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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 12:47:00 AM

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just an idea....wait till your ready to release and stop ...put your feet up into the air and rest them on the wall high so your back is touching as well.....then it should be right above you and finish the job....open your mouth and it will fall in hehe..just an idea *wink*

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 8:37:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

If your able to cum with your mistress.. Start by eating your cum out of her.. or licking it off of her.. becomes much easier after that.

He's only an online sub, serving online mistress<b>es</b>. Impossible to eat his cum from her that way.

I'm sure I will be flamed but my first thought is to tell them you have and get on with life. Find a real Domme, off the Internet. You're only serving yourself online. It's all smoke and mirrors why pretend to be honest.

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 9:34:03 AM

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He's only an online sub, serving online mistress<b>es</b>. Impossible to eat his cum from her that way.

I'm sure I will be flamed but my first thought is to tell them you have and get on with life. Find a real Domme, off the Internet. You're only serving yourself online. It's all smoke and mirrors why pretend to be honest.

Everyone has to start someplace, and while reality is much better than online, it is a safe way to start for many people. Obiediance is a form of submission regardless of whether it be in person, or on line, or in solitude. Instead of tearing down submissives/or slaves who only exist online, why not give them encouragement so that they work up the confidence to make it real!. Baby steps are needed in some cases, while others are comfortable diving right in.

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 9:50:48 AM

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I do encourage newbies. I don't encourage online male bimbos. How many mistresses does he need to serve and what do you think he is learning from this? The reality is a lot different.

I spent enough time on IRC tormenting male "subs". It became a game and then I just got bored. They learn nothing and they always come back for more.

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 3:22:47 PM

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I'm sure I will be flamed but my first thought is to tell them you have and get on with life. Find a real Domme, off the Internet. You're only serving yourself online. It's all smoke and mirrors why pretend to be honest.

An online D/s relationship has no meaning without honesty. I was trained online, and obeyed with complete honesty, and it was all very real to me. I don't know if footslave uses a webcam with his mistress or not, but with webcams you can show your dom/domme your honesty.

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 7:56:33 PM

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I don't mean to belittle your relationship and I'm glad it worked or is working for you. But, I don't believe in the honesty of a sub (male or female) who serves several Doms online. Yes, he or she can show he is performing as requested on a webcam. But, there is more to it than performing commands. What does his cum eating on webcam mean if he goes to the next Dom on his list for the evening and gives in his order for her services. He is using each of them and serving none of them. Who is domming who? Is he learning to be a good submissive? No. He is learning how to use women and how to make them perform for him. In turn those women who would be Doms are learning how to serve a male sub. To me the whole thing is backwards and artificial.

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RE: eating cum - 9/14/2004 8:40:46 PM

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I don't believe in the honesty of a sub (male or female) who serves several Doms online.

I must of missed that part. I certainly don't believe in serving more than one dom/domme at a time.

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RE: eating cum - 9/20/2004 8:45:39 PM

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never question a Domme m8 when ask to do something. if your willing to get on cam, and masterbate, then you may as well be prepared to eat your own cum. i understand why you ask, but i will say there is no easyer way to do it then that which "DarkDeadGirrrl" stated. its the only way, been there done that. not something i do every day, but been there.

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RE: eating cum - 9/20/2004 10:09:02 PM

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Think of it as a way of worshipping your Domme. It is hard to do but the ultimate worship if you ask me.

My comment is slightly off topic in that I am a bit curious as to why it would be "hard to do" if one were "sincerely" worshipping their Domme? Further, if it is indeed the "ultimate worship", what's the problem?

Great advice on the topic has already been given. Regarding the online performance, it would be a bit awkward to have "faked" the performance only to get together in r/l and have to follow through for the first time.

A friend of mine actually had a situation like that. Her boy busted himself when they played r/t for the first time. lol It's the same with this, as with everything else. Be real, or be gone.

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RE: eating cum - 9/22/2004 11:56:31 PM

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hmm i am or was new to eatting cum... i find that if it is salty i take and push the cum in the side of my mouth and then go ok here goes one gulp.. in time.. i found it easier... it too for me depends on the moment. This may sound odd but think of someone You love it is much easier.. don't think of the taste just think of how you are pleasing . i have been asked to taste myself and that too was hard at first. Now hmm i am glad i eat a lot of fruit.. by the way . i have found those who eat fruit and veg. (no meat) 2 days prior makes the cum taste even wonderful. *grins ps i know it is not the same for a man... but the thought process may help.

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RE: eating cum - 9/29/2004 2:57:37 AM

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i often chat online to mistresses.

What we're talking about here is cyber Domination ... it's not like it's r/t. Just pretend you're eating it ... since everything else is pretend as well. Sorry if this sounds mean.

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RE: eating cum - 9/29/2004 8:50:14 AM

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What we're talking about here is cyber Domination ... it's not like it's r/t. Just pretend you're eating it ...

That would take all the meaning out of the online relationship. Trust and honesty is the most important part of it.

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RE: eating cum - 9/30/2004 4:25:20 AM

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This whole thread reminds me of a story that a play partner told me for why she won't deal with anyone other than r/t. She'd been chatting with a 'sub' that swore he was a pain puppy .... she decided she would spend some time with him. She said no sooner than the crop hit his ass on the first stroke and he got mad because 'it hurt'. He got dressed and left. Too funny

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RE: eating cum - 9/30/2004 4:48:08 AM

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You should be careful in reducing all of online relationships to being fake in light of your friend's experience. Your sample is not statistically significant.

I'm not an expert in online relationships. I've tried it, didn't get much from it.

I am overseeing the tutelage of a young sub now but I don't get him to do anything sexual. This all happens online. Essentially, he can't fake this (unless he has someone else writing this for him). I get him to read online articles regarding BDSM and he has to write 300-essays (not a word more, not a word less) with his impressions, thoughts, etc. I then comment back on them and depending on how well he performed increase his workload or keep it steady.

Oh yes, did I mention I'm actually an expert in online distance education? ;)

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RE: eating cum - 9/30/2004 10:48:33 AM

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Trust me eating your cum out of your hand is much better than sucking it out of her ass.

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RE: eating cum - 9/30/2004 2:11:59 PM

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Trust me eating your cum out of your hand is much better than sucking it out of her ass.

i'd beg to differ...the closeness given for such an activity and the ability to breathe in the Domme, for me, makes sucking cum out of Her ass preferable...though of course, there's nothing wrong with sucking it off of Her fingers as well.

As always, your mileage may vary.

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RE: eating cum - 10/2/2004 6:53:08 PM

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footslavesub, I have just looked at your profile. Did you recently update this? This is the sum total of your profile information:
"i am a footslut who will eat his own cum to satisfy his mistress."
I do not believe in Domination online...but I do believe in training online, and I believe there is a difference. Eating cum is not a training tool I use. In r/t it is important. If you find a r/t Mistress, and you are a true footslave, cumming on her pretty feet might make it easier for you to lick it up. And then She may well want a nice, luxurious foot bath!
The purpose of this instructing, training a slave to eat his own cum? Control and humiliation...you must please your Mistress.

And by the way, how many blow jobs have you had and expected the Woman to take it in her mouth and perhaps even "swallow"?
Cum out, cum out from behind that computer monitor and jump into the real world. you might find the water (uh, cum?) just fine!

Mistress/Goddess DustyGold

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RE: eating cum - 10/3/2004 7:05:11 AM

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[Trust me eating your cum out of your hand is much better than sucking it out of her ass.

i'd beg to differ...the closeness given for such an activity and the ability to breathe in the Domme, for me, makes sucking cum out of Her ass preferable...though of course, there's nothing wrong with sucking it off of Her fingers as well.

As always, your mileage may vary.

sting

I'm liking ya more and more by the minute Sting.. :) Ass worship is heavenly. As for cumming inside of it.. well.. that is a different story, but cumming on it and the worshipping it off... Now were talking Good Times!

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RE: eating cum - 10/3/2004 7:39:34 AM

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Good Morning,

Your post is to funny, me and my sub just read it and laugh for a good ten minutes thank for making our sunday morning

M

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RE: eating cum - 10/3/2004 2:08:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: Maitresse Eden

I'm liking ya more and more by the minute Sting.. :) Ass worship is heavenly. As for cumming inside of it.. well.. that is a different story, but cumming on it and the worshipping it off... Now were talking Good Times!

Ms. Eden

i'm quite flattered, Maitresse Eden...and i agree, ass worship is wonderful...the bottom is by far my favorite part...to worship the bottom is a treat in oh, so many ways!!!...Good Times indeed!!

sting

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