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Elizabeth666 -> Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:23:31 PM)
What do you do when your D type dumps you? Even if it was through EMAIL! /end rant Question still stands though

rockspider -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:28:45 PM)
Well they say nothing better for getting over a man is getting under another. Besides i don't see an internet romance to be quite as serious as a real life experience.

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:30:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rockspider Well they say nothing better for getting over a man is getting under another. Besides i don't see an internet romance to be quite as serious as a real life experience. Oh no, it wasn't an internet relationship. He just chose to break up with my via the internet

UniqueRaven -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:30:56 PM)
Quick answer? Yoga. [;)]

breatheasone -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:33:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666 What do you do when your D type dumps you? Even if it was through EMAIL! /end rant Question still stands though Honey, i'm SO sorry. i wish that could make it all better some how. my mail box is ALWAYS open.

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:36:56 PM)
And here I said I wasn't going to cry. I gave him everything! I opened myself up to him in ways I've never done before. I told him all my secrets, fantasies, everything.

UniqueRaven -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:45:17 PM)
And that's the longer answer: Cry, with a lot of red wine, sitting on the deck and looking at the lake for, oh, about a year or so, give or take. Wash, rinse, repeat, alternate with yoga. A good crying song over a Dom is "Gravity" by Sara Bareilles. That one carried me about a month. Or two maybe. Still bawl like a baby when i hear it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLHQ4H93P2Q "I live here on my knees As I try to make you see That you're everything I think I need Here on the ground But you're neither friend nor foe Though I can't seem to let you go The one thing that I still know Is that you're keeping me down" i'm so, so sorry. i really understand. Hugs you lots................ Julie *eta the lyrics

Aileen1968 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:49:29 PM)
Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends. You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back.

UniqueRaven -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:52:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends. You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back. Ditto. [:)]

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:54:40 PM)
This is my facebook status lol "You know what? Fuck this shit. Why am I sitting here crying? I'm a smart, fun, loving, good looking woman who any guy would feel LUCKY to have! I have my flaws, but so fucking what? I am ME. I do what I can, I give what I am able and if that's not good enough? Fine. To all the guys who have ever hurt me, dumped me, made me feel unworthy. Look at me, Take a good look. Because none of you have it, or will ever have have it again." I think I shall live by that for now.

littlewonder -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 1:55:28 PM)
I move on. I don't cry or get upset over it when people do not wish to be with me. I figure it's not worth the time or effort to bother. Would you really wanna be with someone who doesn't want you? Especially when he only has the balls to do it through email? Move on with your life and know that you deserve better. Edit to add: But also don't go all bitter and cold towards life and other men either. When you do that he's won. Be better than that. Continue to open up to others. Continue to live your life with heart.

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:00:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven And that's the longer answer: Cry, with a lot of red wine, sitting on the deck and looking at the lake for, oh, about a year or so, give or take. Wash, rinse, repeat, alternate with yoga. A good crying song over a Dom is "Gravity" by Sara Bareilles. That one carried me about a month. Or two maybe. Still bawl like a baby when i hear it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLHQ4H93P2Q "I live here on my knees As I try to make you see That you're everything I think I need Here on the ground But you're neither friend nor foe Though I can't seem to let you go The one thing that I still know Is that you're keeping me down" i'm so, so sorry. i really understand. Hugs you lots................ Julie *eta the lyrics Thanks :) I'm going to have to listen to that

windchymes -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:03:22 PM)
When I was younger I'd have felt devastated, I'm sure, but now, I just shrug and feel glad I'm not with someone who doesn't have the balls to break up with me properly, i.e. in person, or, if it is long-distance, at least by phone. The only things worse are the ones who just poof with no explanation at all. On to the next one!!! [:)]

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:03:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends. You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back. I will try, and I will succeed. Thank You

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:04:28 PM)
quote: But also don't go all bitter and cold towards life and other men either. When you do that he's won. Be better than that. Continue to open up to others. Continue to live your life with heart. No worries there :)

divi -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:07:00 PM)
imho... he sounds like a douche. He is a coward who needed an email to break up with you..blah. Move on to someone better. Good luck !!

Jeffff -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:16:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends. You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back. Sound advice..........but coming from you?...... blech Love Jeff

LafayetteLady -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:21:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666 What do you do when your D type dumps you? Even if it was through EMAIL! /end rant Question still stands though I'm so sorry. That was a very immature thing for him to do, regardless of being a dom or not. Comfort yourself that next time, you will find yourself a better man.

divi -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:23:59 PM)
Does he have a really hot best friend or Brother you could sleep with lol jk

Elizabeth666 -> RE: Dumped? (1/7/2010 2:28:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666 What do you do when your D type dumps you? Even if it was through EMAIL! /end rant Question still stands though I'm so sorry. That was a very immature thing for him to do, regardless of being a dom or not. Comfort yourself that next time, you will find yourself a better man. Thanks :)

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