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MistressSexyToes -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/14/2009 6:15:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi

This sub also asked me to write an essay on "What an evening with me would be like", Oh ya, I'm gonna get right on that...


Sounds like a time waster trying to top from the bottom.




DarkSteven -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/14/2009 6:18:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi

This sub also asked me to write an essay on "What an evening with me would be like", Oh ya, I'm gonna get right on that...


One word essay: "Dark".




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/22/2009 9:28:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi
That I would have to be tutored by an experienced Domme and to expect to be stripped and whipped and beaten. Is this common? 

Thanks!


It's extremely common.  Both within and without the BDSM community, life is full of people who think they know everything, and that they're qualified to tell other people how to live their lives.




poeticfreak -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 9:18:18 AM)

i don't really see the logic in saying one has to bottom before they can top, but it is a good idea to have friends and mentors on both sides of the equation, whether you're new or been at it for twenty years it's still nice to have others to talk with who understand where you're coming from and what you're talking about, i also believe it's also good whether you're sub or dom/me to have a good understanding of the other side of the coin, both sides have obligations to the other party, and while dom/mes are the ones most often called out about ignoring this fact subs actually tend to be worse about it




UrMyboi -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 9:59:01 AM)

Update: That sub just contacted me asking if he had overplayed his hand.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 10:11:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi

Update: That sub just contacted me asking if he had overplayed his hand.


Ya think?  [sm=rofl.gif]




Lockit -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 10:21:57 AM)

ROFL!




LadyPact -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 10:23:44 AM)

Did you reply that, due to your prior conversations, playing his own hand would be the only play he'd get?




Lockit -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 10:28:24 AM)

ROFLMAO!!!! That about sums it up!




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 12:02:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi
Update: That sub just contacted me asking if he had overplayed his hand.


Methinks it more likely that he's overplayed the bodily part his hand was playing with.




domiguy -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 12:10:15 PM)

It is a common practice ushered in years ago by my Domfather....I have since helped out many a domme with my collar of protection and my dick of devastation.

I have turned the most callous and tribute starved domme into a cock lusting and sperm guzzlin' ho.

As my friend and mentor Jefff often says, "A domme is merely a sub that has just not had the chance to yet meet me."




AquaticSub -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 12:21:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

dick of devastation.



That belongs framed somewhere. Preferably needlepointed by dommes you are instructing.

To the OP,

There are those who think dominants/masters/mistresses/whatevers need to bottom first. I don't personally hold with the idea though I'm not really against it either. It does like the person in question had... other motives shall we say? [:D]




UrMyboi -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 1:37:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UrMyboi

Update: That sub just contacted me asking if he had overplayed his hand.


My simple reply to him was "Yep!"




UrMyboi -> RE: A sub just informed me that if I want to be a Domme ... (12/23/2009 1:43:31 PM)

I personally (as of yet) have no desire to be dominated. I've ask subs A LOT of questions. They really appreciate my curiosity. As I go along, I feel as if I understand more and more. That will be as close to submitting as I will get (for now). Who knows what may peek my interest or appetite in years to come. Never say never.




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