Phoenixpower
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I admit, mum is doing fine and she hasn't had a total surgery (she was able to keep her breast). I admit it was an astonglishly awesome chat with her and was quite interesting to hear how much my brother and his wife fucked up at parents. I admit mum explained to me that they delayed passing the houses onto us cause with the behaviour of my SIL they are concerned that my brother has to pay her out half of its worth, in case they get separated (its not in plans to split between these two, but I understand her worries....cause she turned quite bitchy towards my parents). I admit, mum even amitted that they regret these days, that they cleared her student debts as a gift... I admit further, that mum explained to me, that (in case she would have died during her surgery - after all, that happens sometimes) I would not have lost out on grannies house, cause that one belongs to her only, not to her and dad, and so dad would never be able to sell it....cause then he would have gotten half of it and my brother and I a quarter of it and we would then only be able to sell it, if we ALL agree.... I admit, whilst there is no guarantee that I will ever truly own grannies house, it is a relief, that it is rather unlikely now, that it will ever leave my family within the forseeable future....and I am grateful for that knowledge :o) I admit now its time to go on grannys grave and then drive back home...with a car which is loaded way more fully than I intended I admit the snow found us even down here....a level which is 300m lower then the one I live it....so I am wondering how it looks like when I enter bavaria
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RIP 08-09-07 The PAST is history, the FUTURE a mystery, NOW is a gift - that's why it's called the PRESENT www.butyoudontlooksick.com/navigation/BYDLS-TheSpoonTheory.pdf
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