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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 3:11:22 PM   
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That's probably the best strategy QueenRah!

"Strife is better than loneliness." Now we know why he pics fights! It's his kink! And isn't he so absolutely successful. He managed to get just about every Domme on this forum against him. Well you won't get any masturbation fodder from me, boy.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 3:11:45 PM   
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Lockit,

I'm convinced that boys, like Cloudboy, who chase after me on the threads wanting to provoke me and get my attention are secretly in love with me. It's kind of flattering, no? ;-)

Digital pigtails in digital inkwells, I suppose.  It appears to be the only club in his bag lately.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 3:24:04 PM   
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I have no response to CB or any others like him. Our opinion is of no interest to them. Please note, that's not *my* quote. Voici la?

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 3:36:26 PM   
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Psychonaut, you're all over the board, so it's hard at this point to know what you're trying to say about masculinity and male submission. I agree that arguing about who read this or that and what it means to the argument at hand doesn't amount to much. If you could wrap it up in a few sentences, what would your overall message be?

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 3:48:15 PM   
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We, here in the 21st century, are not dealing with a change in the concepts of masculinity and femininity, but rather a collapse of the very concepts.  There is no agreement on what it means to be masculine and feminine, gender roles are in complete chaos, and broad swathes of society have gone absolutely mad with gender issues.  I attribute both the rise of D/s relationships and concepts like Domestic Discipline, Taken In Hand, etc. to this collapse, as well as transgendering, genderqueering, etc.  All symptoms of a civilization that has lost one of the cornerstones of a stable society, a civilization in the midst of collapse and ruin.



Seriously, man. Get off the internet. Read Anna Karenina. Start hunting for your Kitty.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:02:53 PM   
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We, here in the 21st century, are not dealing with a change in the concepts of masculinity and femininity, but rather a collapse of the very concepts.  There is no agreement on what it means to be masculine and feminine, gender roles are in complete chaos, and broad swathes of society have gone absolutely mad with gender issues.  I attribute both the rise of D/s relationships and concepts like Domestic Discipline, Taken In Hand, etc. to this collapse, as well as transgendering, genderqueering, etc.  All symptoms of a civilization that has lost one of the cornerstones of a stable society, a civilization in the midst of collapse and ruin.


'A civilisation in the midst of collapse and ruin'-I think you're exaggerating. I also think you're just winding WyldHrt up, but I'm going to assume you believe what you just wrote: that there is no longer any agreement on what is masculine and what is feminine.

What you said before, and what started this whole argument, was that you thought submission could not be masculine. Leaving aside the validity of the two statements, if the first one holds then surely the second one is meaningless. No?

I'd also like say how interesting this debate has been to read, and how I think I would really enjoy talking to you if you weren't so aggresive in your language. I know you think we're all wrong, but does that mean that we can't talk civilly?

edited because I lost track of who you were actually replying to-sorry.


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:06:11 PM   
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stuff


...other stuff...

But what are you?  An anti-intellecual?  A moron?  An idiot? 

Yes!!!!!!


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:09:48 PM   
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Shhhh!!

We aren't supposed to let him know we're a massive of stoopids!

Supposed to be supersikkrit!


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:31:33 PM   
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Psychonaut: lally on the forums is extremely feminine.  Her language is never confrontational, she tries to see other's side, apologizes for disagreeing, sometimes even apologizes for having her own opinion, etc.  The early Disney princesses, Snow White, Cinderella and especially Sleeping Beauty are all extremely feminine archetypes.

Very feminine characters tend to be rare in fiction and literature, usually playing an exceedingly minor role -- the damsel in distress is the classic archtype, but true damsels in distress are rarely seen anymore, not since the advent of feminism.  Someone more familiar with Victorian literature than I am could probably cite numerous examples.  Jane Austen characters seem a good place to look.  I've never read Emma or seen any of the adaptations, but I've seen Clueless (a modern take on Emma), and the Alicia Silverstone character is very feminine.

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Sorry, my response starts here:

"Especially Sleeping Beauty"? Well of course, she was dead in a box, the perfect woman, unable to speak, think, move, argue, just to....be. Same with the rest of the Disney princesses you lust after. You need to read "Women Who Run With The Wolves" Clarissa Pinkola Estes, she can perhaps shed some light onto men  that feel the need to encase barely breathing women in glass coffins for adoration. Her dissecting of the twisted fairy tales of our youth are amazing and I seriously suggest you give it a read.  Yes, I know, after our week long go-around debacle where you told me repeatedly that I am *not* a feminist, that would seem a strange choice of reading for me, but I don't think you are quite ready for Dworkin yet. 

By the way, you might want to heed RedMagic's excellent advice.

Aynne~ *Still the feminist, despite Dr. Psychonaut's analysis.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:45:12 PM   
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Oh damn drat dang....he's modded again, I can't read what I am certain is a scintillating rebuttal, full of ad hominem attacks, more self aggrandizing ego maniacal masculine commentary, and the cute little way he has of telling us how fucking brilliant he is. Oh, and again, that I am *not* a feminist. Shoot. I really like that one. RedMagic, can you please insult me and tell me I suck and am not a feminist, so I can feel whole and complete? . Much obliged.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:46:42 PM   
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RedMagic, can you please insult me and tell me I suck and am not a feminist, so I can feel whole and complete? . Much obliged.

Sorry. I can't post right now.  I'm busy bleaching my sphincter.


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:46:51 PM   
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I understand etymology just fine.  You're just missing the point I was making by focusing on the etymology.  And you continue to miss the point, which is of no surprise, given that you won't even apologize for being hostile and rude when you were also entirely wrong.  You're clearly an idiot.



I have news for you, here in the UK, gentleman still holds its original meaning. So yes, you are missing not only the etemology of the word "Gentleman" but its current usage.

As for me being an idiot, we cant both stand on the poor giants shoulders can we. As for me being rude and failing to apologise, my bad. You continue to attack everyone who disagrees with anything you say. I suspect you do that with the ladies here as you are unable to handle a strong and confident woman.

Anyhow, if you keep picking on me, I`ll tell my mum.


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:49:27 PM   
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LOL...

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:50:49 PM   
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I have no response to CB or any others like him. Our opinion is of no interest to them. Please note, that's not *my* quote. Le voyez-vous?


Keewreckted. Sheesh. Five years of French class and in twenty years *poof!* it's gone!

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:52:03 PM   
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RedMagic, can you please insult me and tell me I suck and am not a feminist, so I can feel whole and complete? . Much obliged.

Sorry. I can't post right now.  I'm busy bleaching my sphincter.

Holy damn, fire in the hole. Careful grasshopper..

I can wait for the insults, I am making a grilled cheese sandwich and have no life tonight, so once you achieve that pearly starfish, I will be waiting.   

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:55:32 PM   
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I can wait for the insults, I am making a grilled cheese sandwich and have no life tonight, so once you achieve that pearly starfish, I will be waiting.   


It's one in the morning and our toastie maker is broken and now I WANT A TOASTIE.
:-(


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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:57:31 PM   
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No. You really aren't well read. Having taken a few women's studies courses that analyzed the western canon is not the same thing as being well read in western literature. And standing on the shoulders of giants should leave you cold.


I'm not going to argue this with you, as its infantile and pointless.  I am very well read, and standing on the shoulders of giants (i.e. having an education) should not "leave one cold."  You're just arguing to argue, but if we were to actually break down what you're saying, you'd look like an idiot.  So just drop it.


Yeah... I'm familiar with the expression. "leave you cold" wasn't an argument, it was an REM reference. I like to drop these nuggets for those of similar tastes and experiences. It a good song. And a slightly more coherent argument than yours.

Click here to see Michael Stipe with hair on his head!

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The implication of this argument is that a person can only be knowledgeable and discuss western literature if one has read all of it.  Except that it is impossible to read all of it.  Even the most proficient reader devoting their entire life to reading would make a scarce dent in the sheer volume of work that qualifies as western literature.


I think the point of the argument was that you, yes you, should not make sweeping statements about representations of femininity in the entire western canon if you haven't even read Jane Motherfucking Austen. You made the broad statement. And your supporting examples were Disney princesses and an Alicia Silverstone movie. Your entire commentary at that point was odd. About literature lacking truly feminine characters.  And then they only played minor roles. As opposed to having a shortage of fully realized female characters, which is kind of a Women's Studies for Dummies point.

And it's not that you can't discuss western literature. It's that you should, I know this will hurt, but you really should display some humility in the face of your own ignorance. Understand that someone who's read Austen, Dickens, Balzac, Tolstoy, etc. might have a richer reading experience than you to draw from in the discussion  and that your comments come across as reductive. Your whole attitude of "if you don't agree with me, you must be an idiot" is really comical. Not giants, dude. Holiday. Inn. Express.

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I have not read Jane Austen specifically.  That's one author.  That does not mean I haven't read extensively, haven't read many of the classics, etc.  It just means I haven't read Jane Austen. 


Disney princesses and Alicia Silverstone. These were your examples. The suggestion that maybe we should  look  at Jane Austen was just icing on the cake of absurdity. One needn't have read Austen to have an opinion on the original question. But if you're trying to wax authoritative on the western canon, I would hope that you could point to one actual work in that canon that you have read that supports your point. One book. One poem. Anything would've been better than that line about how you haven't read any Austen, or seen any of the films, but Clueless (based on Emma for those who didn't know!) had a very feminine character. As you've noted, there are an enormous number of works to choose from. It shouldn't be that difficult.


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You and Lucienne are both engaging in a really cheap trick.  You're attacking my ability to make any sort of claims, but where does your knowledge come from?  What are your credentials?  The two of you both sound like morons to me, with your attacks on education.


It's not a cheap trick at all. It's taken me a great deal of time and money to achieve my current level of education, formal and informal. It only sounds like an attack on education to you because you are blissfully unaware of your inferior position in this regard. I don't know how many times I have to laugh at your Criminal Justice... studies... and your pathetic attempt to bolster your credibility with your SAT scores for you to catch on to the horrific possibility that I might know things, worth knowing, that you don't already know.

I don't state my credentials and tell people to shut up. I'm not trying to argue from personal authority. I'm not interested in posting my C.V. because that would be a cheap trick. I'm perfectly capable of intimidating people in the moment, I don't need to start flashing credentials. Some would say it's a very masculine trait of mine. People's survival instincts seem to serve them well when it comes to fucking with me. They don't need to see my transcript.

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I don't believe the opinion of experts are the Truth.  I assume they are the opinions of experts.  I don't, as a general rule, dismiss the opinions of experts out of hand.  I guess that makes me a "psuedo-intellectual."


In this case, it makes you someone who made a very weak argument from authority. Relying on experts isn't inherently bad or good, and we all do it to some degree or another. Presenting whatever nameless JUCO hack that taught you Gender Studies as an authority on the western canon was... optimistic on your part.


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But what are you?  An anti-intellecual?  A moron?  An idiot?  Or are you going to claim to be an expert above all other experts, claim that you've done the impossible?



Speaking only for myself, I'm a person who has been known to indulge in intellectual snobbery when confronted with a poseur. Everyone on earth knows one thing or another that I don't know. I can learn something from just about any person that I encounter. To assume that people who have less formal education than me have nothing to teach me is to deprive myself of a wealth of information about the world. I'm far from an intellectual snob in general, although some people defensively assume otherwise. So, please understand, that when I condescend to you it's not because I think you have nothing interesting to say. I'm doing it to demonstrate how it is properly done.

{this post brought to you for the amusement of my friend at Disneyworld. I argue for the sake of entertainment, not arguing}

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 4:58:18 PM   
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Drat. . I will burn it and make it yukky then. Do you call them toasties? That is way too cute.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 5:01:48 PM   
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I'd like to see how lady like and feminine Snow White would have been if dopey slipped her the tongue instead of Prince Charming.

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RE: Forced Masculinity, Take 2 - 1/21/2010 5:02:23 PM   
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Don't flatter yourself. CB appears to be interested in intellectual debate, which has nothing to do with sexual interest in you or (God forbid) Aakasha. He certainly hasn't stooped to sexual insults. Any time a male submissive raises an objection to something a fem dom says, he's "stalking her" or is "obsessed with her." I'd rather read CB's posts than the mass of male submissives who slavishly agree with everything a fem dom posts in the vain hope that maybe they'll get a mercy fuck.
Defend your position - don't make this about your twat.


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