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Elizabeth666 -> RE: i have herpes (1/27/2010 3:48:08 AM)
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HSV-1 sheds just like HSV-2 and can shed even if there are no sores. HSV-1 and 2 are virtually identical and share 50% of the same DNA. The major difference is the "site of preference." Genital herpes can be caused by HSV-1 or 2, although sores around the mouth are typically caused by HSV-1. There is some evidence to suggest a person who contracts HSV-2 has resistance to HSV-1, but whether or not a person with HSV-1 has resistance to HSV-2 is a contested issue.
OP - since you indicate you have sores in your mouth, chances are you have HSV-1 but you should ask your doctor to be certain. For most people, herpes around the face and mouth is no big deal. As long as you're careful, you should be fine. Treat this like you would any other disease such as a cold or flu. You're contagious, and the outbreaks are uncomfortable and annoying, but it's not going to ruin your life.
Try to avoid open-mouth kissing and oral sex during an outbreak or when you think you have one starting, and use dental dams or some other type of barrier between outbreaks. You also should not share eating utensils with a partner, especially during an outbreak. This doesn't mean keep your cups and silverware separate, just don't eat off the same fork or drink from the same glass. You wouldn't kiss open-mouthed or share those things if you had a cold or the flu, right? Same general principle applies.
You will still be able to satisfy a woman, even with a barrier. It may take a little longer, but it can be done. Think of it this way -- you can still have an orgasm with a condom on, so she can still have one if you're using a dental dam. You can even use a condom that's been cut up the side as a dental dam and this will probably be less expensive. Plus, condoms come in fun flavors!
You'll want to be careful not to let your saliva drip past the barrier onto your lady because herpes can be transmitted through it. However, this is pretty rare so you don't need to worry too much. Your doctor can also prescribe medication to help prevent outbreaks and shorten the duration when you do have one.
Excellent advice.
I would also suggest this site: http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/ lots of information on Oral and Genital herpes and the risks, complications and safe sex advice.
I would still agree with what others said about going to your doctor to know for sure. But until then, take every precaution you can
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