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You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public.

Agree

28% (12)

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71% (30)

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:44:29 AM

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we are all oafs who demand bald following....

Translation: Birds of a feather.....

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:45:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: SilverMark

.Lord knows we Doms would never wish to be considered Gentlemen or well mannered....we are all oafs who demand blind following......I must be near as good at this as I had always thought.....

at being an oaf?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:52:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: frazzle

He hasnt got round to reading it yet, prob because i didnt tell him its moved

....and you think things will go better when he does find it and realises you hid it from him?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:56:35 AM

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I didnt hide it, it just moved.

Knowing Him i'll be safe anyway, he'll be too busy laughing. If he couldnt cope with me being mad, we wouldnt be together.

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 5:58:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Well let's re-write!!!

What are some ways that you find to manage the dissonance between an s-type being respectful to the M-type in public that also manages the need to be respectful of the rest of the world and not subjecting them to your kink? How is the decision made?

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great question Sunny

as an s type things I have done or will do include waiting for him to give me a slight nod or look to say I can sit down or start eating when we are out, getting his cup of coffee or glass of water if we are at a cafe, sitting on his right (his preference for me) when out in public, wearing my hair in the particular way that he likes it when in public (a pony tail so he can give a quick tug if I need reminding about my place

). These are all ways in which I give him visible signs of my submission without anyone else being any the wiser

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:59:09 AM

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Good answer.tho it shows your misplaced pride.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:59:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: blacklion

Good answer.tho it shows your misplaced pride.

how so?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:03:46 AM

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[/quote]we do not involve others in our kink...be it saying "Sir" in front of others, wearing a leash in public, or whatever.

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So you admitthe life choice is an embarrassment to you and you conform to vanilla standards of society rather than staying true to your ALTERNATIVE life choice?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:05:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: blacklion

Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions.

WTF? I ordered my submissive to call me Sir in public? When the hell did that happen?!??!

Stoopid me... I had thought that since I'd prefer to appear vanilla in public, I should ask her to refrain from doing that. I guess I screwed up as a Dom yet again...

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:06:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: blacklion

we do not involve others in our kink...be it saying "Sir" in front of others, wearing a leash in public, or whatever.

So you admitthe life choice is an embarrassment to you and you conform to vanilla standards of society rather than staying true to your ALTERNATIVE life choice?

Nope, fella. She admits that she tries not to go around pissing off random people she doesn't know.

Funny how you failed to grasp that concept.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:07:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: frazzle

I didnt hide it, it just moved.

Knowing Him i'll be safe anyway, he'll be too busy laughing. If he couldnt cope with me being mad, we wouldnt be together.

Sorry should have been clearer. What I meant was hiding the fact that the thread had been moved or rather where it had been moved to. I know you wouldn't hide things from him, just (in this case) make it harder to find.

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RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question - 11/7/2009 6:10:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Well let's re-write!!!

What are some ways that you find to manage the dissonance between an s-type being respectful to the M-type in public that also manages the need to be respectful of the rest of the world and not subjecting them to your kink? How is the decision made?

Feel free to answer from either side of the kneel.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:11:39 AM

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*sigh* I see these inane polls and instantly it seems I know who must have written it, though of late I wonder if it's not the far cuter fellow on the left side of that photo. You seem to have all the answers, blacklion, and yet not a single clue. Can you not get it through your thick head that your way is not the only way? Or is that the reason you choose to hang out with fellow stubborn asses like your friend in the picture?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:19:03 AM

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You've got it backwards OP, you're the one who needs to show up at your elderly grandmothers house wearing assless chaps, with your doodle hanging out, and make her understand that you're a twue dominate. You really believe this shite, then you do it at your home, and you pay the consequences. Like mom not letting you use the car anymore until you act like an adult.

If your sense of dominance depends on her upsetting other people, then baby, you aint no dominant.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:14:28 AM

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He knows He's in charge, i know He's in charge. We dont have to prove anything to anyone. i give Him respect at all times. He takes care of me at all times. If He told me to wear the thick leather collar in public i would . i dont have to though, His collar is not a physical thing .

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:26:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: blacklion

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we do not involve others in our kink...be it saying "Sir" in front of others, wearing a leash in public, or whatever.

quote:

So you admitthe life choice is an embarrassment to you and you conform to vanilla standards of society rather than staying true to your ALTERNATIVE life choice?

remove your head from your best friend for a moment, please

there is no embarrassment nor conformity. There is respect for others not to submit them to something that is so personally between my husband and myself, or something that might make them uncomfortable.

Are you capable of understanding this?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:30:18 AM

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my guess is that the answer to that, Holly, would be a resounding NO

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:37:19 AM

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I'm still waiting for one of these dumbinants to have the balls to not insist on upsetting strangers, but to do it where they will be impacted. You notice he isn't willing to act like an asshat at home, in front of his parents, or his grandparents, or his nephews and nieces who he will be forbidden from seeing ever again.

No it's always some stranger's children who have to deal with this. It's always some poor person who's trying to keep their family fed by working the late shift as a cashier who gets stuck with the cucumber and lube buyer. So why doesn't he slap it on the dinner table and say "Hey Ma, guess what I'm gonna do with these".

Cowards take it out on innocents. Brave but stupid men do it at home and take the consequences. Smart men know that you can't order someone to respect you, you must inspire it through your actions. And the op has shown he's incapable of this.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:55:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Remove your head from your best friend for a moment, please

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:55:53 AM

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Celeste, one of the best set of posts I have read in a long time:) Have a great weekend

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