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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 8:51:43 AM

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It's hot and you are hot for enjoying it. Struggle, being "taken" and "overpowered" this is good stuff.

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 8:52:08 AM

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i find it fun to struggle a little every now and then and he likes it so it works out.

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 9:26:23 AM

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FR.

I love resisting. You'd better be prepared for a fight.

Can you over resist?

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 9:41:31 AM

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I love making him struggle and he absolutely loves the wriggling.

...Makes me remember he's sleeping all soundly right now without a care in the world. And I'm right here with my wooden spoon. *WEG*

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 9:42:27 AM

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Can you over resist?

I'd imagine that if you were told to stop resisting yet still struggled...

That could be seen as "over" resisting.

But if you aren't interrupted and just allowed to struggle until you are emotionally and physically exhausted...mmmm yummy.

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 10:00:14 AM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

Can you over resist?

I'd imagine that if you were told to stop resisting yet still struggled...

That could be seen as "over" resisting.

But if you aren't interrupted and just allowed to struggle until you are emotionally and physically exhausted...mmmm yummy.

Edited for grammar.

that could take hours, so i'd imagine i would have to be told to stop.

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 10:49:08 AM

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Struggling makes me melt into a gooey mess... I love it so much. It pushes me over the edge knowing he is in control and feeling his strength against mine (mine being measurably less) and I must say it affects me emotionally and physically and can even start sending me to subspace.

The thought of him holding both of my wrists with just one of his hands while the other is free to do what it wants..... I want to writhe about just thinking about it.... yummy!!!!

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 11:05:04 AM

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I was thinking of this topic more and more.... and I'd like to add that even more than the physical struggle, the mental struggle turns me on! I love to see a conflict of desires in a man's eyes. That is one of the reasons I love predicament bondage so much. Also, I find that when they struggle to bring themselves to do something they have never done before, that can be particularly hot. I feed off the fear!

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 11:29:52 AM

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that could take hours, so i'd imagine i would have to be told to stop.

Maybe you'll find someone who has just as much endurance as you do.

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RE: Struggling - 1/31/2010 5:46:24 PM

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pyro, I think it would be easy to over-resist, especially if the submissive is a physically powerful man, and the dominant is a petite woman. I know that Maria of allthatjaz has mentioned that Steve sometimes overpowers her when she's in a more dominant mood. My Master is a lot taller and a bit stronger than I am, but only weighs about 25 pounds more than I do. I've had some martial arts training, which he hasn't been interested in, and he's not masochistic. So, I don't resist with as much force as I have in the past with a partner who weighed twice as much as I did and *liked* getting bitten hard and full-power sparring (from me, he pulled his strikes and such). Even then, I didn't go for groin shots or other things that were likely to do damage. With my Master, my struggling is almost purely passive (attempting to pull away, writhing around, maybe a little nibble), and even then, I don't jerk suddenly or pull away as hard as I could - I don't want to actually get away, just feel him holding me down, my muscles working against his.

I don't enjoy the mental struggle as much as I do the physical struggle, but overcoming my limitations, and the thrill when I succeed, and his being pleased with me, feel very good at the end (and often during) those times when I am wrestling with my fears, or enduring something I dislike. Resistance play is just yummy though!

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