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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 6:28:28 PM   
Daddysredhead


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*hugs BK*

You're so right.  I constantly try to learn more, whether about myself, other people, the why's and how's of choices I've made, etc., all of it.  There were days when I wouldn't look at those things because they were too overwhelming.  I think now, I can dissect them a bit at a time, knowing that I don't have to "get" the whole picture all at once.

What makes me sad this evening, is that I have part of me that is really quite broken at present.  I think I know how it got that way, but I'm not exactly sure how to fix it.  I suppose, like everything else, that answer will come in time.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 6:38:56 PM   
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I'll admit I didn't expect to find a bunch of typicaly normal to Me people on here.
I'll admit I forget to CHECK the damn date before replying to what turns out to be an older thread and apparently that makes other posters crazy if they were waiting for something more important to them to be posted.

I'll admit that at 9:30 am in China, I'm just not up to go adventuring in the sweltering heat,, not till after lunch , nap and 4 pm!

I'll admit that I really enjoy comparing the random strangenesses that
appear in My inbox here! (of course never mentioning names)
and
I'll admit that My expectations are lower than when I first registered here

and last - I'll admit it's so frustrating when My standards are still high!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 6:53:35 PM   
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I admit that a friend of mine once said, "Expectations are nothing more than premeditated resentments."

I admit that, while wickedly funny, I find that statement more true than not.

I admit that part of my adventures into my "stuff" recently, is to admit to myself that after so many disappointments over the years, I have learned to expect nothing.  I mean that.  I expect pretty much nothing from anyone.  I know that I can count on my Dad always.  Other than that, I have no real expectation that people will actually follow through on anything they say.

I admit that I was not planning on admitting that out loud on the boards, but it seemed timely, so what the hell.

I admit that I'm not bitter about it, it's just a protective mechanism that I seem to have developed over time.

I admit that I never really equated a "lack of follow-through" by people with mistrust, but in all actuality, that seems to be exactly what it is.

I admit that part of me wants to erase this entire post.

I admit that I will not erase this post because I think I need to see it written out, by me, in some fashion.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 7:00:05 PM   
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OK fine... 

I admit that I have some major trust issues with people. 

*there, I said it, I wrote it out... directly, no fluff, just said it*

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 7:34:44 PM   
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I admit my lack of internet connection at home is seriously making me behind on my favorite threads and I haven't even ventured out of P&RS because I don't get enough internet time!

I admit I am 110% smitten.

I admit quitting my job and moving in with dad seems like it was the best choice - my blood pressure is the lowest it's ever been without meds, I'm losing weight at twice the pace, Oh, and except for the ouchy and achy feelings from this mornings playtime I am feeling better than I have in months!

ETA: I admit, of course, the ouchies and aches from this morning are soooooooooooooooooooooo worth it


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 7:48:22 PM   
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I admit I am moody.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 7:56:07 PM   
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I admit we all get that way at times, TFB.

I admit my mood today is all sunshine and giggles


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 7:59:44 PM   
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I admit that I'm glad that Sophie had a yummy morning.  *yay!*

I admit that I understand that "moody" thing myself, TFTB.

I admit that I just bought myself an ice cream cone and ate it in the car before I decided to come inside.  *yummy*

I admit that I also rented myself 2 movies, which I am off to watch now.

I admit that I'm sending out hugs and squishes to those who need them, or just want them "because."

*night, night, sweet people*


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 8:02:37 PM   
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I admit I'll accept those hugs and squishes cuz I'm greedy like that!

I admit an ice cream cone sounds good!



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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 8:44:26 PM   
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red, lack of trust is not such a bad thing. even as a protective measure.

trust indicates a level of awareness about yourself. that generally takes time (20 yrs is nuffin) and intelligence and humour. those are all very very attractive qualities, you know.

awareness is good. awareness makes you healthy, sane and interesting to be around.

awareness can be bad for other people, as it means that you can see them clearly. and that can be frightening for many many people.

stop taking it as something you need to admit, like a shameful secret or a filthy hidden part of your psyche (on these boards, actually, that's a 'hawt' thing, though, isn't it?)

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 8:51:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

OK fine... 

I admit that I have some major trust issues with people. 

*there, I said it, I wrote it out... directly, no fluff, just said it*


Good *smooooooches your cheek* That you got it out, I mean.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 8:56:14 PM   
Daddysredhead


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*ran back here for a second*

*hugs to Angel and all the rest who are so dear to me*

I admit that it isn't something shameful, so to speak, but rather revealing.  It's taken a long time for me to pretend that I never felt hurt by lies, etc. that people have told me during my lifetime.  So, putting it "out there" for my own eyes to see that I have been honest to myself and whomever may read this board of stuff, is kind of cathartic.

I admit that I am thankful that I have some place to put this stuff, and yes Angel...  it is a wee bit hot, isn't it? 

*ok, back to my movie* 

(love you guys)

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 8:59:25 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

OK fine... 

I admit that I have some major trust issues with people. 

*there, I said it, I wrote it out... directly, no fluff, just said it*


Good *smooooooches your cheek* That you got it out, I mean.


*thankies, Level*

Could I interest you in a seat next to me?  We can watch a movie and lean on one another.     (snuggly like...  I'll share my popcorn, too)

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 9:07:46 PM   
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I'd be honored, my friend.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 9:56:16 PM   
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I admit that I am sad that I havent been able to go hang out with Hibbie and Cali yet.  Maybe tomorrow after I get off work...

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 10:43:10 PM   
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I admit I got nailed right between the eyes by some sweet lovely thing I was just trying to be helpful toward.

I admit I have absolutely no idea where that's going, but should be fun.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 11:36:30 PM   
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Red *HUGS AGAIN* because you can use it.

Sometimes it's not all about fixing the broken. A friend of mine made a lovely ceramic sculpture. Well, in a move it broke into three pieces and, to be honest, the pieces sitting there next to eachother turned it into a totally new work of art, more beautiful than it was before I think.

There are times where you need to look at the "broken" and realize that it's now simply what it is, and often is exactly what makes that thing (or person) beautiful, wonderful and magically unique, and that others love it just as it is.

That being said, if you ever need to talk, you know how to get in touch with me hon. :)

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 11:39:23 PM   
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that is just totally awesome, BK

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/24/2010 11:45:16 PM   
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... let an (anonymous even!!) asshole get under my skin.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/25/2010 1:47:16 AM   
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I admit that I have spent the day sorting out all of my tax papers and it is all done, now all I have to do is go to the person who works it all out yay me 

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