sexyred1 -> RE: Sexual sadists and kinky people NOT in the 'bdsm community' (1/31/2010 5:21:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha I have met some subs who had "kinky girlfriends" in the past who would not go so far as to label themselves as "into the lifestyle" or would even shy away from terminology like Mistress or dominatrix (what pop culture tends to call women who are sadists, whether or not they are pro). Yet the ladies were undeniable kinky, enjoyed delivering pain, etc. They just didn't read about it, research it, go to bdsm events, or really care. They just introduced their "urges" to partners and indulged when they felt like it. Surely there are more outrageously kinky people out there - even though they really don't participate (in forums like this), go to fetish events, or even label themselves as "lifestylers." I am curious how many female subs, for example, had met (in their vanilla passing) men who were deliciously kinky and good at it, but not really lifestylers and had no desire to get into that. Were these men good at being dominant, or capable "tops" but just not "lifestylers"? And what about sub men - have you met women, through dating and experimenting, that honestly enjoyed being cruel and kinky, but weren't into the lifestyle per se? Akasha As to the bolded part, yes, each and every one of them were not in the lifestyle, and some had never even tried the kink out They were just kinky bastards who were lucky to run into me. [:D]
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