Phoenixpower
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ORIGINAL: myotherself I admit it my mother told me today that we'll all be going to my sister's for Christmas dinner. I admit I've always gone to my parent's house, and have done so for pretty much my whole life. I admit I'm really unhappy about it - I love my sister and her family, but it's yet another huge change to deal with since my dad's passing. I admit I hate that when one thing changes, everything else seems to change too. (((((hugs))))) da bunny I admit I feel similar when I pass grandparents house whilst I am currently living here...it just feels awful knowing that right now I can't just pop over and go into that house anymore, due to our tenants living in there now, when it was my spare home for 29 years I admit I recently did pics from that house and its garden when I helped mum there to do some work as dad had to repair a roof fromt the chicken shed (the shed itself got now tossed away, but the roof still needed fixing). I admit I do live in hope that one day...that will change again... I admit my brother just called and clarified again that he will only take the wardrobe if I don't need it... I admit my dad seemed not to be happy that I heard that conversation (he uses loudspeakers for most conversations these days) which made me wonder if a friend of mine was right when she said "maybe he called your SIL one day to convince her again to take that wardrobe" - considering how much he tries to prevent me from having it... I admit we agreed now that my brother will take it for now and then, when I am moved into my proper flat (not the one which is provided from my employer for the beginning) that then my brother will pass it onto me (as he only wants it temporarily anyway and not forever as it isnt that important to him). I admit I am happy with that solution (as I am way more happy to deal with my brother next year when he takes it apart and then builds it together at my place, as I would be with my dad). I admit, in that instance, I aim to take that wardrobe once I bought my mortgage next year...and not in the flat which I will be living in before then...though, I am not placing a bet on it until I have it in my place cause after all....some folks might change their mind I admit my dad also told him that he won't be driving me to my employer, so he finally got that message that I DON'T WANT his help in that matter... I admit it is a bummer at one side, cause I will have to change a few times via train, but nevertheless much more peaceful that way...as it would be if I would be driving with my dad...
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