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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/13/2009 7:55:33 PM

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I talked (and damn briefly, I might add) to one Dominant who told me he was a proffessional pschytrist, and that my mental illness made me more interesting to him. Because it fit a kink of his - he had always had fantasies about nurturing mental illness and instability in a sub - seeing how crazy, depressed and dependent he could make her, while having her continue to serve him.
In his words 'just short of suiciide. It would be ideal if she was always suicidal and lived only to serve me, and got no joy out of life at all.'

I'm glad you weren't offended.

The whole idea of taking advantage of someone's mental illness is so horrifying to me! I don't care if someone dresses it up as "kink," and I have no problem at all being very judgmental about this. It's just wrong. Calling it "kink" isn't a get-out-of-jail free card. It's morally and ethically wrong.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/13/2009 9:52:11 PM

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tsatske As a result, I have witnessed things that makes me agree that, while the OP may be enjoying the troll session, his story may very well be true.
I agree I think it is true. The getting high (self medication), lack of self care, not being able to deal with real life, dependancy, and hypersexuality sound like typical characteristics of certain mental illnesses.
And you are right there are tons of preditors here and lots of girls willing to be their victoms.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/13/2009 10:18:16 PM

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I suggest not taking this decision lightly. It's hard to find someone who won't take advantage of your nature and mistreat you. I think you also need to re-consider your position as a Dom. Not knowing you at all, I can't really tell you something you really need to figure out for yourself. Just a suggestion.. consider being a sub sometime and appreciate the true nature of it. :)

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