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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:39:52 PM   
Owlet


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Status: offline 		I tend to think this is how I go about it as well. If there is no possibility for humor in a relationship, I don't want anything to do with it. With my Master, I am never seriously trying to push his buttons, just make him laugh.

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:43:59 PM   
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damn your a hard one to please


My ex said it would take two women to make me happy.

I say nope..Just one good one.


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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:44:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Owlet

I tend to think this is how I go about it as well. If there is no possibility for humor in a relationship, I don't want anything to do with it. With my Master, I am never seriously trying to push his buttons, just make him laugh.


laughter is good but then so are tears

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:46:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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damn your a hard one to please


My ex said it would take two women to make me happy.

I say nope..Just one good one.



the hell with good i want obedient

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:52:42 PM   
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the hell with good i want obedient


They mean the same thing to me.


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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 2:55:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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the hell with good i want obedient


They mean the same thing to me.



then we speak the same language with different words

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:22:47 PM   
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i'm not so much into forcing obedience as helping and encourageing

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Is "if i want to hit the bitch i don't need any other reason than i want to" your method of "helping and encourageing"?

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:32:32 PM   
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i'm not so much into forcing obedience as helping and encourageing



Is "if i want to hit the bitch i don't need any other reason than i want to" your method of "helping and encourageing"?



a surprise for you, but on cm there are women that find that idea exciting

but i think you already know that and are here to act like a child


tell you what, i won't expect you to act like an adult if you don't expect me to act like a child

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:43:51 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Hey sweet cheeks, don't come to a battle of wits with me and be unarmed. You have started so many childish, assinine posts in the last week no one would ever consider you an adult.

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:45:19 PM   
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Hey sweet cheeks, don't come to a battle of wits with me and be unarmed. You have started so many childish, assinine posts in the last week no one would ever consider you an adult.


thank you for your input, i'm sure it made you feel good and shit

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:51:47 PM   
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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 3:53:22 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue




still trying to act like a grown up domme?

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:11:03 PM   
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why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable

sounds more like a TPS than TPE to me

as for me if you tell me you're submissive, that's more or less how i want you to show up

how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality?

this doesn't mean i'm weak or lazy, it means i have better things to do

That one is easy. If that is what they start out with I sure as hell wouldn't invite them over my doorstep

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:14:43 PM   
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why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable

sounds more like a TPS than TPE to me

as for me if you tell me you're submissive, that's more or less how i want you to show up

how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality?

this doesn't mean i'm weak or lazy, it means i have better things to do


There are only two good reasons for subs being bratty/fiesty or handful.

1. To have earth shattering sex afterwards.
2. To annoy osf.

P.S. you can do the first one without being bratty, just saying. :)

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:16:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: osf

why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable

sounds more like a TPS than TPE to me

as for me if you tell me you're submissive, that's more or less how i want you to show up

how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality?

this doesn't mean i'm weak or lazy, it means i have better things to do


There are only two good reasons for subs being bratty/fiesty or handful.

1. To have earth shattering sex afterwards.
2. To annoy osf.

P.S. you can do the first one without being bratty, just saying. :)

The first would be my fave but the second is also a lot of fun :D

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:17:53 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

why do some women feel that being a brat/feisty/hand full makes them more desirable

sounds more like a TPS than TPE to me

as for me if you tell me you're submissive, that's more or less how i want you to show up

how many women want a bratty guy? don't they believe in equality?

this doesn't mean i'm weak or lazy, it means i have better things to do


There are only two good reasons for subs being bratty/fiesty or handful.

1. To have earth shattering sex afterwards.
2. To annoy osf.

P.S. you can do the first one without being bratty, just saying. :)


i'm a laid back kind of guy i let little annoy me, especially women i wouldn't have near me

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:21:48 PM   
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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:23:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		It doesn't always mean perpetually bratty. It just means we have very high expectations of a dominant and we won't submit to one we don't consider worthy. And just because someone is submissive doesn't mean she is willing to submit to anyone who spells his or her name with an upper case letter.

As far as brattiness goes, here it is a good thing. It only happens when I'm feeling calm and confident and willing to initiate play. When I'm totally obedient and subservient is when I'm closed off emotionally and afraid. For us, that's a bad thing.

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:26:20 PM   
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It doesn't always mean perpetually bratty. It just means we have very high expectations of a dominant and we won't submit to one we don't consider worthy. And just because someone is submissive doesn't mean she is willing to submit to anyone who spells his or her name with an upper case letter.

As far as brattiness goes, here it is a good thing. It only happens when I'm feeling calm and confident and willing to initiate play. When I'm totally obedient and subservient is when I'm closed off emotionally and afraid. For us, that's a bad thing.


in a prior post i used the term playful which i find attractive

when i use bratty it means going beyond playful into conquer me territory

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RE: why do some women feel that being hard to handle...... - 1/4/2010 4:37:13 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Great response sexyred!

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

LOLOL, yeah Right.



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