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lovingpet -> RE: breeding ? (1/30/2010 12:07:11 PM)
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I am actually surprised as hell that this thread is still up. It seems to violate TOS as I understood them. Anyway...
One question right from the top. Do both of you want to have children and the family aspect that goes with it beyond the kink? People are making all kinds of assumptions based mostly on the wording of the OP. Here's the thing. If the child with have a loving, caring home, I don't see a whole lot of issue with having fun getting to the destination. I will say that safety and legal issues need to be of paramount concern. Unprotected sex always carries risk from disease. I would recommend full screenings prior. I would also consider the child and require a full medical background, contact information, as well as a way to establish paternity if ever needed. A child who is loved has every right to know his/her full medical history and any conditions they may automatically have, carry, or be predisposed to acquiring in their lifetime. Legally, I would suspect the partner of the slave would not necessarily be responsible, but if he really wants the child and a family I could only guess he would want to be, which means the rest only comes into play IF the relationship ends. But what if the relationship DOES end? Both should care who may be able to take custody and who will be financially responsible at that point. That is information to find out.
I am only giving the benefit of doubt here. I can't be sure this post isn't either hypothetical or one in which those involved in bringing the child into this world are only interested in the kink aspects. I cannot accept that a person's kink has precedence over a child's health, safety, and well being. A master that would think so is one whose judgement I would question. It doesn't matter whether someone has the right to do something. The more important question is SHOULD they exercise that right. Further, if one does take up their right, then they automatically take up the responsibility that goes with it. They may choose not to recognize that fact, but it is no less the case. Everyone who goes down this path will find they have some kind of accountability somewhere along the line. As the mother, OP, regardless of how the law splits the paternal obligations in such a case, you WILL have a burden of responsibility. There is no way around that at all. If it gets too terribly messy, difficult, etc, you may well wind up with ALL the responsibility. Keep that in mind.
I am an overall submissive person. It is just part of who I am. I have chosen to enter a dynamic whereby that submission is fully realized. I only have two choices in any situation. I can stay and obey or I can go. Stay or go, OP. Which is right for you? I don't know. I can only hope you are capable of looking at this without the fantasy shading everything. At the end of the day, we live in a real world as real people and our actions have real consequences. What does the real world have to say about all this? What are your real feelings about it, which by the way are perfectly valid? What are the real world consequences for you, your master, the men who father these children, and probably mostly importantly the children themselves? If upon examining these things you come to believe that this is good and right and can be done in a functional manner, then stay. If any of these gives you pause or your questions or concerns or internal proddings cannot be resolved, then go. This is incredibly huge, life altering, and cannot be entered into lightly. I have my own opinions. You have to create your own.
I sincerely hope everyone is being mature adults here. I sincerely hope no one is overlooking the very real needs of a real, live, human child. I sincerely hope the changes and what life will be like on the other side has been considered and is welcomed. I sincerely hope a lot of things. Most of all, I sincerely hope everyone stops and THINKS!
lovingpet
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