BoiJen -> RE: female Supremecy (12/10/2009 2:36:40 PM)
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Let me put it this way...Dominance, sexual and otherwise, and submission, sexual and otherwise, are universal principles. We see these two aspects present in species and cultures well beyond the alternative community. These things present themselves "universally"; meaning they are a natural principle trait either in a species, gender, or individual, based upon programming (genetic or nurtured). Supremacy is based upon fictitious notions of superiority. Superiority is simply an idea made based upon fear to exert power. Supremacy does not exist within nature (otherwise there would be a ruling species of this planet, and the roaches still have us beat so....). Nature eliminates the ability of supremacy by making different species (plants, animals, etc) dependent upon one another. We need food. To have food we grow it. Without the food, or in times of struggle, the food becomes the ruler of the man, not the other way around. It's balance and it's an ever changing balance. Comparing the fantasy notions of Female or Male Superiority to understanding and sexualizing (I made up a scientific word for "sex it up") the natural occurrence of Dominance and submission is dealing with two totally different beasts. Simply put, you can either embrace who you are as an s-type or D-type, no matter your gender and respect those positions that others hold within their own lives, or you can force your sexuality upon others by any excuse you find....Female Supremacy happens to be a primary tool/excuse that some males use to force their sexuality upon others. If you don't like being grouped up in that mess, then find some way to distinguish yourself. The Leather community had to....we did it quite well actually; "Safe, sane, and consensual" is touted everywhere and even vanilla folks understand what it means and for the most part accept it as long as they don't perceive us as a threat to their tired, boring, missionary sex. boi Property of MsKitty
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