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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:08:00 PM   
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Where's the eye rolling smiley.........

Is this it??  



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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:08:23 PM   
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*gets back up and brushes herself off after the stampede of men who just vacated to view the photos on Raven's profile* lol

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:10:04 PM   
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*gets back up and brushes herself off after the stampede of men who just vacated to view the photos on Raven's profile* lol


Wow, um, was that that thundering sound i just heard?  



(Thankys for the compliment *hugz*)


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:11:03 PM   
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i have a pic of my curvy rear end on my profile, but it sure isn't the first pic - and it isn't what is on here, either.  My rear end is a part of me, but it isn't how i advertise myself.....just some food for thought.


Yeah, but it ain't exactly in the fine print either.  That is an ass ripe for plundering. 

If I was a sub I would lead with that fucker.  Brown eye before the blue ones.

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:12:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

i have a pic of my curvy rear end on my profile, but it sure isn't the first pic - and it isn't what is on here, either.  My rear end is a part of me, but it isn't how i advertise myself.....just some food for thought.


Yeah, but it ain't exactly in the fine print either.  That is an ass ripe for plundering. 

If I was a sub I would lead with that fucker.  Brown eye before the blue ones.


Oh Domiguy, my first response from you.......*hearts and stuffs*

You know how to make a girl feel special.


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:19:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

i have a pic of my curvy rear end on my profile, but it sure isn't the first pic - and it isn't what is on here, either.  My rear end is a part of me, but it isn't how i advertise myself.....just some food for thought.


Yeah, but it ain't exactly in the fine print either.  That is an ass ripe for plundering. 

If I was a sub I would lead with that fucker.  Brown eye before the blue ones.



Yeah, I used to lead with a cock shot. All my mail was " Oh my GOD what a fabulous cock!" or a variation of that.

I felt cheap. I am more than just a dick!

Depending on who you ask, of course.



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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/5/2010 5:32:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

i have a pic of my curvy rear end on my profile, but it sure isn't the first pic - and it isn't what is on here, either.  My rear end is a part of me, but it isn't how i advertise myself.....just some food for thought.


Yeah, but it ain't exactly in the fine print either.  That is an ass ripe for plundering. 

If I was a sub I would lead with that fucker.  Brown eye before the blue ones.



Yeah, I used to lead with a cock shot. All my mail was " Oh my GOD what a fabulous cock!" or a variation of that.

I felt cheap. I am more than just a dick!

Depending on who you ask, of course.



Geez, you send ONE email and you can never live it down......


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 8:38:41 AM   
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The butt picture is unsettling to me. To me. It is a pretty butt obviously but I feel like I am talking to it and I find that disturbing. None of my business but jes sayin, it makes it difficult for me to read your words. I was going to mention this before but changed my mind, I find myself back here and having the same response, too much information on the profile picture. For me.

I would say, pretty girl, go slow and slow down. It will give a chance for the bugs to come out of the shiny woodwork. Try not to jump on the thing as if you know what it is, who he is. Give it time instead of immediately leaping and you may save yourself some grief.

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 8:46:56 AM   
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The butt picture is unsettling to me. To me. It is a pretty butt obviously but I feel like I am talking to it and I find that disturbing. None of my business but jes sayin, it makes it difficult for me to read your words. I was going to mention this before but changed my mind, I find myself back here and having the same response, too much information on the profile picture. For me.

I would say, pretty girl, go slow and slow down. It will give a chance for the bugs to come out of the shiny woodwork. Try not to jump on the thing as if you know what it is, who he is. Give it time instead of immediately leaping and you may save yourself some grief.


This from a woman with her butt on her photo?


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 8:48:22 AM   
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hc is much more sarcastic then given credit for...:)


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 9:01:08 AM   
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Oh dear, I was right the first time to keep my gob shut.

Lady Tigress, my butt has clothes on it. I am going to change my picture soon as I get back to my own computer. Is it offensive to ya? Sowwy hon.

I dont mean to be sarcastic. Try not to be.

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 10:34:49 AM   
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Oh dear, I was right the first time to keep my gob shut.

Lady Tigress, my butt has clothes on it. I am going to change my picture soon as I get back to my own computer. Is it offensive to ya? Sowwy hon.

I dont mean to be sarcastic. Try not to be.


Oh noooooooo, I was just teasing you!!! I adore your photo!!


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 6:26:56 PM   
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There's no such thing as a "true dom".  There are people who play on the internet. 

You need to toughen up and accept that you're going to get insulted in your life, both online and in real life.  It's time to put on some big girl panties.....seriously, put some on.  Maybe if you start presenting yourself as something respectable, you're attract something respectable.

Yes, I'm blunt.  Please don't take it as an insult.


Oh no,i would never consider it an insult. I understand what you are saying,and thank you for advice. If it really means anything, this experiences happened a while ago,on my older username. So the one i have now,with the picture now.. mainly is beacuse i don't want a face picture,and i'm not shameful of my ass actually. So i suppose respect is in the eye of the be holder.
Basically you are right tho,i will get insulted in real life and online. Thank you for.. pretty much responding to what i actually posted,since it seemed like not many people were getting it.

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 6:29:58 PM   
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which is aganist BDSM code of life basically.


What BDSM code of life?

Seriously, you don't want to hear this but the problem IS your pic. You get what you show and like it or not a pic of your ass is going to attract a certain kind of man. That you aren't looking for a man is of no consequence, it's what people see.




well the other problem is, this experiences happened under my older user name without a picture of my ass. So... that was not a valid agrument towards what i posted. Deflecting from the fact there are dickhead men trying to get young girls to go to them,without any real connection or knowing if we would actually click. I just figured that maybe this sort of stuff happens, that girls randomly go be with a ''Master'' beacuse of his years and years of experience,and all,but when it comes off as some creepy not allowing me to know who he is,how am i suppose to put trust in that? My ass post has NOTHING to do with those experiences with these doms. I'm sorry.

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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 6:36:55 PM   
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f life basically. My whole point was,is that even a true dom? when someone can't truly just respect that not everyone clings,enjoys the same things or just randomly wanna go live wiith some creep they never met? you tell me.
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ORIGINAL: weaselwelder

I have to agree with the people on here who have said that your profile is going to attract people who are only interested in sex. The reason is simple, all you want, or at least all that interests you or that you talk about, is sex.

It doesn't matter who you actually are. It doesn't matter what you think. What matters is what you've shown us. All you are to us, all you have chosen to show us, by your own decision, is that you are a naked ass with a laundry list of fetishes and a desire for a mistress.



i wasn't talking about my profile getting any sort of attention. I was more referring to the ''doms'' who couldn't say no,or i'm not interested in,lightly. I suppose i should really re write what i say sometimes beacuse most of the comments i got have nothing to do which what i was talking to say.


the doms,being as it was 3-4 insulted me beacuse i was a ''wanna be'',or a ''gamer'' beacuse i wouldn't just up and move to where they were,to become their slave,for however long. They wouldn't show me pictures,and told me i was being shallow which is aganist BDSM code of life basically. My whole point was,is that even a true dom? when someone can't truly just respect that not everyone clings,enjoys the same things or just randomly wanna go live wiith some creep they never met? you tell me.


There are some people who are not nice. Some of those people are into BDSM, and some of those people are dominants. I have to agree with windchymes, pull on your big girl panties and deal with it.

If I had to bet, I'd say you posted on the message boards to have a bunch of people tell you how perfect you are and how you should never have been treated as you were. You were called names by The Guy on the Internet. Let me let you in on a little secret, The Guy on the Internet is the enemy of all sentient beings. He will not be nice to you. Get over it.

EDIT: I wrote this out, then deleted it as too rude, but I can think of no nice way to say it that I have not used, so I will be blunt. I think it needs to be said.

Based on what you have posted here and what you have on your profile, I think you are a fake, a poser, a cyber collar on-line fetishist with no idea what any relationship requires of both parties, much less one with a dominance and submission component. I do not want to meet you, I do not want to IM you, and I sure as heck don't want you to move in. You can not ignore this as a response to you rejecting me.

Normally, I say that wanting an unreal fantasy is okay, but you have to admit it to others that that is what you want. I don't think you've admitted this to yourself yet however.

I could be wrong about who you are. I hope I am. However, as I said the first time, this is who you have chosen to show me.



So you're telling me when i explain experiences i had with people over the internet, around america (not in the state i am in),that beacuse of what i have said,on top of the comments i responded that i am the fake one? Not the creepy older dudes trying to get the young girl to come live with them? Look, to be honest i believe everyone has their kink,their own interest and their own lifestyle. There is no one way to which way life should be lived,and if I as a human being do not feel comfortable just randomly going to be with someone,without a relationship factor,mainly over their years of experience of having lived in subs,yet they wouldn't allow me their picture or their information,makes me a fake? well,fuck... I'd rather be a fake than a idiot that doesn't get what i am trying to say. I don't want to be rude or anything,but i'm young,but not dumb. I won't just just say ''HEY YEAH LET ME COME LIVE WITH SOME 40YR OLD DUDE I NEVER MET IN A STATE FAR FAR AWAY FROM MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS TO DO SEXUAL THINGS WITH'',on top of the fact of me being a masochist.. doesn't sound like a missing case you'll see on the tv one day huh? Well sure does to me. If there's anything about my sexual needs, and what i want my lifestyle to be, is that main focus of being comfortable,and what i was trying to get across,which was lost along the lines of maybe you not really giving a shit about what i was saying,is that i was insulted for turning them down. Being claimed i was a fake,for saying i wasn't interested,wasn't comfortable.

so... from what i have gathered from you,is you're just a jerk. I am a young ''newbie'' as you would say, looking for comfort,and advice from olders and i get shit for it? Next time, refer to what i remember as a child, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY don't say it at all.

When you point a finger, you have 3 pointing back.

and so on...


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 6:47:45 PM   
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I think you're going to take some heat for looking for "true" anything. There's not a committee somewhere writing up rules and regulations... or there might be, but their authority is limited to their mother's basement.



Well said. When people start posting issues that include phrases such as 'brought to him on Yahoo', I get a little worried about their focus or lack thereof on reality.
 
To the OP, what you do online should be about 1% of what you experience in life, including your sexuality and kink. Yes you can 'meet' people, but step 2 is to get out there and meet them in actuality - in a group and safe manner. Relocating to a cyberdom is asking to be left alone in an airport or end up in a drum of acid.
 
 Any sunny, stop sighing and get me a drink. Hup.


Well you can guess that when after i got out a relationship,and wanted to explore my kinkier side that's always been there,i of course went in a phaze of meeting,speaking and whatever with anyone as I have done with anything in life. I had my bad experiences,slowed down and realized what i was doing. Yes, you are correct that it should be 1%, beacuse online is very hard to really determine who the person is. On the contrary,if that person was truly interested in meeting me,after we talked and got along, that's another thing. Those doms i spoke with were basically all or nothing,i have to come now, or they would want nothing of me. All i wanted to was atleast find a connection,a  bond or some sort of feeling,but indeed there's very few you truly connect with,but i believe it'll happen in time.

however i'd like to say,i'm thankful for any advice as blunt or rude as it might be. It's what a youngin' like me needs.


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RE: young girl,why does this happen? - 1/6/2010 6:56:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

The butt picture is unsettling to me. To me. It is a pretty butt obviously but I feel like I am talking to it and I find that disturbing. None of my business but jes sayin, it makes it difficult for me to read your words. I was going to mention this before but changed my mind, I find myself back here and having the same response, too much information on the profile picture. For me.

I would say, pretty girl, go slow and slow down. It will give a chance for the bugs to come out of the shiny woodwork. Try not to jump on the thing as if you know what it is, who he is. Give it time instead of immediately leaping and you may save yourself some grief.


This from a woman with her butt on her photo?




I just didn't want to put a picture of my face. I didn't realize on a BDSM forum,i'd get so much for a ass picture =)~ I figured an ass like that would get treated with fair likeness,but sadly i was wrong and in no way looking for attention. I don't need others to tell me anything about me,i like me for me,and everything about me.

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