Daddysredhead
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Joined: 11/6/2005 From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss it feels sad, but I'm not devastated. I have a great life, wonderful friends, a job I love, and family that is very supportive. I'm learning how to reach out when things are not perfect. That's a big step for me. I'm always so happy happy. I have felt like I couldn't be sad around people. So now I'm letting myself be less than perfectly happy! A pretty good lesson to learn, I think! I admit that this is wonderful, Sunny. I have come to realize the importance of the same in my life. I used to think that I had to be "up" all the time, or my friends wouldn't understand, or I was somehow deficient. Turns out, I'm human, and by our very nature, we aren't going to be "happy" all the time, and anyone who thinks that we should be, is going to be very disappointed. Sometimes we just have to accept life on life's terms, even when it's not what we prefer. You, my dear lady, are amazing. I'm happy for you just accepting what "is" for you right now, even though it isn't the most pleasant. *more squishy hugs just because that's the way I roll*
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