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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh, if it were Me, I'd bookmark the thread from earlier in the month.  Too flipping funny.

*shrug* I learn from my mistakes. At least I make the effort and sometimes I make a mistake, I admit it. Ha! So what?

I really do love this thread alot...thanks ladies. Very interesting.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Ah, except asking a question is not a "lecture", it is a valid form of "engagement" in a forum, and surely you realize I'm not referring to any little smiley face you might have left somewhere? And, are you not a beautiful woman? But wait, if you can call me a "lecturer", which is false, and I am so justifiably hurt by it you understand, then why can I not call you 'beautiful'"? It is a fair exchange as long as I am big enough to take the loss, and of course I will being the gentleman I am.

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But wait! It occurs to me that you started this conversation by actually lecturing me. Imagine that. Interesting. No. That's not quite the right word...oh well, there are other women...many others...who are beautiful inside and out!

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Oh, Arty. You don't think we reallly care, do you?

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

Ah, except asking a question is not a "lecture", it is a valid form of "engagement" in a forum, and surely you realize I'm not referring to any little smiley face you might have left somewhere? And, are you not a beautiful woman? But wait, if you can call me a "lecturer", which is false, and I am so justifiably hurt by it you understand, then why can I not call you 'beautiful'"? It is a fair exchange as long as I am big enough to take the loss, and of course I will being the gentleman I am.

Please try to concentrate. I did not call you a lecturer. I said that a specific format of email would be a lecture. That was relevant to the discussion. It was not about you personally.

Calling me 'beautiful woman' is a personal comment about my appearance. It has nothing to do with the discussion.

That is the difference between my behaviour and yours in this discussion, and that is why my behaviour has been acceptable and yours unacceptable.

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But wait! It occurs to me that you started this conversation by actually lecturing me. Imagine that. Interesting. No. That's not quite the right word...oh well, there are other women...many others...who are beautiful inside and out!

I didn't lecture you. I responded to a comment you made. That's how message boards work; given how much you love them (as you keep telling us) I'd have thought you'd have worked out their format by now.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Pardon me while I go and toss cookies.

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Quite a few voted for Michele Bachmann in the Iowa straw poll.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: MargueriteV

The length of my reply depends on how many things I can comment on in the message.

Wisely said. When I get an email which is 200 words of praise on my profile, the only thing that comes to mind is *thank you*.

Oh, did you want to engage me? Then engage me! Ask me questions! If I'm interested, I often use the first few emails to ask questions. If they don't ask me any in return, I can comment on the questions asked, but that's pretty much it.

And to be honest, a man that doesn't show me that he's inquisitive by asking questions is a turn off. A man that asks too many questions is overwhelming. I'd say 1-3 questions per email in a well thought out email is a good balance to get a nice conversation going.

- LA

This is a free reply, ahmm sorta, as in a guy sorta way...

Hmmmm...so, it's all their fault for not asking enough of the right questions to "engage you"?

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So, let me get this straight...if a handsome well built guy wrote you about himself and expressed interest in you and did a good job explaining why you two are good for each other but failed to ask a question, then you would not reply because you are not properly engaged by a question?

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Hmmmm...so next time I need to engage a beautiful woman across the room I need to think up the right questions?

Yeah...ah no, I think not beautiful ladies and I do mean that well! I do enjoy these forums...

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ORIGINAL: Arturas
Let's get down to brass tacks as you say, I never asked your earlier opinion but I answered honestly and not specifically about you. But, now it is about you. Your response does not become a Dominant woman (as you must know) and no one sane can be impressed by your off topic rant and your additional rave about the Mark.

The more you rant and rave the more one can see through you, do you not understand that?

I regret having to be so blunt and unpleasant in what should be an intelligent and pleasant engagement over opinions and ideas that are on topic. I see you are not strong enough to deal with divergent opinions but that is not my problem. I do love this forum

Make it about Me all you like.  I have no problem being challenged.  You can't handle the same scrutiny.

The fact that you are deluded in your own importance doesn't affect Me.  Shall we go back and look at how the person who you took into your own house told you and everyone else how insignificant that you are?

Should clip ever come here and do the same, I invite you to laugh at Me the same that others laugh about you. 

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ORIGINAL: Arturas
First, how did tam "tell me and everyone else how insignificant I am"?

Second, let's do a casual scrutiny on you as you say. You capitalize the M in "me" (really? Sure sign of an online player) and you (sorry, "Y"ou) post several times an hour every day all day. The crazy high posting count average per day is very telling. It measurably says that you are online almost every waking moment and have no time to be a "M"e or anything else offline and you are the one deluded in your own importance.

btw, I injoyed several events local to me listed in FL. Logoff sometime and come out and have a good time. I promise no rope burn and only the marks you deserve, miss Me. Think I'll call you 'miss Me" from now on.

well wishes,
me.

Trying to turn chicken shit into chicken salad.

Yep, lots of posts.  Care to take a stab at how many of them have been bantering with folks that I've met in real life, discussing events that I've been to, planning demos, organizing parties, or talking about positive experiences?  Go do your research, hon.  Better yet, why don't you tell Me about how many asses you got to fill the seats at the last presentation in the community that *you* gave?

Speaking of events, we did miss the last munch, and I felt really sorry for that.  MP threw his back out and I didn't feel it prudent that we should make the drive.  He already did so much taking Me to the kinky camp out and Northern Exposure, not to mention the "other" events.  There are good people up here, arty.  They might even like you.  There's always hope.  Hey, if you're a really good boy, since MP is watching Me type this up, maybe I'll post some new pics from those last two three day events, just for you.  I've got this one in My leather pride corset that a lovely gal took the time for us to shoot while we did some poses.  Alas, MP doesn't have moobs like the ones that got you to take down that last half naked pic of yourself.

Anyway, you go pay your entry fee at The Mark and tell us all how you are *respected* in the community.  I'll still be right here, laughing at your dumb ass.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas
First, how did tam "tell me and everyone else how insignificant I am"?

Second, let's do a casual scrutiny on you as you say. You capitalize the M in "me" (really? Sure sign of an online player) and you (sorry, "Y"ou) post several times an hour every day all day. The crazy high posting count average per day is very telling. It measurably says that you are online almost every waking moment and have no time to be a "M"e or anything else offline and you are the one deluded in your own importance.

btw, I injoyed several events local to me listed in FL. Logoff sometime and come out and have a good time. I promise no rope burn and only the marks you deserve, miss Me. Think I'll call you 'miss Me" from now on.

well wishes,
me.

There you go again, art.  Trying to turn chicken shit into chicken salad.

Yep, lots of posts.  Care to take a stab at how many of them have been bantering with folks that I've met in real life, discussing events that I've been to, planning demos, organizing parties, or talking about positive experiences?  Go do your research, hon.  Better yet, why don't you tell Me about how many asses you got to fill the seats at the last presentation in the community that *you* gave?

Speaking of events, we did miss the last munch, and I felt really sorry for that.  MP threw his back out and I didn't feel it prudent that we should make the drive.  He already did so much taking Me to the kinky camp out and Northern Exposure, not to mention the "other" events.  There are good people up here, arty.  They might even like you.  There's always hope.  Hey, if you're a really good boy, since MP is watching Me type this up, maybe I'll post some new pics from those last two three day events, just for you.  I've got this one in My leather pride corset that a lovely gal took the time for us to shoot while we did some poses.  Alas, MP doesn't have moobs like the ones that got you to take down that last half naked pic of yourself.

Anyway, you go pay your entry fee at The Mark and tell us all how you are *respected* in the community.  I'll still be right here, laughing at your dumb ass.

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Good morning miss Me,

Try and stay on topic. You were going to explain why you think tam, who I was Dom to for three years and who I public played with at the Mark and drew a good size crowd and who on Fetlife writes "The most amazing man I will ever know" under my picture and who I then tried the 24/7 thing just over a year with would think and say I was "insignificant" and while you're at it, tell me yet again about your leather pride corset, I've heard about it only at least a million times here in just about every other post you make and you make a lot of them.

But let me tell you about the leather that matters, my leather whip and how you should be begging me to use it on that pompous ass of yours and then if you're good, a very good girl, I'll outline the fresh marks with my wheel so I can watch you try and jump out of the ropes. Daddy has your leather here ...

Arturas