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Lushy massage people like you are the ones who make it such a joy to go. I had a massage lady, and she was so nice, she put me at ease completely, and said what ever I wanted to do to feel comfortable on her table was fine with her, because I had told her I suck my thumb when I am really comfy, or relaxed. And I wanted her to know so if I WAS sucking my thumb it wouldn't be a surprise, her reply was, "that's fine what ever you need or want to do to be comfortable I am fine with it" She also made me feel really safe at a time when my ADHD was acting up and I was out of sorts, and I had a uti and I feared I smelled bad and I was not feeling the best about laying on a table in my undies. She just said "it's no problem I don't smell anything from you if it makes you feel better, and if I did smell something, meh we're women, scents happen it's natural." She had my devotion from then on lol. It's a pity she's not working there any more since she had to focus more on school and less on her job. I loved going to see her, she was fun and funny, and she did a wonderful job, and I enjoyed not just the massage but more so the sense of companionship I felt on her table. quote:
ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 I admit I just had a profound experience at work. I was suppose to be doing an hour and a half deep tissue massage. The client needed some work but really she needed some soothing. She lost her husband last saturday. A mere 6 days ago. She had spent 3 months in hospice or hospitals. I admit I tried to create a safe place for her to cry. I admit she did. I gave her tissues and told her she was safe in my room and how brave she had been. I admit i cried too but she couldn't see as she was laying stomach down. I admit I cried for her pain, what she went through, what she was going to go through and my own grief at the loss of my mother. I also cried at the feeling like an oprphan as my father has sold the family home and is now in love(no not the last one) and hes saying horrible things like he should have never married our mother and he hasnt spent anytime wth his family or grandkids. So I admit I cried for her, I cried for me, but mostly I tried to just be present for her. If I was able to provide any comfort to her, I am satisfied that I could be a healing force in her life. I admit poise rocks too!
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