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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 2:27:20 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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ORIGINAL: monochromaniac

I admit last week I found out my grandad is terminally ill after my grandmother told a friend of the family who then told me.
I admit I am at a loss as to why she didn't tell me personally.
I admit I haven't gone to see him yet, because it's easier to pretend it's just not happening.



I admit I am sorry to hear this and also realise that your post doesn't indicate your relationship with your gran, but in case you have a good relationship with her then she might be too distraught to think about everyone in such a hard time, or might try to avoid hurting you with such news or whatever else the reason might be...(saying whatever relationship you are in as I don't really no my grandma from my dads side, as he broke up the contact to his siblings and mother after his dad passed away when I was a kid).

I can only advice you to see him as after all it is the last thing you can do.

When my granny was terminally ill I flew home just in time and could talk to her once more...the following night (which was the only night I was at home for that trip) she passed away. My brother came the following day and therefore came too late (despite him living in the same country as she did). I was relieved I made it in time to meet her once more and to be able to say good bye to her just after she had passed away in the early morning hours, before my parents dropped me back off to the airport.

I admit it was awfully hard that I had to start uni 4 days after her funeral as we had one full week induction week...

I admit she was my biggest loss ever in life and I was blessed that she was my grandma and loved it when she called me "my girl" as that's what I was and always will be

I admit today I received another sad news as another family friend passed away just aged 48 on a heart attack...gone faaaaaar too soon

I admit it is quite scary to see how many people I know died in the last 10 months back home...

I admit I hate in such moments not to be at home anymore.

I admit between my shifts today I enjoyed to snuggle up with my kittens Merlin and Urmel on the sofa at home.

I admit that it also feels nice that my other cat pepper accepted them now and licks them at times...

I admit they do really gorgeous and I can't wait that they reach the appropriate age to use proper flea treatment onto them....as they are awfully infested and its time again for another bathing session to temporarily relieve them.

I admit they won't like it but it is worth it.

I admit I also can't wait that summer stops feeding them so that I can treat her as well...

I admit but even with fleas....they are goooooooooooorgeous

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 2:47:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: monochromaniac

I admit last week I found out my grandad is terminally ill after my grandmother told a friend of the family who then told me.
I admit I am at a loss as to why she didn't tell me personally.
I admit I haven't gone to see him yet, because it's easier to pretend it's just not happening.


Go, visit. Talk to your grans, and show them your support. It's family, sometimes they don't want to worry others unnecessarily...

I admit I was lucky to be there when my only grandmum passed.
I admit I was the black sheep of the family, and the 'favorite'.
I admit I still miss her after all these years.

Make the most of what you've got.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 2:47:40 PM   
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I admit I have had the migraine from hell for 2 days due to this awful rain in Chicago.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:00:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you, everyone, for your replies.
I know I should visit but the thing is - he's my real dad's grandfather (so technically my great grandfather) and after my dad died when I was 9, I have had little to no contact with his side of the family - there's always been a big divide between the my parent's families. I haven't seen him in at least a year and I know they'll think I'm only visiting because it's expected of me. I don't want to rip open old wounds and make his last time more stressful and traumatic because in all honesty, I think that side of the family just like to pretend I don't exist.
I want to visit because I know it'll be my last chance but I just...can't do it. I just keep finding ways to distract myself and avoid making that phone call to find out any more information like how long he has left because I know that time will just loom. The fact that my grandmother couldn't even pick up the phone and tell me herself as well..it hurts. A lot. Hence why I don't think they even want me to see him.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:09:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mono,
While I don't know your family, I think it's safe to say you're making a lot of assumptions based on how you feel and the past. Would it be a bad thing for you to call and ask if you can come visit him? That way there's no surprises on either side. If they say no, at least you tried, if they say yes, it could be a very good visit for you and the family.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:12:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

Mono,
While I don't know your family, I think it's safe to say you're making a lot of assumptions based on how you feel and the past. Would it be a bad thing for you to call and ask if you can come visit him? That way there's no surprises on either side. If they say no, at least you tried, if they say yes, it could be a very good visit for you and the family.

I was about to suggest this, but girly is too smart. She thunk of it first!


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:15:12 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:17:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: girlygurl

Mono,
While I don't know your family, I think it's safe to say you're making a lot of assumptions based on how you feel and the past. Would it be a bad thing for you to call and ask if you can come visit him? That way there's no surprises on either side. If they say no, at least you tried, if they say yes, it could be a very good visit for you and the family.


I think girly has some sound advice.
Not knowing will leave you with so many questions and once you make the call if the answer is no, you will know with certainty that you did everything you could.

Wondering afterwards, and having their disaproval then will be very difficult.

At best you will be able to see him.
At worst you will have the peace of mind knowing you did what you could ... .

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:22:49 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:26:25 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		I admit that I am home alone...no one watching over me.

I admit...I am going to have steak tomorrow night, with a baker...

I admit...I am enjoying this.  I can wash clothes tomorrow.

I admit, I can crochet and be on the forums at the same time.

Ditto that but be playing Runescape.

I admit that all I have to do is to make sure that georgie out 2 times a day, preferring not in the heat of day.

Also make sure his bowls are full.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:31:40 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:38:05 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 4:55:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit that I have a crush on quite a few people.

I admit that one of those people is someone that should be off limits.

I admit that I dont want them to be off limits, but DAMMIT! *headdesk*

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 5:06:13 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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Status: offline 		...just wrote a long reply to angelikas post but my damn phone refused to press the "send" button.

...will try to write it again when i get home

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 5:27:38 PM   
BKSir


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ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne

What is an Icelander contacting you for?  You don't have the airfare...




I admit, I don't have the foggiest.
I admit, even if I did, his cmail was so terribly unoriginal and stupid, I wouldn't be interested.
I admit, I don't even remotely fathom how someone can want to be my slave, particularly since I don't want a "slave", without even talking with me first.
I admit... I facepalmed.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 5:34:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BKSir
I admit... I facepalmed.


I admit the term "facepalmed" made me smile. I like it BK

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 6:24:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I bought something for the very first time from a shopping channel on TV.
I admit that it is fun having packages show up at my door. It's like Christmas!

I admit that I'm feeling good the last few days and now I'm restless and wanting to get out and go do something.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 7:27:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I'm working long days to get through deadlines at work.

I admit I'm hanging in there so far.

I admit I'm thrilled about the Prop. 8 decision.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 7:40:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I am kind of tired and in a don't give a shit about anything right now mood.

I admit I would like to be chowing down on the huge loaf of bread and ranch I have in the house, except I have no idea what Daddy did with the bread, and I admit I am to lazy to go look for it, and I admit Daddy's to busy to call and ask.




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RE: I Admit It I........ - 8/4/2010 7:43:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit also, that I may just go back to bed and sleep the rest of the evening away, having already spent from 3 till 7 napping.

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