Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring?

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winterlight -> Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 2:44:51 AM)
Thanks for the replies..

KateyCaine -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 2:52:58 AM)
They are both of equal significance to me, the level of love and commitment they symbolise; however, it all really depends on what is in the heart of the wearer - where they are at, how they themselves view the undertaking of commitment and how seriously they take the relationship, whether it is a marriage or D/s or M/s relationship. Trust, respect and fidelity are essential to all the aforementioned. k.

littlewonder -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 3:43:20 AM)
For me personally...a wedding ring. I'm old fashioned, pretty traditional. Wedding vows for me are a significant bonding of two people before their Higher Power.

smilezz -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 3:48:13 AM)
Neither. Both of those are only outward appearances/symbols of what is really important to an individual. The "commitment" itself between the individuals, no matter what form is the importance. Happy Friday! -smilezz-

LadyChallene -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 4:02:16 AM)
Personally, I find I put more stock, hope and faith in a collar. I have been through two marriages, each time I go a ring that in the very end I wound up pawning. The relastionships I have had with live-in, 24/7/365 relationship that last so very much longer then either of My past marriages. I exchanged rings with hubands that thought that the piece of paper that goes with the wedding rings was the 'normal' thing to do. But, the few times I have placed a collar around someone's throat meant more, went deeper and as I said just a moment ago lasted longer and was more fulfilling. That is just My simple opinion and 2 cents worth.

LadyPact -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 4:07:55 AM)
Since My marriage is My primary relationship, I have to say the wedding ring.

daintydimples -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 4:39:29 AM)
This: quote: ORIGINAL: KateyCaine They are both of equal significance to me, the level of love and commitment they symbolise; however, it all really depends on what is in the heart of the wearer - where they are at, how they themselves view the undertaking of commitment and how seriously they take the relationship, whether it is a marriage or D/s or M/s relationship. Trust, respect and fidelity are essential to all the aforementioned. k.

DesFIP -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 5:26:23 AM)
Wedding ring. It's harder to break a marriage, a lot more expensive, and it impacts more people. The greater the risk, the more importance you put on it or should.

RCdc -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 5:29:16 AM)
Neither. Commitment is an action. It's what you do and feel. It's not a symbol. the.dark.

LaTigresse -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 7:04:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smilezz Neither. Both of those are only outward appearances/symbols of what is really important to an individual. The "commitment" itself between the individuals, no matter what form is the importance. Happy Friday! -smilezz- This.

Missokyst -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 8:32:44 AM)
Marriage. That's why I won't choose it.

AquaticSub -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 9:35:48 AM)
~Fast Reply~ For us it's the wedding ring. TO US (Your milliage may and probably will vary) it's a symbol of more than our style of relationship but of us joining together to create our own family.

Wantstocontrolu -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 10:56:50 AM)
Collar Marrages today are to easy to get, too easy to dump. There is no commitment in them anymore.

MsSavra -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 11:08:34 AM)
Definitely the collar. Marriage - well, been there, done that, didn't work. A marriage is meant to be among equals. Both can decide to leave. But the collar is a committment that binds me just as much as the slave - he becomes my responsibility. Hard to explain what I feel, but when I leave my husband it's a goodbye, if I were to leave my sub/slave it's abandonment. I don't know if I'm explaining it very well, how I feel about it.

Arrogance -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 11:10:59 AM)
Wedding ring, unquestionably.

allthatjaz -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 11:22:01 AM)
After watching a good friend die suddenly recently and his lover and live in partner kicked out onto the street with nothing, I have to say a wedding ring. In this case even a will was made and is now being contested by his family. Having a good understanding of how these things work, I doubt she will be left with any creature comforts. Perhaps that sounds a little cold or does it? I want to know that if I die before my partner that he will have all rights to live with what we have now and he feels the same way about me. What good would a collar be in a bereavement situation?

AquaticSub -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 11:53:14 AM)
That is awful that the family is contesting the will. I hope things work out for your friend. I think you've raised a good but troubling point.

RCdc -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 1:28:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz After watching a good friend die suddenly recently and his lover and live in partner kicked out onto the street with nothing, I have to say a wedding ring. In this case even a will was made and is now being contested by his family. Having a good understanding of how these things work, I doubt she will be left with any creature comforts. Perhaps that sounds a little cold or does it? I want to know that if I die before my partner that he will have all rights to live with what we have now and he feels the same way about me. What good would a collar be in a bereavement situation? Urgh...ignore my post. the.dark.

breatheasone -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 1:56:55 PM)
A wedding ring.

DrkJourney -> RE: Which do you consider more of a committment a collar or a wedding ring? (11/13/2009 2:03:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz After watching a good friend die suddenly recently and his lover and live in partner kicked out onto the street with nothing, I have to say a wedding ring. In this case even a will was made and is now being contested by his family. Having a good understanding of how these things work, I doubt she will be left with any creature comforts. Perhaps that sounds a little cold or does it? I want to know that if I die before my partner that he will have all rights to live with what we have now and he feels the same way about me. What good would a collar be in a bereavement situation? Marriage and for just this reason. I value both a great deal. Me and mine were thinking of waiting to marry after he returned from deployment, but just as the situation stated above...the military will not acknowledge a collar, and if, God forbid, he got injured I want to be there for him.

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