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Not Yet Another Switch Question - 3/13/2006 2:33:33 PM

Laura

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Most of the questions here are geared to "why are you allowed to Switch" "why do you think you're a Switch" etc. Kind of monotonous. (I'm tired so spelling does not count).

What style of sub do you enjoy best, when you are the sub? and...

What style of sub do you enjoy best when you are Domming the sub?

I like different sub styles, sometimes bratty and sometimes shy, lil girl. Most often bratty leads to a hostile take over though.

When I Dom I like a male sub who isn't entirely agreeable, a bit of humour and brattiness. But not in a wimpy/ whining way. It's more fun to Dom a strong man than a sucky boy.

Not that I get to do much of anything at the moment. I'm working on it.

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RE: Not Yet Another Switch Question - 3/16/2006 5:35:27 PM

Shayna

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I'm single and looking for a long term monogamous partner so I'm interested in the person first and the role second. If I'm all dreamy about the guy, I seem to adore whatever type of top/bottom he is :)

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RE: Not Yet Another Switch Question - 3/17/2006 4:42:57 AM

Lashra

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I like a male sub who is intelligent, fun, a bit bratty and definitely creative. I do not want a totally compliant groveling doormat, or a *Do Me boy* that is a total BORE. I also like one that can take some pain as Im a bit of a sadist and he has to like sex or well he needn't even apply for the job.

I very rarely sub but when I do it is only to one man and we play Daddy/babygirl. That is the only way I can sub and comfortably enjoy myself. He is warm, loving, adoring, a bit strict but allows my brat to come out and have a good time.

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RE: Not Yet Another Switch Question - 3/17/2006 4:16:03 PM

Slipstreme

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I don't sub. The closest I get to subbing is doing random acts of kindness. As far as play goes I am finding myself more and more a masochist, which I see as separate from submission.

As a Dom/Sadist I prefer a masochist who does not complain about how I do to them what I do to them and otherwise try to direct the scene. My primary has a habit of that, and he is slowly realizing how much that irritates me. I do however, want them to enjoy what is going on and am ever vigilent of overstepping boundaries. Sometimes a bit too careful as I am a novice. I do like someone who would serve me with an open desire to serve, and who would refer to me as Master/Sir at times. However although I am dominant, D/s is not a necessary facet of life for me. S&M is. I would not however, want a 24/7 M/s relationship, not because I wouldn't want a slave, but I doubt my ability to be a good Master as there are so many things in my life I need to learn to control first.

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RE: Not Yet Another Switch Question - 3/19/2006 3:06:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Laura

What style of sub do you enjoy best, when you are the sub? and...

What style of sub do you enjoy best when you are Domming the sub?

I like different sub styles, sometimes bratty and sometimes shy, lil girl. Most often bratty leads to a hostile take over though.

When I Dom I like a male sub who isn't entirely agreeable, a bit of humour and brattiness. But not in a wimpy/ whining way. It's more fun to Dom a strong man than a sucky boy.

Not that I get to do much of anything at the moment. I'm working on it.

Hmm... I like bratty, punky, at times, others willing and compliant. I'm not sure about a shy boy/girl though, I never thought of that.

A little definace on the subs part can add some delicious tension to the scene though.

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