VirginPotty
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Joined: 7/16/2008 From: Virginville Status: offline
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I admit... I'm so sorry Trapped {HUGS}}! Just the typed name "Papa" shouts the love that you feel for this man, making my heart break for you. quote:
I admit you haven't failed Red, you raised 2 wonderful Things. As tough as it may be, sit down and try to talk to him about his attitude, let him know how much it's hurting you. I admit Thing 1 knows how much you love him and that shines through. He's 16 and a boy becoming a young man, it may be just a phase. I admit you should have a tough talk with the Manny (pinata stick available upon request) and let him know how his macho attitude has affected Thing 1 and what it's doing to you. Then HE should sit down with your son and talk to him also. I admit I know it's not much help, but maybe something one of the 2 of you says to him will sink in and make him realize acting macho isn't the be-all, end-all. The above is 10000% spot on, Red. You have not failed, T1 is just testing you and also himself. As the Baby Boomers said back in the day, trying to "find himself". I also agree w/LadyHib, he's old enough to help out w/the cooking and any other chore that needs to be done. You don't need to do it all. Hell, if they're so hungry let them cook for themselves. If they don't they can go to bed hungry (Manny included). Treat yourself to a nice dinner on the way home so you don't feel the need to have to cook for everyone. Soak in a warm bubble bath, reading your favorite trashy novel & a box of chocolates by your side. Light some scented candles in your room so it's smelling even sweeter than usual (not that I'd know ) by the time you're out of the tub & go relax.
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