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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:35:11 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:35:59 PM   
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And OP, your profile says you are a 50 yo dominant male. Why on EARTH, with the maturity and wisdom one would expect from someone like that, would you even consider ALLOWING a bunch of random people that call themselves slaves, on the internet no less, to upset you in the slightest???? Suck it up buttercup!


Funny about being 50 years old.  He says 50 in the profile, but when he made a forum post last year he was 63.  My addition says he's 64 this year.  I wonder what he told the 23 year old slave or whether, as with his impotence, he feels she must accept him whether he is truthful with her or not. 



I must have been juggling between windows of threads started by same poster.  My answer was meant to be part of his Impotence thread.  Funny, he's either 50 or 64  depending on where he posted his age and acts like a teenager. 

Anyway, everything this OP talks about seems to point to red flags as in not to be trusted. 

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:38:03 PM   
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I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site.


In a word - bullshit.
 
No one has been hostile towards you, though I wouldn't be surprised, or care, if they had, given your history.
 
What they HAVE been is tolerant of your rant and offered their opinions on your post, which you REQUESTED.
 
If you are unable to take opinions which you have asked for, you probably need to go acquaint yourself with a mirror and ask yourself -
 
"Am I really dominant in nature and true to myself, or someone whose sole intent is to delude myself and then whine to the world when I don't get my way."
I did not REQUEST a thing, boy!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:39:01 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:41:21 PM   
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I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site.



Could you point out to me the posts that YOU took as hostile or disrespectful to you?
Couldn't you?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:46:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:48:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site.



Could you point out to me the posts that YOU took as hostile or disrespectful to you?
Couldn't you?



Since I am not YOU I dont presume to know what YOU find disrespect or offensive. That is why I asked you. What I find offensive, rude, or hostile probably isn't the same as your definition. I know this because I didn't find any of the responses or posts to you to be any of those things.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:49:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm laughing to myself. The fact that Eigenaar is coming half armed, at best, to a battle of wits with my slave proves my point, about doms not having control over themselves. But anyway, I just wanted to say two things that are just random thoughts but appropriate to this thread, I just realized:

1. On the subject of labeling oneself, a dom, in my case two different subs approached me and told me I was a Dom whether I realized it or not and both wanted to wear my collar. THAT is how I was introduced to this lifestyle and given this title. I never slapped the title on myself and have never had to call myself that. Dominance may need to be honed or nurtured but it comes through, quite naturally.

2. The other is a phrase that the meathead in me remembers that Arnold used quite often: "Pity is given, jealousy and respect are earned."
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site.



Could you point out to me the posts that YOU took as hostile or disrespectful to you?
Couldn't you?



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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:49:35 PM   
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And OP, your profile says you are a 50 yo dominant male. Why on EARTH, with the maturity and wisdom one would expect from someone like that, would you even consider ALLOWING a bunch of random people that call themselves slaves, on the internet no less, to upset you in the slightest???? Suck it up buttercup!


Funny about being 50 years old.  He says 50 in the profile, but when he made a forum post last year he was 63.  My addition says he's 64 this year.  I wonder what he told the 23 year old slave or whether, as with his impotence, he feels she must accept him whether he is truthful with her or not. 



I must have been juggling between windows of threads started by same poster.  My answer was meant to be part of his Impotence thread.  Funny, he's either 50 or 64  depending on where he posted his age and acts like a teenager. 

Anyway, everything this OP talks about seems to point to red flags as in not to be trusted. 


That's the thing right there.  Sorry, but in My book, the fact that someone is being deceptive hinges more on whether they deserve a certain kind of respect or not.  Somebody throwing the self proclaimed 'master' title on themselves who isn't exactly the most honest of people (profile reads age 50, thread from last year admits to being 63) doesn't rank very high up there.

People were very helpful on that thread from a year ago.  Yes, they told the OP that he should be truthful about the situation.  Not exactly something he seems to have a great track record with.

As to how subs/slaves tend to interact with him, I think My boy did very well in his response.  Honestly, LaT answered the question quite well pages ago.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:50:04 PM   
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I did not REQUEST a thing, boy!


As soon as you utter the words 'I wonder ' or really give an opinion of any kind in a PUBLIC FORUM, then yes, you are inviting a response.
 
To not realise this is a strong sign of your tenuous grip on reality.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:51:56 PM   
nubianmuscle


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I did not REQUEST a thing, boy!


As soon as you utter the words 'I wonder ' or really give an opinion of any kind in a PUBLIC FORUM, then yes, you are inviting a response.
 
To not realise this is a strong sign of your tenuous grip on reality.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:53:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.
You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:53:32 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:56:51 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:57:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.
You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect?



Wow. Eigenaar, as much as you whine and complain about people being rude, snarky, and disrespectful to you, you sure manage to be rude, snarky and disrespectful to others. If you can not hold yourself to those same standards how do you presume to hold others to those standards?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 5:59:02 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 6:02:20 PM   
Eigenaar


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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.
You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect?



Wow. Eigenaar, as much as you whine and complain about people being rude, snarky, and disrespectful to you, you sure manage to be rude, snarky and disrespectful to others. If you can not hold yourself to those same standards how do you presume to hold others to those standards?
It is called assimilation!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 6:05:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.
You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect?



Wow. Eigenaar, as much as you whine and complain about people being rude, snarky, and disrespectful to you, you sure manage to be rude, snarky and disrespectful to others. If you can not hold yourself to those same standards how do you presume to hold others to those standards?
It is called assimilation!



You sound like my aunt who used to say do as I say not as I do. It didn't work on me as a child and it sure isn't going to work on me as an adult. The fact that you are doing EXACTLY what you are whining about makes me shake my head more than your orginal posts. It's pathic honestly.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 6:11:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not really. It's called exposing more and more chinks in your armor. And if it makes you feel better, for the record, my slave devilishpixie is responding exactly to you as I would and therefore represents my views on the subject. It's what happens when a sub/slave is with the dom/domme that suits them.
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful,


By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained.
 
Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions.
 
To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so.
You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect?



Wow. Eigenaar, as much as you whine and complain about people being rude, snarky, and disrespectful to you, you sure manage to be rude, snarky and disrespectful to others. If you can not hold yourself to those same standards how do you presume to hold others to those standards?
It is called assimilation!


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 6:22:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually it is called hypocrisy, and you have displayed it several times before in your posts here. Someone with an inconsistent code of ethics is often prone to hypocrisy, as well as narcissism can lead there as well. I like the fact that many people, you included, reveal so much about their personality and character flaws with the more they talk, or post. Maybe some of this has led to the beliefs you have, and some serious introspection may assist you with overcoming it.


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
It is called assimilation!


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