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CalifChick -> RE: Messaging subs on here (11/22/2009 11:41:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Joediaf
My previous experience in messaging women on the internet usually requires that I beat around the bush. ie How are you doing? Do you like zombie movies? Do you like nature? Do you like my little gay dog? etc etc Should I be asking these questions or do I need to change them up? Do I need to just order girls to come over and get assfucked in their first message instead?
If you sent me a message that had those sorts of questions I wouldn't even bother to look at your profile, let alone respond. There is nothing in it to indicate that you even looked at my profile, let alone read it, or read a single journal entry. It looks as if you copied and pasted the same message to any girl that you took a fancy to, or heck, any girl that popped up on your page.
The thing that gets my attention every single time is the opening sentence. Does it start with, "You're bent over and laughing in your main profile picture, does that mean the spanking hadn't started yet?", or "that's a beautiful beach, where was that?"... or does it say "hi, how are you today. my name is XXXXX and I'm into blah and blah and blah... tell me about yourself."
I think you can probably guess which opening statements would get a response, and which would get the whole mail ignored.
A profile tip... keep the "expert" designation on the martial arts, and kill it on all the rest. You don't have to indicate an experience level, and it reads better if you don't. I don't actually think your profile is that bad... you're funny and don't take yourself too seriously, but spellcheck would help you. Although the statement "BDSM chose me, I didn't choose it" would be enough to make me pass you by. It makes me think you're a dabbler, and that's not what I want. It may, however, be what you want, and what other girls want.
Cali
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