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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 4:24:23 AM   
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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 6:28:43 AM   
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Dude, Sadist..... that was just awesome. Being a writer, I can appreciate that last post you made. I haven't yet decided about the context, but the content was awesome. 

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 7:39:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Dear TapedxCookie,
Your posts have been among the more engaging threads I have ever seen because they separate CM members into two groups, those that see what you are doing and those that don’t. It has been a fantastic source of entertainment and I have come to deeply appreciate your exhibitionistic kink and capacity for crying and complaining in public. You are soooooooo hot!

You are more attractive now than ever before . . . I love exhibitionists who ask for advice and ignore it so they can have a public calamity. But you got the moxy of a professional victim and shun your own accountability with style and grace that is so eloquent, all fall for it but a few of us who are more seasoned, like Domi & the.dark. Personally, I really like the way your boobs jiggle as you wriggle and squirm trying to blame everything on that Dom and dodge your own culpability. I think it is an admirable trait and wriggling and jiggling is very good exercise. You should do it daily!

The thought of all your bouncy cleavage, while you cry and complain about your perils has truly touched my heart and spurred my loins. I think I love you. We would make such a HOT pair and the relationship would be perfect, we have identical goals. I like it when girls cry and you like to cry. It would be a GREAT relationship. And unlike that other bastard Dom, I promise only to ‘force’ you to do things that are within the negotiated boundaries of your 'total surrender'. (yes, you have to read the fine print when dealing with the ResidentSadist)

Aside from our solid relationship foundation based in cultural interests and common life goals, like you had with your last Dom, our BDSM encounters will be a harmony of fantastic orchestration. I’ll do things to you and you can complain and cry while I do it. The more tears you shed, the better it will be for me. I really like it when you cry and tears streak mascara down your cheeks and onto your pouting lips. I can picture your blurry bloodshot eyes looking up at me, pleading for mercy. The black stained tears will tremble and shake on the precipice of your quivering lip before falling to splash on your heaving breasts. Your tears cum so easy, from the most basic things. Life and our relationship will be so simple and rewarding. It makes me want to torture you and fuck you at the same time. I can imagine your legs flailing, that look in your eye, your tears, lips, the crying, the climactic peak with bloody screams for mercy . . . oh the ecstasy of it all will only be reinforced by your muffled complaints in the quaking, orgasmic aftermath. . . it would be heaven.

After our passionate encounters, you can take your quivering lips, soaking wet breast and hobble bowlegged to the laptop computer in my lovely red cage. There you can complain and cry to your friends and post more threads all over the forums. Deep in your heart you will be secure in the knowledge that the louder you cry, the more publicly you exhibit our connection, the more it will make me want you. Rest assured that all the crying and complaining . . . the exhibitionistic suffering . . . the pain and anguish will only serve to make you irresistible to me.

With Passion,
ResidentSadist


your sarcasm wasnt necessary and i dont appreciate it. I made a mistake, I've accepted it, I know that I put myself in that situation and I own up to the fact that it was MY decisions that lead this to happen. I did not intend to start such a big fuss on the forums, I am sorry it happened, and honestly, if I could, I would have this thread closed to further posting.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 7:58:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TapedxCookie
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Dear TapedxCookie,
Your posts have been . . .

your sarcasm wasnt necessary and i dont appreciate it. I made a mistake, I've accepted it, I know that I put myself in that situation and I own up to the fact that it was MY decisions that lead this to happen. I did not intend to start such a big fuss on the forums, I am sorry it happened, and honestly, if I could, I would have this thread closed to further posting.

Yes, my sarcasm is necessary but think of it more as a love letter.

Even now you display your exhibitionistic wriggle saying you wish you hadn’t posted in the first place but take the stand you have a right to admonish me for my post. I have read your other threads, would you wriggle out of all those too? And if so, then why do you continue to post if you aren’t an exhibitionistic princess? Your displays never fail to turn me on, you are soooo hot . . . are you flirting?





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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:08:48 AM   
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OOOO girl (tapped) you are in trouble now!!!!!!  Quick, change your name, flee the country, seek asylum.  RS is sniffing at your trail.....You can run, but can you HIDE?

Psst...I have a friend (everhope) who runs the runaway submissive underground railroad.   Contact her.  I'm sure she can keep you safe from RS!

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:10:46 AM   
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xx, nice detective work. I agree with your take on all this, for what it's worth.


Detective work? What on EARTH does this have to do with either of you. Like to instigate much?

It wouldn't have anything to do with me except that it unfolded on a public board and to read the thread, I had to wade through all that stuff. If you want something to remain private, I recommend conducting it in private. I don't see how what I said is instigating anything at all.

I'm sorry you're stressed and on pain meds. That sucks. But please don't take it out on me.


I would say its my fault. I commented on it days later. It would have died out without that. I certainly have no ill will toward you gals.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:12:29 AM   
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Where is that hot cleavage shot??


I think that photo so exposed my chest that I got the flu

Actually, I thought perhaps I should remove it because it shows too much of me, and I did not like the emails....



I was having a hard time comprehending what you said with that photo. I was spending to much time cleanign up my drool.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:18:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: TapedxCookie
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Dear TapedxCookie,
Your posts have been . . .

your sarcasm wasnt necessary and i dont appreciate it. I made a mistake, I've accepted it, I know that I put myself in that situation and I own up to the fact that it was MY decisions that lead this to happen. I did not intend to start such a big fuss on the forums, I am sorry it happened, and honestly, if I could, I would have this thread closed to further posting.

Yes, my sarcasm is necessary but think of it more as a love letter.

Even now you display your exhibitionistic wriggle saying you wish you hadn’t posted in the first place but take the stand you have a right to admonish me for my post. I have read your other threads, would you wriggle out of all those too? And if so, then why do you continue to post if you aren’t an exhibitionistic princess? Your displays never fail to turn me on, you are soooo hot . . . are you flirting?





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"sniffs", you never write me a love letter. I always flirt!

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:21:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: TapedxCookie
quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Dear TapedxCookie,
Your posts have been . . .

your sarcasm wasnt necessary and i dont appreciate it. I made a mistake, I've accepted it, I know that I put myself in that situation and I own up to the fact that it was MY decisions that lead this to happen. I did not intend to start such a big fuss on the forums, I am sorry it happened, and honestly, if I could, I would have this thread closed to further posting.

Yes, my sarcasm is necessary but think of it more as a love letter.

Even now you display your exhibitionistic wriggle saying you wish you hadn’t posted in the first place but take the stand you have a right to admonish me for my post. I have read your other threads, would you wriggle out of all those too? And if so, then why do you continue to post if you aren’t an exhibitionistic princess? Your displays never fail to turn me on, you are soooo hot . . . are you flirting?





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I never said that I wished I hadnt posted this thread in the first place, I recieved alot of helpful insight becuase of this thread. Which is the reason I even posted anything on this forum, to get some insight. Granted, yes the first thread I made I didnt take the advice, which I should have. So, to everyone who posted their advice on my first thread, Thank you and I am sorry I didnt listen.

As far as why I continue to post, becuase this is a forum full of knowledgable people, and seeing as how I am a "beginner" to this lifestyle, I am learning. Although, as I am seeing, maybe it would be better if I didnt speak up, if I just read the forums and kept my questions to myself.


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:36:42 AM   
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The reason I mentioned why I was attracted to him in the first place was because someone asked me. Not that I was attempting to defend him.

Also, my comment to Redmagic was simply an observation that he lives in the same part of the country as I do... That's all, wasn't a come on or anything of that nature. I live in very rural Iowa and finding people sooo close that share the same kink as I do is odd for me.

Take whatever assertions you will, run with them if that's what you wish.

I am fully aware that I am in desperate need of some self-reflecting thought, to figure out why I allow myself to be in such toxic relationships. I also am aware that what happened is completely my fault.


It is NOT completely your fault BY ANY MEANS. You had a scary experience because you allowed too much and made a bad decision. Any form of abuse is squarely on the shoulders of the abuser. Not yours. You simply have more power to prevent bad situations than you think you have.



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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:45:27 AM   
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ForeverO
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

What? No jokes? Is this your first real post?

i only first saw this thread yesterday. i cannot be on as much as you are. i do have other things to do.


Cut me a fucking break. You have all the time in the world to post your ridiculous, research paper styled questions as though you are writing a book on BDSM. Apparently, you are simply saying that you are so busy posting all the innocuous bullshit that crosses your mind that you don't have the time to read posts from other people.



Wait a minute, "research paper styled questions" sounds, suspiciously to me like "intelligent and critically thought out questions". I suppose those are bad things then.

All she said was keeping up with all the threads would take all her time. What's so hard to understand about that?

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:50:51 AM   
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i for one do not try to pass myself off as Dr. Phil. i do not have a degree and i am not a therapist therefore, all i am qualified to do and all that i should be doing is wishing the Op well and hope for the best for her.

For those of you who have never made a bad mistake in a relationship or otherwise, please step aside so that us mere flawed mortals have more room to support each other.


What the fuck???

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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

i for one do not try to pass myself off as Dr. Phil. i do not have a degree and i am not a therapist therefore, all i am qualified to do and all that i should be doing is wishing the Op well and hope for the best for her.


Then wish her well and shut the fuck up.  Why did you then feel the need to continue on with this little diddy?...


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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned
For those of you who have never made a bad mistake in a relationship or otherwise, please step aside so that us mere flawed mortals have more room to support each other.



You are right you are no Dr. Phil.

It would be appreciated by damn near everyone on this site if you would keep all of your opinions in the future strictly to yourself.

Step aside. Few have time for your parade of horribly flawed and redundant posts.


And groupthink once again. No one can assert a different viewpoint on here.

I gotta say, I found myself choking on my pbj sandwich when I read the words "horribly flawed and redundant" from YOU domiguy.  Good one.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 8:58:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lucylucy
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ORIGINAL: lucylucy
xx, nice detective work. I agree with your take on all this, for what it's worth.


Detective work? What on EARTH does this have to do with either of you. Like to instigate much?

It wouldn't have anything to do with me except that it unfolded on a public board and to read the thread, I had to wade through all that stuff. If you want something to remain private, I recommend conducting it in private. I don't see how what I said is instigating anything at all.

I'm sorry you're stressed and on pain meds. That sucks. But please don't take it out on me.

I would say its my fault. I commented on it days later. It would have died out without that. I certainly have no ill will toward you gals.

No ill will here, just yays and hugs . . . lots of 'em.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:02:09 AM   
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I thought it was rather odd that she dismissed your invite, after commenting HERSELF that you were so close with a *hehe*. Her reasons "why not "were a bit dismissive too. 
agirl

Yeah.  She's viewed my profile; I've never viewed hers.  I don't list a city on my profile, though I do list a city on another site, and even so, she knows we only live 40 miles from each other.  She sees my photo every time she logs in.  And yet, no.

This strikes me as fundamentally unbalanced.  I didn't follow her last thread at all, and I know almost nothing about her, but I'm happy to meet her anyway.  Why?  Because it's just lunch, and reality is more important than online any day.  Meanwhile, she's done far more work to find out about me than I have to find out about her, but she's unwilling to meet me in real.  These are hallmarks of someone who is more comfortable with online than reality.  Her defense of ForeverOwned, who everyone knows makes shit up and is the postergirl for online fantasy BDSM, is further indication of this.  She feels comfortable reading content-free posts, because they are more comforting to her than reality.

Seriously, TapedCookie, I strongly recommend you start meeting as many people (nonsexually) as possible in real life.  There are munches in Des Moines, Ames, and several other places throughout the state.  There's nothing like reality to help ground all this stuff.  Don't put too much stock in anybody's posts on the internet.



For someone so anti-online, it's pretty interesting how often you post on a BDSM website forum.

And for someone who just attacked two different women in this post as being more comfortable with online fantasy than in real life, I find it interesting how you just admitted that you would meet a person you barely know anyday because it's more important than online. This indicates clearly to me that you are yourself only online because you have no opportunities in real life, and that you are quite desperate to meet people.

The compulsive measuring of time and effort is just a defense mechanism to camouflage this reality.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:05:33 AM   
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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:09:56 AM   
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oh. wendy's back.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:18:35 AM   
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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:31:51 AM   
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Had something to say there winsome?

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:32:18 AM   
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Ditto all that.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/12/2010 9:34:38 AM   
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oooooh...love the outfit, Lexey!!

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