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wisdomtogive -> RE: Re: cursing (12/12/2009 3:12:29 PM)
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I would like to attempt to clarify what i was researching for my own understanding. First of all i do not judge or look down at others for cussing. That would be preposterous on my part. I do not see me as being better because i don't. Let me use an analogy to demonstrate why I asked. Yes, this is very simple, yet might do the job. Let's say you send your child to grade school with instructions that are not permitted to cuss and especially the f word. You child goes to school assuming this is the way it is in school, and is surprised to hear kids actually using the f word as well as other cuss words. They are confused, because they were told it is a no -no and not something that would be tolerated. They go home and tell their parent(s) what occurred and asked why. As i said this is simplistic and i know no one here is a child and this is a sex site. Yet, when one is taught that a s-type is not to use that word, and you see it being used a lot, you could become confused, especially when still new to BDSM. Being the inquisitive type, i wanted to hear others' opinions. This thread was never intended to insult another, but to bring understanding. It does show a broad spectrum of what Doms' do approve and what they don't. I am not critiquing any Dom here either, to each their own. I serve One and i do what is told. Now i understand this is not a broad concept held by every Dom. Each has their own preference. I hope this helps to why i asked.
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