your M.O. for the YourHandMyAss screen name and the current one you're using. You come off as an attention whore and a lunatic. Well, I just have one last bit of advice for you. If you really, really, realllllllly want to show us "what for," then just put the computer down and never, ever, evvvvvver post on here again. Dammitalltohell, that'll show all of us dumb motherfuckers. We'll be reallllllly sorry THEN!!! damn right [sm=tantrum.gif]

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 7:46:28 PM)
Nope it don't matter what you all think, you're names on a forum after all like you said once. I'm done caring what names on a forum cares or thinks because the people who know me, they know I am getting help and I do what i can and right now I don't feel good cause the meds I got on to get help. I don't really know why it matters to me so much, I guess it's just because on here people can be really vicious and rude if they feel you're down and they could get in a good kicking, and not all of you no but some, so like I honestly do listen and honestly do try to do well and I don't want those who offered support in the past and I thought were friends to give me a good kicking when I can't communicate clearly. Sometimes yeah a good kicking is needed, but other times I just scream from the rafters I AM I AM I AM, an they're like no you're not and I should just say what ever. I told Daddy that today if I loose people I thought were friends over some mis communication an I explained myself once or twice or three times, hell maybe even 5, that that don't matter because they were not true friends if they think you're full of shit because they mis interpret things like when days and days have passed so it's not yesterday any more and their like wait yesterday you were at a friends house how could you be at a friends house and at the dr at the same time tell the truth now. Truth is , they read what they wanted to and decided I made it up because they didn't follow the logical time line progression . My real friends and people who're in my life everyday helping me through the pain and the confusion, they know the truth, and that's all that counts. I already feel much much better because I am off the pych meds, that were making me sick and on a new plan, and I am relieved to feel normal again because I was able to take care of business.. quote: ORIGINAL: barelynangel Tfb, believe me, i know how frustrating it is when people interpret what i write as something other than what i was saying in my mind. That is the dangers of writing and putting it out there for interpretation. All in all, you have to ask yourself does all of this matter? Once you figure it out you should be able to gain your bearings again. However, sometimes you have to ask yourself -- is this battle worth the angst. I have said all i can on this and other threads, i hope you are able to gain your bearings, work towards your goals and decide how important nicknames on a message board really are but more so why you would see something in here worth anything more than a random website you read information about? This about it like Wikipedia, its a topic (one you start based on your OPs) and people will run in and give their 2 cents some of it good, some of it bad, and yeah as people are showing, some of it ugly. You have set yourself up for the good, the bad, and the ugly. Only you can put it all in perspective and determine how important the bad and the ugly is to you -- hint - it shouldn't be important at all. I have been where you are trying to explain myself over and over in discussions, but in the end, its not worth it. Ask yourself why its so important for people you don't know, probably will never know and never meet to really understand. angel

CalifChick -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 7:54:05 PM)
I find it hard to believe with your (OP) involvement in the system, that you have either never heard of "mandatory reporter" or you don't understand what it means, or both. You can read about mandatory reporting for domestic violence in California here, if you so choose. And don't let the fact that it's a misdemeanor NOT to report carry any weight. That is the penalty from the court system. The Medical Board has its own penalty system, and no SMART doctor will risk losing their license over this. Cali

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 7:57:43 PM)
I never changed my nick to hide who I was you have me confused with someone else. I've had 3 names on here, Felinepersuasion, which I mis spelled and eventually didn't want any more cause I wanted a suggestive nick name that kind of hinted at why I was here, that was your hand my ass, and then now I changed my nick because my nick name was overly suggestive * your hand my ass* and I am not allowed to play with others so why have a nick name that is so suggestive I kept having to field people who wanted to play with me in my in box because my name was suggestive. I also get bored with the same old thing year after year and sometimes spice up my profile with a fake profile stating some really ass in y ing or stupid thing like I am a cat who will eat your house plants, but it's still me and I tell every one it's me. Someone hiding under new aliases to trick and fool people wouldn't tell you who they are. And holly nope I'm not raging at any one or wanting to hit any of you, I don't care what you read or interpert any more, I explained myself, and you're a name on a screen who's nothing to me. I don't even really like you, or know you other than I think the stories about your kids are cute, if loud one says something funny. If there's a question about what I said bout something, or you think I am being full of it, and I explained myself and you STILL think I am full of shit or lying or changing my story, that's your problem not mine. quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Now that she's basically fucked up with yet another nic, I wonder who she'll be next??? That is the pattern after all.

Wolf2Bear -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 8:05:31 PM)
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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 8:07:38 PM)
Oh I know what a mandatory reporter is, but I was always told they couldn't legally do anything unless I had bruises by therapists and that they wouldn't call the cops, I was ok with the cops being called, but the thought he'd be arrested was to much for me. I want help for our anger management issues I don't want him arrested. or me. quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick I find it hard to believe with your (OP) involvement in the system, that you have either never heard of "mandatory reporter" or you don't understand what it means, or both. You can read about mandatory reporting for domestic violence in California here, if you so choose. And don't let the fact that it's a misdemeanor NOT to report carry any weight. That is the penalty from the court system. The Medical Board has its own penalty system, and no SMART doctor will risk losing their license over this. Cali

Daddysredhead -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 8:13:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom Oh I know what a mandatory reporter is, but I was always told they couldn't legally do anything unless I had bruises by therapists and that they wouldn't call the cops, I was ok with the cops being called, but the thought he'd be arrested was to much for me. I want help for our anger management issues I don't want him arrested. or me. quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick I find it hard to believe with your (OP) involvement in the system, that you have either never heard of "mandatory reporter" or you don't understand what it means, or both. You can read about mandatory reporting for domestic violence in California here, if you so choose. And don't let the fact that it's a misdemeanor NOT to report carry any weight. That is the penalty from the court system. The Medical Board has its own penalty system, and no SMART doctor will risk losing their license over this. Cali That's totally incorrect. As a matter of fact, you've put enough information on the boards that, if anyone who IS a mandatory reporter wanted to, or felt it was in your best interest or that you were in some sort of danger, that person could report all of this right now.

Kalista07 -> RE: The dr reported my problems with DAddy and the cops were called. (11/10/2009 8:14:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom Oh I know what a mandatory reporter is, but I was always told they couldn't legally do anything unless I had bruises by therapists No offense....But your best thinking got you where exactly??? Just for the record...You've put soo much information out here that if I were you the police would be the least of my concerns about people coming to my door to get me. Just sayin'. Kali

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