Emperor1956
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As someone old enough to remember a time before safer sex, I hate condoms but recognize their necessity. In addition, while I am not huge, I have enough girth to make some condoms a bit difficult to put on. Those Durex ones for me do not come off although they often feel like it, which is a good thing. I have used them enough to know that they don't come off which allows a bit of relaxation and actual enjoyment. I got a question for people. If I am with a fluid bonded partner, I can slip it in, pull out and do something else, get a bit of oral, slip it back in, etc which allows for a great deal of spontaneity. However, with a condom I haven't figured out quite how to do that. Anyone got any ideas? I remember those days, too. And that reminded Me of the type of condoms we used then -- Lambskin. If you are preventing pregnancy ONLY (THEY ARE NOT HIV or other STD SAFE!!!) lambskin condoms are much much more tactile. They have their problems, too (a bit baggy, and sometimes they feel like they've fallen off) but they were unequalled for sensation. My favorite brand, Fourex, was discontinued a while ago apparently, but Trojan and some other makers still make them. And not to be Mr. Buzzkill, but remember that there are several STDs that condoms do not reliably prevent transmission of. As for some ideas of creative play, I just keep a condom supply around, and a nice fresh washcloth...so you can strip the rubber off, and play naked, and put another one on when you need to. (The washcloth takes care of that jelly squick some partners have.) Of course, if you are wearing the condom to prevent STD transmission in the first place, this on-again, off-again behavior will increase your risk of misuse, which increases your risk, period. E. back in Health class mode.
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