CynthiaWVirginia
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Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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Good luck, KyttnTheMynx, with possibly getting back together with your ex. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I admit that I would start some new thread, except I would not want to hear about how undommely I am or that I should have kicked someone to the curb. I admit that I am dropping like a rock AGAIN and I am getting sick of eating chocolate every few days. I admit I thought I'd never see the day when I would be sick of chocolate, or that I am beginning to have a negative association with it. I admit that reading one of Otter's recent postings is the only thing that's delaying my complete and total burnout. I don't want to be cryptic, so I will put part of it into a quote box. quote:
There is nothing in male socialization...at all...that says that it is in any way okay to be submissive, subservient, or yielding to another. And so that is a pretty big hurdle for most males to get over. The few that make it over that first hurdle of taking it real time will often take a "this far and no farther" attitude until they find someone they can really trust...and that is a strain because it makes them appear unwilling when they are really just fearful of letting go of that last bit of male programming that embracing that nature that allows them to really become a "submissive". I admit that men are a pain in the arse, bless them.
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