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on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:31:37 PM   
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on your list of requirements for a potential mate how do you rank your requirements, assuming it's the opposite sex


for me a need to be obedient is high



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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:37:13 PM   
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What does gender have to do with it?

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:38:42 PM   
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He needed to be dominant.
He needed to be tall.
He needed to be someone that I would want to sit at a bar with and have a beer and eat wings with.
He needed to not have a structured way of dominating. i.e. not big on protocol and such, no requirements to be called a certain name.
He needed to be sadistic.
He needed to be intelligent.
He needed to match my sense of humor and sarcasm.
He needed to want to control all aspects of my life.
He needed to be physically attractive to me.

*not in that order*




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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:38:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What does gender have to do with it?



You lesbians don't count...........come on over sweetie....:)



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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:39:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What does gender have to do with it?


that was put in to preempt smart asses

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:40:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What does gender have to do with it?


that was put in to preempt smart asses



And how's that workin' for ya?


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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:44:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

He needed to be dominant.
He needed to be tall.
He needed to be someone that I would want to sit at a bar with and have a beer and eat wings with.
He needed to not have a structured way of dominating. i.e. not big on protocol and such, no requirements to be called a certain name.
He needed to be sadistic.
He needed to be intelligent.
He needed to match my sense of humor and sarcasm.
He needed to want to control all aspects of my life.
He needed to be physically attractive to me.

*not in that order*


seems you may have a few ideas




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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:46:40 PM   
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I don't have a list of requirements.  I suppose if I thought about it, I would.  What I have instead is a list of about 40 things that are "My Perfect Partner". 

And no, I have not put them in any kind of order.  No, I don't require them.  Do I expect the universe to provide me with someone who meets them?  Hmmm maybe.  This was an exercise for me to state that I deserve to at least ask the universe for what I want and to trust the universe.  The list has things on it like:

He has a full range of emotions and manages them.
He loves his body.  I am attracted to him.
He has good relationships with other men.
He loves to laugh.
He smells great.
He can't wait to tell me about his day and talk with me.
He is adventurous.


*These are off the top of my head. 



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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:49:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I don't have a list of requirements.  I suppose if I thought about it, I would.  What I have instead is a list of about 40 things that are "My Perfect Partner". 

And no, I have not put them in any kind of order.  No, I don't require them.  Do I expect the universe to provide me with someone who meets them?  Hmmm maybe.  This was an exercise for me to state that I deserve to at least ask the universe for what I want and to trust the universe.  The list has things on it like:

He has a full range of emotions and manages them.
He loves his body.  I am attracted to him.
He has good relationships with other men.
He loves to laugh.
He smells great.
He can't wait to tell me about his day and talk with me.
He is adventurous.


*These are off the top of my head. 




perfection is not hard to get, all men are perfect, ask them

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:51:14 PM   
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shes gotta suck a hella cock
shes gotta do whatever I say
shes gotta be an excellent cook

and the numbers tend towards infinity in relative terms after that....they have importance, but you got my big three.

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:53:54 PM   
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For me...the need for a Man not to be annoying is high on my list.

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:55:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yellowroses

For me...the need for a Man not to be annoying is high on my list.


LOLOLOL, you're so fucked; then.

Ron

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:56:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellowroses

For me...the need for a Man not to be annoying is high on my list.


good luck on that

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:57:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What does gender have to do with it?


that was put in to preempt smart asses



And how's that workin' for ya?


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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 1:58:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellowroses

For me...the need for a woman not to be annoying is high on my list.


and yeahhhhhhhhhh I know..........good luck with that...


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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 2:01:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: yellowroses

For me...the need for a woman not to be annoying is high on my list.


and yeahhhhhhhhhh I know..........good luck with that...



Damn, I knew being straight might be an issue but daaamn.....thought maybe I could slip in under the wire under another category.


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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 2:02:27 PM   
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What does gender have to do with it?

You lesbos can start your own thread. This is for us heterofucktuals

If I was a lesbo I would want a woman that would like to eat my pussy. Then again, for some idea I don't think I would maintain  a  very tidy snatch.  I can only imagine my gash would be covered in hair, sores and other rather nasty assundries.

Thank God lesbos really go for that kind of shit.

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 2:03:34 PM   
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ahhhhh domi, such a romantic. 

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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 2:04:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What does gender have to do with it?

You lesbos can start your own thread. This is for us heterofucktuals

If I was a lesbo I would want a woman that would like to eat my pussy. Then again, for some idea I don't think I would maintain  a  very tidy snatch.  I can only imagine my gash would be covered in hair, sores and other rather nasty assundries.

Thank God lesbos really go for that kind of shit.


It's the assundries that would be the deal breaker...


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RE: on your list of requirements - 12/30/2009 2:05:23 PM   
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I want a woman that comes home and immediately starts talking about her day. Thank Golly I usually arrive home about a half hour after her, just in time to stuff her pie hole with some grade A Chicago lumber.

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