Phoenixpower
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I admit I considered to meet a guy locally (outside of CM) this sunday... I admit, its not gonna happen...as he tried to tell me a story, a la we could have sex the same day to see if we are compatible I admit I told him that I am pretty cold about that (especially if someone is in such a need to rush) a la if you want sex, fine, but don't expect me to be too interested about it... I admit he came up with it a la relationships would fail if the sex isnt good between the couple... I admit he obviously didn't get (or didn't want to get) the fact that I am very aware of it that guys can go to very long lengths with lies, just to get laid, and then are happy to just disappear (they must suffer some sort of insomnia after sex, I suppose) as if they would have never said anything about a relationship.... because of which I am perfectly cool with it to be rather cool about it until I KNOW that the guy is worth it to put effort into him... I admit I told him at the end that our views are different that quite frankly IMO the trust in the person as well as the desire to want to have sex with him plays a huge part in having sex and when he thinks that this is obviously not necessary, then I am not bothered to waste my time with him... I admit I will never understand why they feel the need to rush like that...as quite frankly, he doesn't live that far away (about half an hour) so why rush like that, FFS I admit life is hard at times when you do follow your values in life
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