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They said other volunteers complained that they feel they have to baby sit me to make sure I do a task right instead of getting their jobs done, or that I am not working correctly with the dog which is bullshit because it;s not that hard to get a dog out go to a yard park it, play with dog and go back to the kennel, and get it right, people just must not have liked me asking them if they minded helping me get a pair of big dogs out I can't get out on my own. Jody also said I am always giving mis information about the dogs too sometimes which I do not see because I don't talk about the dogs I do n't know about, One time I may have got the wrong info from someone but I don't say well bones is deaf cause someone poured acid into his ears* for example* when he was really deaf because he was left with to many earaches. so from now on I guess if I am asked a question I am just going to say you should ask Jody, can't bve accused of giving wrong information if you won't say anything. Usually in other situations, like at the bdsm parties, i am in trouble because I talk to much, and yes I do make people uncomfortable because I do not read social cues veryw bell. but at the rescue I go in I get a dog and I spend my time with the dog and I go put them back, I'm not always talking to people, though somedays I realize I may talk to much. sometimes I go the whole day with out seeing many others. quote:
ORIGINAL: angelikaJ Did they tell you what is was that you were doing wrong this time? Also could you spend some time thinking and writing about the other similar episodes to see if you can figure out which behavior(s) is/are the common denominator(s)? Do you know if your actions or behaviors are making people uncomfortable or if they are finding them to be disruptive or both? That would give you and your therapist something to work on like: are you missing certain social cues or having an issue with personal space boundaries, do you talk excessively when you get excited... (tftb, i am just listing some common types of behaviors that make people uncomfortable or that they find disruptive, I am not guessing which yours is). quote:
Also could you spend some time thinking and writing about the other similar episodes to see if you can figur
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