LanceHughes
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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom I admit that I love Daddy dearly, but sometimes he and his ineptitude pisses me off. He was called for Jury duty, and he's more than happy to go, but we have some other things that were planned, and they've been planned for 3 months, and all he has to do is ask for a rescheduling. However instead of doing that he's decided to go for the option that says he's the only sole source of income for this household, and his job doesn't pay for time off for jury duty. So he's stuck on hold, waiting for corporate to send him a letter, so he can send it in, and mean while the time of jury duty is getting closer and closer, and if he fucks around any more, it'll be to late to get a rescheduling and he'll have no choice but to go and fuck our previous plans I had been hoping for for 3 months all to hell. I have missed a lot of things because he didn't want to go and I was like ok, there's always another fun thing to do coming down the road, and I will be more than pissed off and resentful if his fucking around taking his sweet time and refusing to deal with the jury duty notice, and the request for rescheduling fucks me out of yet something else. And not the fun kind of fucking either. Sometimes I wish i could just push him aside, and deal with the issue myself. *I* don't fuck around, when there's deadlines to meet and important things that need dealing with, *I* unlike him, get things done and over with. And this would not be the first time nor the last he's fucked around and dithered around till the last moment and I had to step in and take over, or he'd still be dithering about not dealing with it, and then when the consequences came down the line, BOTH of us would of been fucked royally, not just him. I admit that Toppingfrombottom sounds a little distraugth <sp>. I admit that I know a way to handle this without screwing up the dynamics. /Lance steps out of "I admit" mode for a moment because I admit it's not relevant in this case/ Tfb, here's what I'd like to have my bottom do. "Sir, I realize you've got a lot of other things on your mind and I appreciate all yu do for me and us. I was wondering if you'd like me to handle scheduling for us both? That way, it'd be coordinated and I might be able to get a little surprise in for you now and then." /"I admit" mode = ON/ I admit I'm not sure I know your dynamic. I admit I hope that (or something like that) helps.
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"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes "Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong 10 fluffy points 50 nz points Member: VAA's posse
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