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Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:18:53 AM

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How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day? Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

Not looking for fantasy, looking for a better understanding of reality and wish to learn the difference between the two...

RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:22:00 AM

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How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day? Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

In my relationship with my ex owner, everyday we were together, I would give him oral sex at least once a day. But I only saw him a few times a month.

However, in my current relationships, we do some sort of sex/oral sex/sexuality every time we're together except for rare occasion based on sickness or exhaustion. We like it, and I enjoy doing it thoroughly.

Just depends on what your balance is. Some people are happy hardly ever having sex, and some people are happy with sex at least once a day.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:47:21 AM

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Everyday? Nah. Not enough time what with everything we have to do.

I know a few people for whom this is true, though.

We're working on getting to the "I want, gimme" stage. He's not quite comfortable, yet, telling me "I want oral, c'mere." But that's defiantly our goal.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:53:57 AM

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ok.. i'm the minority

when Master is here.. it's either every morning to start his day out with a smile... or every evening to relieve and tension.. or just for his pleasure...

Besides.. he knows I do need my daily feedings.... (grinz)

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:55:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: MojoRisin

How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day? Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

Not looking for fantasy, looking for a better understanding of reality and wish to learn the difference between the two...

For *us* we don't live together but I see him all the time. And it is very very rare that I don't spend time down there. It wasn't remotely that way all the time, it was definitely an earned privilege for me. For the first year or two I never gave him oral sex (not cause I didn't want to), then for the next two or three I did, but it wasn't terribly common, and then he started to let me give him blow jobs with increasing frequency and nowadays it has most definitely gotten to the (to quote perverseangelic) "I want, gimme now." Which is absolutely fine for me.

C~

P.S. - and I would say on average I get oral sex from him about once a year

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:57:45 AM

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Dear Mojo,

Keep on Risin' <g>

Everyday, and then some.

Best of luck to you in your search.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 10:03:45 AM

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How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day?

there is no standing order for daily cock worship, or any specific sexual activity, only the standing order to be ready, at any time to be used by Master for His sexual pleasure, whatever that happens to be.

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Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

as always, it depends on the folks involved--yes, this slave is at the ready, daily for whatever Master's appetite will be.

also, here's an example for you:

the devoted, submissive, highly sexual wife has just found out from the Doc that the bun that has been in the oven for the last 4 1/2 months is male. upon sharing this with her husband that evening he IMMEDIATELY announces there will be no more sex for the duration of whatever time is left on the timer(4 1/2 more months)~after MAJOR protesting by the wife about her sexual needs being fulfilled, he announces he will ALLOW his wife the pleasure of giving him a blowjob every morning before work, and if he is feeling generous, maybe one more time before bed. that's all the sex that will be going on, end of decree. (this was a vanilla marriage, btw)

was it his fantasy? maybe, but he never said it was.

was it unrealistic? not under the circumstances. she jumped at the crumb that was flicked off the table in her direction, and savored it.

does this actually happen? well, all that this slave has related above DOES and HAS happened.

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Not looking for fantasy, looking for a better understanding of reality and wish to learn the difference between the two...

their similarity: both are wholly subjective.

their difference: which one do you choose to energize into fruition?

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 10:05:11 AM

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it's been so long since i've even had one, i'm not sure i remember how it goes...LOL

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 10:57:59 AM

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everyday... lost of times twice a day... to start and end the day... sometimes it's more then that.... sometimes thats all there is... but one can pretty much guarentee its at least once a day

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 12:57:15 PM

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Can you collect umemployment if your fired from a blow job?
Fastlane ponders the question as he amuses himself on this boring Friday.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 1:07:31 PM

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How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day? Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

If i did that i would have to wake Him up in his recliner, then there wouldn't be time to post here.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 2:11:09 PM

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Man i would love to give my Master oral sex every day but we don't live together and i don't see him on weekends. Wehn i do see him i always want to do it but sometimes it just won't work because of time constraints. When we can though i love it.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 2:26:11 PM

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there is no standing order for daily cock worship, or any specific sexual activity, only the standing order to be ready, at any time to be used by Master for His sexual pleasure, whatever that happens to be.

That's the rule in our house too. His health being what it is, every day is not an option - the desire is there but the body won't co-operate. But I'm still getting more sexual activity than I did with the healthy male I was married to for 23 years, and enjoying it a hell of a lot more!

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 4:44:05 PM

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I did it everyday with my ex Master....not just because he wanted it but because he knew I loved doing it.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 9:35:50 PM

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No matter how tired, i must always suck his cock till he stops me, however that may be, its not a fantasy, in more ways than one.
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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/10/2006 10:23:00 PM

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well, somebody has a handle on life and I am rather proud.
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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 7:52:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MojoRisin

How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day? Is this just a fantasy, is it unrealistic? Or does this actually happen?

Not looking for fantasy, looking for a better understanding of reality and wish to learn the difference between the two...

I'd like to offer an insight here, which is from the Vanilla side of things more than BDSM, but Vanilla is as much a learning experience too.

When I was younger, I HATED performing oral sex. It was hard work (!) not a great deal in it for me, and I was prejudiced by the common misconception that that's all blokes really want: steak and blowjobs. But I did it anyway to keep a man interested - how sad. There wasn't much steak in it for him either lol.

Then I met someone who I really loved, and the giving of oral sex became something else entirely. When you have deep feelings for someone or even just a deep connection as PE can be, seeing them happy makes you happy, and when you know what makes them happy, you WANT to do it, and from that it then becomes a pleasure to do it. Until recently (because we are no longer together in that sense) i was happy to pleasure my man this way often because it was an act of giving, laying all submissive tendencies aside. I loved to see and hear the pleasure I was able to give him, and that fulfilled me too.

So, in conclusion it doesn't have to be a fantasy, but it isn't something to be expected either from the outset. If you find a submissive who is very motivated by giving, then perhaps as your connection progresses it will become a regular part of her gift to you.

I know this is a bit of a generalisation, so welcome all comments.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 9:17:43 AM

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When I was younger, I HATED performing oral sex. It was hard work (!) not a great deal in it for me, and I was prejudiced by the common misconception that that's all blokes really want: steak and blowjobs. But I did it anyway to keep a man interested - how sad. There wasn't much steak in it for him either lol.

Then I met someone who I really loved, and the giving of oral sex became something else entirely. When you have deep feelings for someone or even just a deep connection as PE can be, seeing them happy makes you happy, and when you know what makes them happy, you WANT to do it, and from that it then becomes a pleasure to do it. Until recently (because we are no longer together in that sense) i was happy to pleasure my man this way often because it was an act of giving, laying all submissive tendencies aside. I loved to see and hear the pleasure I was able to give him, and that fulfilled me too.

Dang. i could have typed this myself! Hated it and the steak usually ended up being a cheap one. i personally agree with everything you said except the "laying all submissive tendencies aside" because everything i do for him comes from a place of submission, including the intense craving i have for him which constantly aches me. Prior to him, even if i really loved someone, i would rather have had the steak.

As to the thread title - fantasy? No. It would be a privilege.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 3:39:14 PM

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I used the wrong words up there, what I mean was "even if I wasn't submissive", rather than laying submissive tendencies aside. I often forget than when typing you have no tone of voice to aid you. Thanks for the support owned girlie - I think we have a fair bit in common judging from ythe posts I've read by you :).

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 4:11:29 PM

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No matter how tired, i must always suck his cock till he stops me, however that may be, its not a fantasy, in more ways than one.
little1

This is me.. I have to be stopped. I get down right comfy... then get lost in my own little world without losing focus on what i'm doing and why. I get slack jaw... and i'm gone... LOL <Master's happier that shit I don't get lock jaw.... lmao>

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