BrianSenior
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ORIGINAL: wouldlike2 i just would like to know... if You get in touch with a Master/ Dom - sub/slave and communication is ongoing. do You expect that the slave/ sub should show the interest while the Master/ Dom is more in a waiting position and observing? do You expect that a slave/ sub put the energy in to make a connection ongoing? or should it be a two way street? i am really curiuos to hear Your answers based on some experience i have so far - smile - I see it as this, when the conversation first starts, in order for the conversation to start there is some kind of interest (For Me). As we speak, I will find out as much as I can, from asking questions, the typical, age, married, likes dis-likes and then I will ask little questions to keep the conversations going, favorite color, movies, type of music. Since I am not looking for a one night stand, I do not concern Myself things like body size, breast size, bedroom abilites. I ask color of the eyes as it is a way to know them, asking about sex is leading to a cyber or can lead to a discussion on sex (Keeping in mind that many have different opinions, I am speaking My own only). If the conversation comes to a dull moment I will ask some thing more along the lines of little trivial questions, favortie summer activites. Anything to keep it going. I ask constantly what do you think of this, how do you think of that and then after a few questions, I ask for them to ask Me some questions. This goes on for a while, not for a few hours in one night, or even a few days. If the interest is not there then the relationship wont be. Me asking questions, is a way of showing interest not just in playing, but in you. The return questions show that you have been listening and giving tyhought to Me, as well as you have a mind of your own and can use it.
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