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RE: fisting - 12/3/2009 2:23:16 AM

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I grew up riding horses and I do Kegels now and then, but it didn't have an adverse affect on my self-fisting. Actually the muscle control seemed to help, and squeezing the PC muscles with my fist inside - so intense, and WOW!
We'll give it a shot, and if it doesn't work, I'll just have to settle for our current stellar sex life...gee darn...

I haven't tried self fisting and maybe I should as my hands are quite small. I do think Steves hand is just too big. When he gets to the knuckles I can feel it pressing on my bones.
My riding up until recently was often 6 hours a day. Not hacking but training dressage horses which means your pelvic floor is working all the time your on the horse. I was told at the hospital that its common for professional riders to have difficulty giving birth and I do have a few friends within the horse world that had the exact same problems as me.

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RE: fisting - 12/3/2009 8:19:16 AM

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thank you for taking the time to educate me, I appreciate it. :)

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RE: fisting - 12/3/2009 2:06:41 PM

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I never did anything more intense than basic drills in a ring, a few jumps, and recreational trail rides, and no more than 4 hours a day if that. It's been a couple years since I've ridden regularly. I can see how that much riding could significantly strengthen your pelvic floor and make fisting or giving birth more difficult.

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RE: fisting - 12/3/2009 2:38:18 PM

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It's true that the wide part at the knuckles hurts the most as it presses against the pubic bone, which is at the "top" if the fistee is lying on her back. At that point, the fistER should press his hand straight downward. The vaginal/rectal wall has a lot of give to it, and the knuckles are usually more able to slip under and past that pubic bone.

Also, constant rhythmic twisting gently in and out as the fist gradually pushes inward seems to help, rather than just pushing straight inward.

It helps if the fistER is really coordinated....

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RE: fisting - 12/8/2009 1:09:56 AM

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Well I tried to fist myself but god darn my arms just were not long enough! You girls that can do it must be contortionists. Steve has decided that I need a pretty girl with small hands!

Oh and btw he found it very stimulating watching me try!

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RE: fisting - 12/8/2009 5:24:19 AM

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Maria I can't get past the point you mentioned earlier either and it disappoints me because it is something I so badly want to experience, but I think His hands are just too large. He is afraid of hurting me...well during this anyway

. So, I think I am going to just love the journey and hopefully the destination will come with patience and practice. If not, it's still incredible.

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RE: fisting - 12/11/2009 8:17:10 PM

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I tried a couple different positions, I didn't think my arms were long enough either but reaching my right hand around from behind while on all fours worked quite well

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RE: fisting - 12/12/2009 9:28:16 PM

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The best way to exercise the muscles to expand is to stretch from inside out by inserting an inflatable butt plug/baloon in the vaina and after inflating, gradualy pulling it out and watching the ring get wider. That way the woman can press down rather than fight against the resistance.

For those not clear, see the poerpoint presentation attached!

Anyway, evrey woman is different... some more elastic than others. If patience and lube don't work, general anesthetic is always a safe bet!!!

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RE: fisting - 12/13/2009 4:59:36 PM

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hmmm.... self fisting?? Foot fetishes?? Self footing?? just trying to get the visual on that...hmmmm...she must be blessed with long arms...I have never tried that...

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RE: fisting - 12/13/2009 5:07:01 PM

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I fisted a woman once. The most unexpected part of the whole experience was that once I got my palm in, I felt incredible suction. It was really, really cool actually!

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RE: fisting - 12/14/2009 6:29:55 PM

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Oh the suction is cool!! Really unique feeling.

Anesthetic is NOT a good idea - if something hurts (and not in a good way, tee hee) that's an indicator that your body doesn't like it. Same with anal play - anesthetic will ease any discomfort, sure, but if something tears, you won't know until after it wears off. If it doesn't work with patience and lube, chances are it's not gonna happen.....

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RE: fisting - 12/15/2009 8:53:48 AM

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. Sure, some females can't naturally birth a baby, but that's rare.

no it is NOT RARE .....

and to others..
FISTING has a thought process...
When birthing you are trying hard to push that baby out..
as well a babie's head is very soft and the bones move to accomadate

IN your mind during fisting you * may* be holding an image of something going in..

I find that if I form the BEAK fingers to make a point with thumb under..and there is a lot of arousal I can almost always be turning the "beak " and bit just inside and the woman will grasp at..or push over and envelope the "fist''..( actually not a fist)..the widest part is from base of thumb to below pinkie...
and go a bit at a time...stay still.... arouse in other ways with other had.. or a 2nd person..go a bit further

and then ASS FISTING is another thread..........

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just shovin' it in does not always work..

LoL that last part only get a woman an embarrassing trip to the gyno along with 4 stitches!!!

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RE: fisting - 12/19/2009 4:19:16 PM

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Nice, thoughtful posts all. (except the person who suggested anesthesia) This happens to be one of my areas of expertise so may I start off by pointing out that nobody suggested the fister wear surgical gloves in addition to the lube(?) (See my photo to the left). I always keep a box of these in the night table drawer - they can be picked up at any decent pharmacy. Just grab a box while you're there getting your Ace bandages and other play supplies..

Fister may also want to simply unroll a condom over His/Her hand. This also works great, they are even easier to find, and have the added benefit that she will not suddenly get all wet when she hears her regular doctor snap on the gloves next visit.

As already stated: NO this will NOT result in a "destroyed" or misshapen vagina. Unless you engage in daily fisting, punch-fucking, weight suspension, inserting traffic cones, and dildoes the size of fire hydrants, everything will be right back to normal.

And finally, Kegels are excellent - but for those concerned - or who want more play with "muscle control" may I also suggest a set of kegel weights.

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